Most people don’t understand the difference between confidence & humility.
Ever met someone who’s like, “I’m the best!”
That’s not confidence, that’s ego.
True confidence is knowing you’re awesome but not perfect.
Humility is knowing a lot but also knowing there’s more to learn.
When you mix them, you get someone who’s cool without being a jerk.
It’s like having the superpower of being nice.
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No amount of anxiety will change your future.
No amount of regret will change your past.
Peace is found in acceptance:
• Accept imperfection.
• Accept uncertainty.
• Accept the uncontrollable.
You don’t have to understand.
You don’t have to tolerate.
You don’t have to forget something.
But if you want peace, you must accept it.
Acceptance is peace.
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The point is not to become a “dangerous cold person”, it’s more about becoming an unbothered, accepting, content, and focused person.
Cool not cold.
Authenticity comes with risks.
The risk of being misunderstood.
The risk of not fitting in.
The risk of internal conflict between honouring your authentic self vs the pressure to be socially accepted.
However, despite its challenges, authenticity is always worth it.
Authenticity is the daily practice of letting go of who we think we’re supposed to be and embracing who we are.
Stay true to yourself.
People respond to authenticity.
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As I grew older, I learned that the key to surviving the day is not positivity, it’s acceptance.
Accepting that not all days are goood,
accepting that not all days are happy,
you will have bad days,
you will make mistakes,
you will fail,
you will mess up,
everything is not going to fall into place and that’s fine.
Positivity is a choice.
It’s your choice to choose it.
And sometimes if the day doesn’t turn out to be the best, then you have to accept it as it is with head held high in hope for a better tomorrow.
Acceptance is the key.
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Mistakes are meant for learning, not repeating.
Mistake without correction is another mistake, and that’s unacceptable.
People would learn from their mistakes if they weren’t so busy denying them.
Most people make similar mistakes again & again, which puts a big question mark on their personality/words/actions/motives. In general, that’s the biggest turn off.
Everyone makes mistakes.
Very few are brave enough to admit them.
We learn something new from every mistake.
Make new mistakes, but never repeat them.
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Most people think they are too clever with their approach & choice of words, and then there are very few others like me who just enjoy laughing at these people while saving my energy by not explaining things to such fools.
I don’t trust words.
I even question actions.
But,
I never doubt patterns.
Such people say they have a personality, but if you look closer it’s just a pattern.
Most people live for people’s acceptance, and at the end they suffer with rejection.
Most people are broken, but instead of fixing their own life they feel projecting own trauma on others is the way to advance towards growth.
You must understand there’s a difference between people around you & people who are there for you. Always be vigilant about the people you choose.
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There are three solutions to every problem:
accept it,
change it,
or
leave it.
If you can’t accept it, change it.
If you can’t change it, leave it.
Study yourself and your behaviour more than anything.
Self awareness is the key to true confidence.
No one can tell you who you are when you already know.
No amount of anxiety will change your future.
No amount of regret will change your past.
Peace is found in acceptance:
• Accept imperfection.
• Accept uncertainty.
• Accept the uncontrollable.
You don’t have to understand.
You don’t have to tolerate.
You don’t even have to forget something.
But if you want peace, you must accept it.
Acceptance is peace.
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