DISCIPLINE IS ABOUT MAKING CHOICE AFTER CHOICE CONSISTENTLY THAT’S ALIGNED WITH OUR INTENTIONS.
IN ANY MOMENT, WE CAN MAKE A CHOICE THAT SUPPORTS AN INTENTION. OR WE CAN MAKE A CHOICE THAT SUPPORTS AN OLD HABIT, A LACK OF INTENTION OR A FEAR.
ATTITUDE, HAPPINESS, OPTIMISM, KINDNESS, GIVING, RESPECT, GROWTH, LOYALTY, TRUTHFUL COMMUNICATION, WHATEVER CHOICE YOU MAKE, MAKES YOU.
CHOOSE WISELY.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. If you are watching from USA, watch it for investment tips. If you are watching from any other part of the world, watch it for some general knowledge on money. I am a big fan ot Kevin O’Leary. I saw him giving a 100 score to someone for the first time, that too to an Indian guy. My blood goes back to eastern part of India. Parents are next to god in our culture. And nothing comes above family values & money management skills.)
DISCIPLINE IS ABOUT MAKING CHOICE AFTER CHOICE CONSISTENTLY THAT’S ALIGNED WITH OUR INTENTIONS.
IN ANY MOMENT, WE CAN MAKE A CHOICE THAT SUPPORTS AN INTENTION. OR WE CAN MAKE A CHOICE THAT SUPPORTS AN OLD HABIT, A LACK OF INTENTION OR A FEAR.
ATTITUDE, HAPPINESS, OPTIMISM, KINDNESS, GIVING, RESPECT, GROWTH, LOYALTY, TRUTHFUL COMMUNICATION, WHATEVER CHOICE YOU MAKE, MAKES YOU.
CHOOSE WISELY.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. If you are watching from USA, watch it for investment tips. If you are watching from any other part of the world, watch it for some general knowledge on money. I am a big fan ot Kevin O’Leary. I saw him giving a 100 score to someone for the first time, that too to an Indian guy. My blood goes back to eastern part of India. Parents are next to god in our culture. And nothing comes above family values & money management skills.)
PART OF BEING A MAN IS LEARNING TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR SUCCESSES AND FOR YOUR FAILURES. YOU CAN’T GO BLAMING OTHERS OR BEING JEALOUS. SEEING SOMEBODY ELSE’S SUCCESS AS YOUR FAILURE IS A CANCEROUS WAY TO LIVE.
Mama once said; “We don’t just entertain friends/relationships outta fun, we build them over time, we respect them & we keep them. That’s why never accept or serve discounted garbage“.
I was in my teen days. I was still getting pocket money from parents. I wasn’t able to understand those heavyweight words (right words). I thought my mum was talking about not buying discounted clothes/stuffs or wasting money on fastfood with friends during weekend trips. Most of my friends know i hate discounted clothes now too. In fact, i don’t have a single piece of clothing from any fast fashion brands.
Coming closer to my 30, now i am understanding that she told me not to hangout with people who have discounted/cheap personality/approach/attitude/mindset, It took me almost 14 years to figure out the real meaning behind those wise words. Being a MAN means progression/consistency of understanding, knowledge, acceptance & virtue while developing better habits.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Watch it to understand how your shopping habits are shaping a climate & humanitarian disaster. There’s a reason I never buy clothes from H&M, Zara, TK Maxx or any store/brand with 50% discount board. I buy clothes which cost at least a hundred quid or more, and i wear them for ages. They stay with me because, I know I have spent enough money to buy them. And i fully remember how much I paid, I have a photographic memory. Fun part is, I still have t-shirts, jackets, hoodies & sneakers from my 8th grade & engineering college days which fit perfectly even today. Half of them are stolen by my bestfriend DEMI, but I have no complaints on that, that stealing must continue, sometimes she looks good in my clothes & I adore her for good reasons. FYI, I am a sneakerhead & my love for watches is something divine.)
The most attractive thing about you should have less to do with your face and body, and more to do with your heart and how you treat other people. I am talking about kindness & empathy.
Let’s face it, we see an appearance first and have our first impression based on an appearance. Our appearance is where we can hide behind. But an appearance does not say anything about a character. Nowadays it seems that we judge each other on our appearance, who we are and what we stand for does not seem to matter. No effort is made to get to know the person behind an appearance.
It is our own mental attitude which makes the world what it is for us. Our thoughts make things beautiful, our thoughts make things ugly. Not our eyes. The whole world is in our minds. Learn to see things in proper light. Learn to see souls instead of bodies by using your mind instead of your eyes. LEARN TO SEE WHAT’S REAL.
Your attitude is what determines your day. Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it. The small things in life don’t need to be worried and stressed about so much. The alarm can be fixed. The tire can be replaced. The coffee can be refilled. The parking ticket can be paid. The keys can be found. The to-dos can get to-done. You can get enough sleep. You can get some food. Maybe a snickers or ice cream to satisfy your sweet tooth. Your life is great. You just have to allow it to be.
People don’t make you angry, you allow the anger to dwell within you. Circumstances don’t upset you, you allow yourself to get upset. You choose to worry, you choose to criticize, you choose to blame, and you choose to complain. No one else decides this for you. Choose the bright side & remember your HAPPINESS is your responsibility. (Previously posted it way back, not my words).
The attitude of “that’s just how I am, take it or leave it” is still a sign of immaturity. As an adult, it’s your responsibility to figure out which of your traits are toxic and are negatively impactful towards other people and the ones you love, and to eventually learn how to fix them.
At some point, we all gotta start making ourselves better individuals. If you truly believe you don’t have to change anything about yourself, even at the very least the worst in you, and that people will just have to deal with it. Then sorry, you’re still a child.
People need to learn that their actions do affect other people. So be careful what you say and do, it’s not always just about you. MATURITY DOESN’T MEAN AGE. IT MEANS SENSITIVITY, MANNERS AND HOW YOU REACT.
Choosing to be positive and having a grateful attitude is going to determine how you’re going to live your life.
POSITIVE MIND. GRATEFUL HEART. PEACE.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I don’t know why people are saying all kinds of dirty shit about her, she literally deserves a movie role or an Oscar for faking news reporting.) by
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