Life is majorly about two things;
1. The impact you leave on people & society with your way of living, thinking & behaviour.
2. The love that you get & give.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Only my friends know why i love basketball & i respect Shaq for his work+business ethics. Watch this video reason from 3.34 till next 2 minutes, those will be my rules for my kids in 2040.)
Nobody is perfect.
Equally important is knowing how to forgive yourself.
Do not obsess over your past mistakes.
The more you obsess and hold on to it, the more energy and power you give it.
So let it go, learn from it, and move on.
Forgive yourself for a mistake you made or something you’ve done that you now regret.
Allow yourself to let it go.
Leave all your inconsistent behaviour behind.
Learn to be in sync with life.
It can be your career, hobbies, relationship or your health, learn to be CONSISTENT if you want success in any field of your life.
Live with no regrets.
Life is fun, let it be.
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You can’t please everyone and you’re not supposed to.
I’ve taken a lot of criticism and even read horrible comments on the Internet, but I can’t let that bring me down.
I have to keep being who I am for the people in my life that matter and that will be enough.
Don’t try to please everyone, just focus on pleasing yourself.
Become a better version of yourself by remaining consistent in your path to life.
If someone is overcriticizing you, don’t feed into them by responding.
There is only one way to avoid criticism:
say nothing, be nothing, do nothing.
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I’ve seen busy people make time.
I’ve seen bad communicators communicate well.
I’ve seen bad texters respond quickly and write paragraphs.
I’ve seen people who “aren’t ready for a relationship” get ready in few conversations.
I’ve seen a girl proposing me in front of 24 friends to marry her ASAP on my birthday, who used to say “I DON’T NEED A MAN TO BE HAPPY” since 7 years.
(Hello Lioness😜).
A healthy adult relationship is one where both people in the relationship give and both receive.
There is a safe, equal and open exchange of ideas, communication, feelings, and thoughts and all perspectives are considered and valued.
There is also the freedom to respectfully challenge, heal, confront, and strengthen one another.
At the end what matters is a TRUTHFUL CONSISTENT person who gets you, no matter what’s coming.
If someone wants you, you won’t have to ask for effort.
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Eleven meaningful truths/lessons on life:
1. Average human life is relatively short.
2. You will only ever live the life you create for yourself.
3. Being busy doesn’t mean being productive.
4. Some kind of failure always occurs before success. And both success & failure can be equally amazing.
5. Actions without intentions are like walking without using legs, doesn’t make sense.
6. You don’t have to wait for an apology to forgive other people. There’s a tendency of CHEAP, it keeps getting CHEAPER with time.
7. Some people are simply the wrong match for you. Keep checking who’s coming for good time & who’s coming with good energy!!
8. It’s not other people’s job to LOVE you; it’s yours.
9. What you own is not who YOU are, it’s about how you purpose what you have.
10. Everything changes for the better.
11. Forever takes forever to build & behold. (Not my words).
Never regret being a good person to the wrong people.
Your behavior says everything about you,
and their behavior says enough about them.
– Marc & Angel.
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THE WORLD IS MY CHURCH.
MY ACTIONS ARE MY PRAYER.
MY BEHAVIOR IS MY CREED.
-STEVE MARABOL.
TIME decides who you meet in life,
your heart decides who you want in your life,
and your behavior decides who stays in your life.
Respect any person who can put their ego aside and say; “I made a mistake. I apologise and I’m correcting my behaviour”.
I have seen most people entering & exiting relationships with a bad taste in mouth about their previous partner, i experienced that bad taste just once in my life. A lesson which taught me: “CHEAP GETS CHEAPER WITH TIME”. When somebody offers you a lackluster behaviour, just recite the previous bold line i mentioned & never forget YOU ARE THE MOST EXPENSIVE THING IN THIS WORLD.
Life is all about being a better you with time, no matter you are alone or with someone in any kind of relationship/commitment. If someone isn’t helping you in this journey to be a better you, that’s not your person. Prioritise those who prioritise you.
Few friends still questioning “Whether i am dating Demi?”
Answer is a huge NO.
Yes I adore her character, elegance, intelligence & an open mindset to receive everything. That’s the only person with whom i can have a conversation about data analytics to Coco Chanel. Very few people can be that versatile. What sets both of us apart is “I really can’t remember what’s the last time i called her & she didn’t answer my call”. No doubt i have some University pals who are on a 24/7 alert mode to join my stupid weekend plans, but Demi does that no matter whether she is in my city or somewhere else. That’s one thing about her i will forever be grateful, we are best friends for a reason and that’s never changing.
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10 SIGNS YOU LACK PERSONAL BOUNDARIES;
1. You fail to speak up when mistreated.
2. You give away too much of your time.
3. You agree when you actually feel like disagreeing.
4. You feel guilty for dedicating time to yourself.
5. You feel taken for granted by others.
6. You have toxic relationships.
7. You have chronic fear about what others think of you.
8. You over-share details about your life with others.
9. You constantly feel like the victim.
10. You attract people who try to control or dominate you.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. A tiny message for my bestie bitch Demi; Be a good aunt & get this toy for my future kids. I promise i will let you babysit them when i am out on a vacation.🤣😜)
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