Very little is needed to make a happy life. It’s all within yourself, in your way of thinking.
-Marcus Aurelius.
Very little is needed to make a happy life. It’s all within yourself, in your way of thinking.
-Marcus Aurelius.
Most of us humans suffer from something called “Black and white thinking” also known as polarized thinking. This is an all-or-nothing mindset that things happen either all the way or not at all. When extremes become the norm, you’ll start to think that there are only two outcomes to any situations wild success or terrible failure.

You might start to believe that people are either all good or all bad or that they must be either a loyal friend or an enemy. This cognitive distortion is completely unrealistic. It erases all gray areas or spectrums and leads you to believe things that are often untrue. Reality doesn’t exist in extremes and seeing it like that is unfair to yourself and others.
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Being observant is fun, once in a while just enjoy sitting back. Just observing everything around you, crazy pretensious people, the constant postings on social media, the scandals and disrespectful behavior of actors/politicians/government officials, all may split you off because there is more to life. So just take a break, observe everything & keep on reminding yourself that; you must never become something this level of mediocre one day.

We must believe in being a true self, first you be the person you expect to welcome to your life, radiate the energy you want to be around. Learn to be humble and encouraging to all, but don’t put your time and trust if people don’t deserve. I have a simple word for it, KARMA & I do believe in it. So, be observant to not make similar stupid mistakes & create GOOD KARMA.
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To accomplish great things, we must not only act, but also dream, not only plan, but also believe.
– Anatole France.
It’s dumb to believe that your best days are behind you. When we’re young, It’s common to hear older people tell us that we’re living the best days of our lives. Although that may be true for them, It doesn’t have to be true for you. When great things happen in our lives, It’s normal to feel bored or to be underwhelmed by the events that came after, maybe you spend a year abroad or experience the best day of your life. And once you return to reality, everything pales in comparison. This remarkable memory might be in your past.

But surely there are more great things still to come. If you want to be happier, drop the belief that your past will always be better than the future. Looking forward to what’s to come will permit those things to arrive. As i always say, TOMORROW IS ALWAYS AN UPGRADE TO OUR TODAY.
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Every lie is a story which isn’t woven to reality, basically such stories never mean logic or sense because of a liar’s previous track record. People who follow a truthful life are different, such people portray their life with confidence. & Confident people don’t lie to themselves. They also don’t tell themselves things like; I’m too old, I’m not smart enough or I’m not attractive enough. They don’t hide behind denial or limiting beliefs that simply offer an excuse to remain stuck in the status quo. They are real with themselves even when the truth seems daunting. Live for yourself.

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Being passionate towards something or having just an idea is not enough. You have to work towards it to monetize it. Passion means nothing if it’s not paying you. But never discard your ideas, even if they seem funny, weird or unorthodox. Embrace your creativity and follow through with your ideas. If you do this, you will achieve something great and others will wonder how you did it!! The thing is many people have great ideas. But most of them are afraid to follow up and implement them because they seem too far-fetched. There is a lack of being real and that results in lack of passion towards own dreams/ideas.
Dreams & ideas are always a far-fetched thing till you put a deadline and convert them into a goal. Believe in yourself & your ideas.
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There is a reason why i hate this word “SORRY” and there is also a reason i appreciate those who disagree with me sensibly over serious matters. Let me answer why!!
First, stop apologizing for no reason. Saying sorry constantly without giving it a second thought doesn’t earn much respect & it doesn’t make any sense as well. There is a time and a place for apologies. Sometimes you make mistakes that affect others, you must apologize there. But stop tossing around that word everywhere for nothing. Next, stand up for what you believe. Have you ever come across someone who simply nods their head repeatedly!?! It just seems to agree with everything you say. You can tell that they’re not giving much thought to what you’re saying. It gets meaningless after a while as they just say yes to everything. Those who politely disagree and stand up for themselves get greater respect. It’s important to have a mind of your own.
Don’t be afraid to stand up for what you believe and at the same time make sure you do it in a sensible respectful manner without being SORRY for your words.
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You can overcome real difficulties, it’s the imaginary ones which seem hard & unconquerable. Difficulties & obstacles make the accomplishment more fun. Condition is; YOU MUST DREAM, BELIEVE, PLAN & ACT.
All I can say is; LIFE IS FUN, SO ARE THE DIFFICULTIES. No matter you are moving ahead or not, TIME will keep on marching ahead. Enjoy the ride.
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I am not interested in religion or any such matter related to GOD. Correction, actually I kinda believe in GOD but I struggle to believe there are different GODS for different religions. There is definitely something/someone positive guiding us from somewhere. If there is a GOD, he is around us or within us.
I also believe there is no such thing called heaven up above, or else we might have seen it already while traveling in flight or our satellites might have spotted in space near international space station. This EARTH is our heaven or name it hell if you want, we have to work towards making it what we want. We are what we believe & what we create.
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