When I was fighting depression, I remember hearing this expression and not understanding it at first.
When I decided to implement it in my life, a whole new world opened up for me.
Change the negative, self-loathing thoughts to positive, self-affirming ones.
When you’re positive about yourself and everything around you; you begin to see the world in a different light.
Your life today is what you make of it.
Be mindful of the tone of your thoughts.
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We want solutions to PROBLEMS quickly.
But, some problems are beyond our control.
And some problems are solved by tolerating them.
With time,
Situation changes,
Our mindset changes,
Our needs change,
And our maturity level changes.
At some point of time, we don’t even care whether some problems get solved or not.
An intelligent individual is not someone who solves every problem,
but someone who knows which problems to solve and which problems to tolerate.
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BRUTAL LIFE LESSONS;
1. No one will ever be able to make you feel loved unless you love yourself.
2. We will all eventually become old and unattractive in the eyes of society.
3. You can’t always get what/who you want.
4. Love, dating, and relationship can’t be figured out logically.
They require empathy, vulnerability, truth, consistency and honesty.
5. You can’t change others.
6. The person who cares less has the most power in a relationship.
7. When in love, everyone becomes an idiot.
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Take chances.
Strive to be the person who does things differently, because beautiful things are disappearing each day, and you cannot live your life according to the rules of those who have created a dying world.
You have to rewrite the rules.
You have to strive for more.
Just work to differentiate between the person you truly are, and the person the world has told you to be.
Figure out how you want to live your life on your own terms.
Figure out how to take up space within your own definition of what it means to live fully, and wholly, and in pursuit of the things that truly move you, inspire you, and add a rich happiness to your life.
Stand up for a future that is your own.
This is how revolutions were started.
This is how change occurs.
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To attract better, you have to become better.
You can’t do the same things and expect change.
Transform your mindset.
Upgrade your habits.
Think positive.
Be optimistic.
Expect big from yourself.
Be hopeful and consistent with your evolution.
It all starts with you and how you feel about yourself.
In the process, enjoy being yourself.
Life is fun, let it be.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Big fan of Key & Peele. I had to share it for good reasons.)
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Constantly analyze yourself.
Figure out why certain things upset you.
Question your own motives.
Understand your behavior.
This creates a pathway for change.
Acknowledging why you do the things you do is the first step in shifting out of toxic patterns.
BE TRUE TO YOURSELF FIRST.
BE REAL & BE A HAPPENING AUTHENTIC VERSION OF YOURSELF.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. West blames Russia on invading a democratic European nation. Russia sites own reasons that may or may not seem reasonable to most people. I am not in support of both. This war displaced some 7 million people, we all must know the latest changes in map after the referendum.)
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If we want to see success in our lives, we must intentionally work towards what we’re purposed to do.
We cannot get distracted by anything outside of our purpose or compromise our creativity, vision, or convictions because we believe that we’ll obtain more success or get more recognition or praise through our change in direction.
It doesn’t work like that.
Because, success is connected to purpose- not trends of popularity.
One of the definitions of success is “the accomplishment of one’s goals”.
We have to keep OUR GOALS in front of us, not someone else’s.
So, stay on track.
Believe in yourself and your purpose.
Trust that as you stay faithful to what you know you ought to be doing, you will experience astronomical success that will leave you with a sense of fulfillment and will impact the world around you.
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8 THINGS THAT CHANGE YOUR LIFE IN ONE YEAR;
1. Stop complaining and appreciate how lucky you are everyday.
2. Embrace loneliness and reinvent yourself in the process.
3. Say goodbye to the people that don’t bring positive energy into your life.
4. Throw off the TV, limit social media apps and set Internet controls.
5. Pick one skill you want to cultivate and put all your effort into developing it.
6. Commit to the goals you set and never look back.
7. Sweat every day to boost your mood.
8. Fail forward. Learn from every mistake you make.
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Constantly analyze yourself.
Figure out why certain things upset you.
Question your own motives.
Understand your behavior.
This creates a pathway for change.
Acknowledging why you do the things you do is the first step in shifting out of toxic patterns.
Remember;
Most of your stress comes from the way you respond, not the way life is.
Adjust your attitude.
Change how you see things.
Look for the good in all situations.
Take the lesson and find new opportunities to grow.
Let all the extra stress, worrying, and overthinking go.
BE AN AUTHENTIC VERSION OF YOURSELF.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Big fan of Key & Peele, I had to share this. WELCOME TO DEMOCRACY.)
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