It’s okay if you don’t know what to feel, if you don’t know what you want and if you can’t figure things out as you go. It’s okay to not want something you worked so hard on getting after realizing, it wasn’t what you thought it was. It’s okay to change your mind, to make mistakes, to walk away from someone you once loved-from something that once meant the world to you.
It’s okay because this is your life, your cause, your body, your beliefs, your mind, your heart, and your feelings. You don’t need validation from no one other than you. And I hope it doesn’t take you a lifetime to realize that.
We yearn for connection, yet isolate ourselves. We seek love, but fear loss. We dream for someday, instead of trying for today. We want change, but don’t want to change. We over-consume, then wonder why there’s no space to create. We love the ocean, yet buy plastic. We advocate for education, then bury our students in loans. We want health, but for a price. We believe in equality, but struggle to bridge the gap of inequality. We ask for better leaders, but don’t think to lead. We wish for a better world, but not at the cost of comfort and convenience.
There’s a disconnect here. And it’s not any one persons fault. The world is made up of both beauty and brokenness. Most of the time, I believe we have our hearts in the right place. The problem is how overwhelming it all seems, but change is made up of small moments.
Change happens when we have been hurt, but choose not to act from our hurt. Change happens when we see someone who seems upset, and ask how we can support them. Change happens when we don’t pretend to have all the answers, but are willing to ask the uncomfortable questions.
The truth is, if we knew the whole story behind everyone’s actions, we would see why they are the way they are. And it doesn’t excuse it, but compassion is the birthplace of change. A COMPASSIONATE HEART IS THE KEY TO CHANGE.
You are being presented with a choice: evolve or remain the same. If you choose to remain unchanged, you will be presented with the same challenges, the same routine, the same storms, the same situations, until you learn from them, until you love yourself enough to say “no more”, until you choose change.
If you choose to evolve, you will connect with the strength within you, you will explore what lies outside the comfort zone, you will awaken, you will become, you will be what you want. You have everything you need. Choose to evolve.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Shared it because i am a big fan of Key & Peele. And this girl’s name should be DEMI instead of EMILY).
1- Do something you’ve been procrastinating on. What’s on your to-do list that’s been sitting there? Do it first thing in the morning, and get it out of the way. You’ll feel great about yourself.
2- Get active. Doing something is almost always better than not doing anything. Of course, doing something could lead to mistakes, but mistakes are a part of life. That’s how we learn. Without mistakes, we’d never get better. So don’t worry about those. Just do something. Get off your butt and get active physically, or active by taking steps to accomplish something.
3- Act positive. More than just thinking positive, you have to put it into action at right time. Action, actually is the key to developing self-confidence. It’s one thing to learn to think positive, but when you start acting on it, you change yourself, one action at a time. (Not my words)
(This not so old screenshot got nothing to do with the post above. It’s a small disclaimer to few of my part assholic university mates. Me & Demi, we got a ting going on since 17th century. We are bestfriends & yes we had a fight like we usually do. This dumb blonde bitch took almost an hour to reach me. Then we both had to walk a kilometre to reach car parking area. I have a backpain issue & i was little irritated because of that. Later we hugged it out after swimming, workout & some wine+pizza. Get a life & stop poking fun at what others do.)
Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness. Laugh when you can. Apologize when you should and let go of what you can. Take chances. Give everything and have no regrets. Life is too short to be unhappy. You have to take the good with the bad. Smile when you’re sad. Love what you got and always remember what you had. Always forgive but never forget. Learn from your mistakes but never regret. People change and things go wrong.
At the end always remember; life is fun & life goes on.
MONEY; doesn’t matter you like this word or not, it’s a vital part of our life. Planning a happy life without MONEY is like fooling around with yourself. MONEY is directly linked to our happiness because of certain basic human instincts. Every change in life also brings some lifestyle changes which requires more money to afford a stable life further.
Question is; “Is just MONEY enough to be HAPPY?”. Answer is; No. We need money, but we also want a sassy relationship, a stable career, a strong family bond, some reliable friends & you have to pack ton of gratitude in your heart. Creating a successful life takes lots of time & energy, MONEY is an amazing accelerator here.
Before all you have to tell yourself “MONEY IS A MAJOR DRIVER/ENABLER OF HAPPINESS”. Valuing MONEY doesn’t mean being materialistic, MONEY must be spent the right way or on moments/experiences/investments which will help you create memories while generating happiness”. See the video by CNBC MAKE IT below to understand what i am talking about.
(This post is for the people who have the desire & dedication to achieve goals/success in life with a purpose. Not talking to the ones who already know they can’t reach this level of financial stability. A soldier who already dropped weapon is of no one’s use.)
So even in the mundane, even in the ordinary, when it feels like you’re walking a plateau, do not give up.
Keep moving. be committed to finishing what you started. And when you do so, without a doubt you’ll find yourself making progress. It’s just a matter of showing up everyday with patience persistence. You got this. Days away from now, you’ll be in a different place and look back at this moment and thank that you continued to show up even in the hard and dry moments.
Things never stay the same, believe that. (Not my words).
Stop lying yourself about “I don’t have the time”. Thinking you don’t have time prevents you from taking Chances. It allows you to put the important stuff off until you really don’t have time. If something is important to you, you should try to make time for it.
Just changing the way you think about things is beneficial. Merely thinking about something important that’s worth spending time on can encourage you to actually get it done.
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