Tag: communication

Tru2Day973

You don’t have to communicate, keep in touch with, and be nice to people who are inconsistent & who affect your wellbeing in a negative way.
You don’t have to put up with something you don’t like.

Don’t make yourself stay in a toxic environment that will be ruining your life little by little.

True me.. Tap-869..

I’ve seen busy people make time.

I’ve seen bad communicators communicate well.

I’ve seen bad texters respond quickly and write paragraphs.

I’ve seen people who “aren’t ready for a relationship” get ready in few conversations.

I’ve seen a girl proposing me in front of 24 friends to marry her ASAP on my birthday, who used to say “I DON’T NEED A MAN TO BE HAPPY” since 7 years.
(Hello Lioness😜).

A healthy adult relationship is one where both people in the relationship give and both receive.
There is a safe, equal and open exchange of ideas, communication, feelings, and thoughts and all perspectives are considered and valued.
There is also the freedom to respectfully challenge, heal, confront, and strengthen one another.

At the end what matters is a TRUTHFUL CONSISTENT person who gets you, no matter what’s coming.
If someone wants you, you won’t have to ask for effort.

Tap OUT..♌

True me.. Tap-867..

How rare the trust is these days, how small the case looks like a strong bond based on openness and honesty, how small the chance seems to be a bit of loyalty and commitment?!?
Even smaller is the chance of a combination of the above, smaller and almost rare.

We all want it, in fact we all call it.
We claim to be loyal, to be open, to be honest,
but if we are all, how does distrust arise?
The disappointment?
The abuse of trust and the use of someone else?

Whether it’s love, friendship or family.
We all want the same thing.
We all want respect, trust, honesty, communication, openness and loyalty consistently.
Be aware of your choices, your actions and consequences before you harm a relationship, a relationship that is self-reliant today.
If you want them to be true to you, then stay true to yourself first. (Not my words).

Tap OUT..💪

True me.. Tap-862..

Find someone who loves you well.
Someone who never belittles you even in the heat of an argument.
Someone who is gentle with you, but does not treat you like you are fragile.
Someone who knows what you are capable of, and celebrates those pieces of you.
Not someone who is intimidated by your strength.
Someone who doesn’t make you feel guilty for being flawed.
It is not love’s job to punish you.
And remember the person you love is just as broken as you are when they fall short.
No one is perfect do not hold them to this standard.

Find someone who is patient, consistent, forgiving, and apologetic.
Someone who practices forgiveness freely and often.
Love someone who is humble, kind, and empathetic.
Not only with you, but with a beggar on the street, or a stranger in the supermarket.
Common courtesy is important.
Compassion is important.
Kindness is important.

Now that i mentioned something about relationships twice in a day, my university friends will again start questioning whether i am seeing someone! Let me answer even before that question pops up. Most of my posts are scheduled a month advance. Typing these two paragraphs today right before the post goes live.

I entertained something inconsistent for a while. Whatever happened, I am not strong enough to blame or hate anyone. Let’s say, that was my fault. I am in the process of becoming single. In Snapchat, if you see my hands resting on some girl’s fine 🍑, high chances it’s either my bestie DEMI or my neighbour girl. Yes, i have a ting towards athletic girls.♌ But I don’t have a TYPE whom i want to date. First i have to be ready, next the connection must vibe positivity & remain consistent, that’s all. The most beautiful part about a girl where my heart goes little weak; when i feel she is grabbing my arms little stronger looking into my eyes with a wide big bright smile, while crossing baby/kid’s clothing section in shopping malls. Everyone knows i adore kids, they are angelic to me. 2023 goal is to become the best A+ dad world has ever seen, and i will settle to be a good B+ boyfriend/husband i guess.😂

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-844..

Be happy on purpose.
Look for the rainbow when it’s raining.
Find the hope even when it’s bleak.
Choose forgiveness even when bitterness is easier.
Choose love even when it feels impossible.
Make it a habit to choose joy as much as you possibly can because life isn’t meant to be lived in disappointment or frustration.
It’s not meant to be lived in hatred.
It’s meant to be lived laughing so hard your stomach hurts.
It’s meant to be filled with soft moments of love.
It’s meant to be filled with tight hugs that last for minutes.
Life is meant to be lived happy.

Next few lines about this word “HAPPY”.
Only my 17 close friends know why sometimes i ask “Are you happy?” during our weekend meets.
Good people, good communication & good vibes are always welcome with a HAPPY heart.
(Pizzeria & Diwali, Thanks to all those who joined for a tiny celebration.)

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day944

Some people love you.
Some people love to be around you.
Some love what you can do for them.
Understand the difference.

Learn the difference between connection and attachment.
One brings consistency, the other is fakefuckery.
One gives you power, the other sucks the life out of you.

True me.. Tap-841..

When I give, it does not come with strings.
I’m not keeping track of what you owe me.
When I give, I choose to do so without ulterior motives.
I give because I’m genuine.
I give because I know what it’s like to be without.
To long for and be ignored.
To speak and not be heard.
To care for and have nothing returned.
When I give it’s because I get it.
It’s because I know the value in what I have in my heart and I refuse to let the world stop me from sharing that.
But when things start being taken for granted,
When you no longer appreciate my sincerity,
I won’t switch, I won’t get angry, and I won’t be spiteful.
I’ll just get smart and I’ll change your role in my life.
Because when I give, I’m all in.
But when I’m done, there’s no looking back.

I stopped sending paragraphs.
I stopped telling people how to behave.
I stopped entertaining retaliation & inconsistency.
I stopped telling people how important is communication.
I started walking away from all these crap, blocking, and distancing myself.
Life is becoming peaceful.
Sometimes being yourself & independent in life is better than being surrounded by halfass people.

(This post is not for those who came & vanished in past. It’s for my future person, in case you experience something is odd in me or missing in me, just say it and keep forgiving me till you experience the best of me.)

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-834..

Be with someone who is invested in you.
I don’t mean someone who thinks you’re cute or funny.
I mean someone who wants to know every insignificant detail about you.

Someone who wants to read every word you write.
Someone who wants to hear every note of your favorite song,
and watch every scene of your favorite movie.
Someone who wants to find every scar upon your body,
and learn where each one came from.
Someone who communicates with both head & heart.
Someone who knows why you prefer black coffee & sourdough pizza.
Someone who wants to know your favorite brand of toothpaste & shower gel,
and which quotes resonate deep inside your bones when you hear them.

There is a difference between attraction, interest & the word i mentioned INVEST.
Find the person who wants to learn every aspect of who you are, and hold onto them.

Every relationship/equation/friendship in your life are an immense investment of consistent time & energy, never offer discounts on that.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-820..

I like meeting new people,
it’s fun but i hardly take them seriously.
Let’s say I like meeting new people,
but i don’t like making new friends.
Most people are inconsistent+liars which bums my mood,
that’s just cheap in my eyes and i struggle to trust such morons.
I already have little over a dozen amazing friends who are my friends since 14th century or past life.
That’s the reason I never miss attention or affection.
Remember:
The only proof your people are real with you is whether they are consistent with their approach towards you. Rest others are there just for nothing – mental drain to be honest.

(Not a secret, i shoot my shots when she’s a peng ting. That’s the best part about being single.😜 There’s a party at Frank’s place next week. Shooting this song at my bestie DEMI, Amanda & Karo’s🍑.)

Next few lines are meant for the one who calls me SONNENPRINZ out of fun & adore.
Sonnenprinz means SUN PRINCE in German.
Meeting someone 7th time in 6 years,
actually 4th time since May-2021.
She drives 5 hours to drop me at airport & airport is just 30km away from my house.😂
I must agree that 45-minute drive from my house to airport is pure banter.
I still don’t know what i am bringing to the table,
but the vibe is 🔥🔥🔥🔥.
I love it when a girl questions or corrects my knowledge on engineering & business.
Basically i love it when someone proves me wrong.
Conversations are healing & communication is a sexy thing.

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day913

What kills a HUMAN soul?
Exhaustion, secrecy, inconsistency & fake fuckery.

And what brings a soul back from dead to a beautiful lively realm called LIFE?
Honest connection, consistent communication, grace & gratitude.

There are two types of songs in my playlist.

1. Songs which makes me do 200 push-ups or lift weights. Basically my favourite workout tracks.
2. Songs which make me dance. Best case scenario, salsa or b-boying dance-off with my friends when it’s a celebration or pouring or snowing.

This song fits bit of both 1 & 2. I had to share it.