Tag: control

Tru2Day1078

You will continue to suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you.
True power is sitting back and observing things with logic.
True power is restraint.
If words control you that means everyone else can control you.
Breathe and allow things to pass.

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There will be times when we feel knocked down at every turn.
Grief, depression, and so much more.
It’s important to preserve a sense of humor.
You have to remember to laugh at these things or they’ll control you.
Laughter will help you see the light in the darkest of times.
It’s more powerful than you’ll ever know.
Even at your lowest points, keep your sense of humor and use it.

Man, when you lose your laugh, you lose your footing.
– KEN KESEY.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I haven’t said anything on this Ukraine-Russia war situation till now. Other countries must stay away from joining this war because there’s a huge risk of further escalation.)

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Tru2Day1068

BE YOU FEARLESSLY.

Get up.
Get a routine.
Get outside when you can.
Get moving.
Get focused on the day in front of you.
(Not the month or year.)
Don’t live inside hypothetical catastrophes.
Focus on what you can control, even if it is your breathing.
Don’t beat yourself up for not baking banana bread.

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While you may not have control over everything that happens in life, you do have control over your mindset and perspective.

You can choose to think that you’re down on your luck, or you decide to see that you are being set-up for something extraordinary.

You can choose to focus on all the chaos happening around you, or you decide to look for the good that is emerging.

You can choose to live in a state of victimhood, or you can decide to live from the stance of a champion.

Make the decision that come what may come, this new year is going to be good and beautiful and something magical, not because the world’s problems finally faded away, but because you chose to start changing your perspective.

ONLY YOU CAN CONTROL YOUR PERSPECTIVE.
(Not my words.)

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Tru2Day1012

Everyone knows that they’re not supposed to procrastinate but we all do it every now and again.
The more things you put off, the more will build up and you will just feel out of control and stressed.
Manage and prioritize your time and tasks.

Procrastination is like a credit card:
it’s a lot of fun until you get the bill.
-CHRISTOPHER PARKER.

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Every moment of your life is deeply meaningful and plays a significant part in your journey.
A lot of time we judge the moment because things don’t go our way but if you look life backwards you understand that those moments made you evolve and brought a shift in your consciousness.
Whatever you are going through right now will not make sense to your human mind.
You can’t comprehend the life order of universe through logic.
But sooner or later all the dots will connect and you will realize that everything was concerned all along.

So instead of judging the moment learn to embrace every moment.
Your higher self/consciousness is all about trusting the divine and seeing the deeper truth in every moment.
Trust can only come from a place of surrender.
Surrendering doesn’t mean you let go of free will.
It simply means you let go of the things that are not under your control.
Instead of flowing against the current of the river you become the flow.
Enjoy every moment & everything is connected, it’s for your higher good.

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You have to chase the things that ignite you.
You have to do the things that bring you joy.
You have to surround yourself with the people who bring you back home to yourself, with the people who respect you and embrace you in ways that make you feel like you are worthy and accepted and celebrated and loved.
You have do the work to heal yourself,
even when it hurts especially when it hurts,
so that you do not continue to approach your life within the boundary of what is heavy within you.
You have to put yourself out there,
and you cannot worry about what other people think,
you cannot rob yourself of experience or happiness or inspiration because you are scared of how you will be perceived.
You have to be unapologetic in the way that you exist here.
You have to believe that your ideas, and your hope, and your being, deserve to take up space.
You have to believe that you have purpose.

Because our existence is finite.
And as hard as that is to understand,
as hard as that can be to connect with,
from time to time remind yourself that in the most human way we are all living on borrowed time.
We live as if we are promised the experiences and the potential we are chasing,
we live as if we have control over what happens to us.
But we don’t, and that is liberating,
because it is pressing there is urgency within the lesson.
It is meant to wake you up.
Life is meant to be lived. (Not my words).

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7 TYPES OF NEGATIVITY TO KILL:

1. PERFECTIONISM.
Trying to achieve something that’s literally unattainable will only result in you feeling “less than”.

2. JUDGEMENT OVER YOURSELF AND OTHERS.
When you are judgemental, you are only focusing on the negative qualities in yourself and others.

3. SELF-DOUBT.
Self-doubt is a weed that will take over your life if you don’t kill it at the root.

4. ASSUMING THE WORST WILL HAPPEN.
If you never think things will be better, they won’t be.
This removes hope.

5. WORRY.
Worrying changes nothing except your health and mental state.

6. COMPLAINING.
When you focus on the negative things, you are really setting yourself up for never being content or happy.

7. TRYING TO CONTROL EVERYTHING.
You can’t control everything and when you try and inevitably fail, you will only blame yourself.

A negative mind will never give you a positive life.
(Not my words).

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Throughout the years I have learned three major things;

1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they’re on your side but deep down inside they’re not. Pay attention. True intentions take you towards right action. Actions speak louder than words. And wrong people use words to cover up truth with lies.

2. Almost everything we go through we can’t control. That means, if it’s yours, then somewhere down the line it’ll return to you and if it’s not, then you have to make peace with it and move on, It’s as simple as that.

3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do. No matter how many times you’ve rehearsed it, no matter how many times you’ve played it in your head, it never goes as planned and almost always does it sting a little harder than you thought.

(Not my words).

AT THE END OF THE DAY IT’S NOT ABOUT WHAT YOU HAVE OR EVEN WHAT YOU’VE ACCOMPLISHED.
IT’S ABOUT WHO YOU’VE LIFTED UP, WHO YOU’VE MADE BETTER.
IT’S ABOUT WHAT YOU’VE GIVEN BACK.

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