It’s easy to look back and question decisions you have made in the past, but it’s unfair to punish yourself for them. You can’t blame yourself for not knowing back then what you know now, and the truth is you made each decision for a reason, based on how you were feeling at the time.
As we grow up we learn and we evolve. Maybe the person you are now would have done things differently back then, or maybe you are the person you are now, because of the decisions you made back then. Trust your journey, it’s all going to make sense soon.
You can rise up from anything. You can completely recreate yourself. Nothing is permanent. You’re not stuck. You have choices. You can think new thoughts. You can learn something new. You can create new habits. Your consistent approach decides your fate. All that matters is that you decide today and never look back. SUCCESS is nothing but a DECISION to stay away fromindecisiveness & inconsistency.
Godspeed lioness. Copying some steps from my rulebook is an easy step. Even i learnt from best of the best in June-2019 while building my athleisure clothing brand. I thought this girl is a noob, she will need another year to understand business & brand positioning. But you surprised me once again. Going exclusive to ASOS with a new clothing brand is a big deal. My people’s success contributes to a major chunk of my happiness. Keep slaying. You know it’s all about love & respect.
This is your life. You have everything you need inside you to live the life you have always dreamed of. Take all that you have learned and experienced and create your own reality. The beautiful part about life is that if you don’t like where you are, there’s always a new moment and a new day to start again.
Make smart, educated decisions. Encourage yourself to make the choices today for the future you want tomorrow. You can steer yourself any direction you choose. (Not my words.)
When we choose to focus on what we have we are instantly happier people. Gratitude is said to be the emotion that is most connected with happiness. Even the wealthiest person in the world can think of things they don’t have. It’s not about accumulating more things; it’s about focusing on the joy and beauty in your life by focusing on what is great in your life.
Don’t decide happiness based on your material possessions, but on the love in your life today.
Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough. -OPRAH WINFREY.
While you may not have control over everything that happens in life, you do have control over your mindset and perspective.
You can choose to think that you’re down on your luck, or you decide to see that you are being set-up for something extraordinary.
You can choose to focus on all the chaos happening around you, or you decide to look for the good that is emerging.
You can choose to live in a state of victimhood, or you can decide to live from the stance of a champion.
Make the decision that come what may come, this new year is going to be good and beautiful and something magical, not because the world’s problems finally faded away, but because you chose to start changing your perspective.
ONLY YOU CAN CONTROL YOUR PERSPECTIVE. (Not my words.)
You attract what you want and you create what you think about. Act like the person you want to become. Think like the person you want to become. Nothing changes in your life unless you make the decision and commitment to change it. Hold an image in your mind of how you wish to see yourself living. Visualize it every day and you will unconsciously start to do things that will move you towards all your dreams, goals, and desires. YOU ATTRACT WHAT YOU BECOME.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I am excited for PEACEMAKER. Watch the trailer till the end, only my university bitches know there’s an unconventional word in this trailer i use often. OK not often, a lot.)
There are people in this life who will take advantage of you and tell you who they think you are. It’s up to you what you do with that information. The moment you let people make decisions on your behalf you have given up your dignity. But you can always get it back as long as you remember to connect with your higher power.
The people who know the least about you always have the most to say. Don’t let anyone take advantage or manipulate you. Remind yourself that you’re entitled to the life and love you deserve.
Be firm about your choices right now. Don’t go backwards to habits and situations that weren’t helping you evolve. You have to keep reminding yourself why you even decided to move forward. Stay positive about what’s to come by being consistent with your change now.
Forgive yourself for the desires you judged harshly. Forgive yourself for indulging in things that took up your time but didn’t fulfill you. Forgive yourself for declaring yourself as someone you’re not. Forgive yourself for your chosen avenues of negative expression. Forgive yourself for all the times you didn’t add value to others. Forgive yourself for what you discovered about yourself that you didn’t like. Forgive yourself for whatever ugliness you saw in yourself. Forgive yourself for not correcting what you think you should have. Forgive yourself for the parts you couldn’t respect. Forgive yourself for all these judgements. Forgive yourself for not being able to forgive yourself before. Forgive yourself for how you chose to survive. Foregiveness is making a conscious decision to live in the present, even if the past still hurts.
(This paragraph got nothing to do with the post above. Everything that’s real takes longer to build, the longer it stands & the longer it takes to break. Chrissi you dumb girl, keep on forgiving TAP. I can’t accept your gift till next year. Let me fix myself first, right now i am the wrong one. Doors to my house are open for my people every Saturday, please join. Love outta respect. Truth is trust.)
Tap ON (Tapan) 
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