Tag: growth

True me.. Tap-1335..

When you plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don’t blame the lettuce.
You look for reasons it is not doing well.
It may need fertilizer, or more water, or less sun.
You never blame the lettuce.

Yet, if we have problems with our friends or family, we blame the other person.
But if we know how to take care of them, they will grow well, like the lettuce.
Blaming has no positive effect at all, nor does trying to persuade using reason and argument.
That is my experience.

No blame, no reasoning, no argument, just understanding.
If you understand, and you show that you understand, you can love, and the situation will change.
(Not my words.)

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True me.. Tap-1334..

Many of us have gotten so used to playing to the expectations of society, of our families, of our friends, and of our minds, that we don’t even allow ourselves to consider who we really are or what we really need.
We ignore the calls of our hearts, giving our lives, instead, to the demands of an outside world built on fitting in.
We can stop this, right now.

We can choose to listen to ourselves, to heed our deepest callings, whatever they are.
We can give ourselves the freedom to be whoever the hell we want to be in this world.
Right now, if we choose to.
And why wouldn’t we?

CHOOSE TO BE YOU & CHOOSE YOURSELF EVERY POSSIBLE MOMENT.

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True me.. Tap-1333..

It’s during the toughest times of your life that you’ll get to see the true colors of the people who say they care about you.
Notice who sticks around and who doesn’t.
And be grateful to those who leave you,
because they have given you the room to grow in the space they abandoned.
And appreciate the people who loved you when you didn’t feel lovable.

Bottom line is to be OK with giving the gift of your absence to those who do not appreciate and respect your presence.
Meanwhile, never forget to love & behold those closer to your heart who showed up for you.

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True me.. Tap-1330..

Focus on making progress, not perfection.
Every good thing takes time.
You can’t rush things.
Growth is not linear, but a journey; one filled with challenges and opportunities to push to your destination.
No one can do it for you, it’s your journey.
And there will be days you’ll want to give up, but you can keep going.
There are no shortcuts to get there, so you have to embrace the process.

Think progress, not perfection.
Allow yourself to grow in the process.
Make room for failure too.
Just do your daily practice and cultivate a kind heart.
Bet on hard work.
Abandon impatience.
The results will come down when they’re ready.
Remember, consistent small steps are way better than just one big step with no further progress.

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True me.. Tap-1325..

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do.
So throw off the bowlines.
Sail away from the safe harbor.
Catch the trade winds in your sails.
Explore. Dream. Discover.

-MARK TWAIN.

You have to be fearless about pursuing your dreams.
You have to be willing to leave your comfort zone to grow not only as a human being but to push your own boundaries.
I encourage anyone chasing dreams to be fearless; go into emotional areas that aren’t always comfortable or comprehensible.

Do something out of your comfort zone today.
Sometimes the things that scare us help us grow.

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Tru2Day1422

The older I get, the more comfortable I am with letting things go.
Everything doesn’t warrant a reaction, response, or rebuttal.
I am most peaceful when I preserve my energy for things that elevate ease in my life.

– ALEX ELLE.

Tru2Day1415

People spend so much time trying to be more physically attractive to find love that they forget the importance of being mentally attractive.

Educate yourself.
Address your recurring toxic thoughts.
Deal with your insecurities and learn to be happy on your own.
That’s attractive.

True me.. Tap-1307..

If youve never tasted a bad apple, you will not appreciate a good apple.
You have to experience life to understand life.
You have to endure disappointment in life, all kind of disappointments, you have to fall flat on your face and feel the pain.
Accept that a lot of your “friends” rather see you fall and fail.
That’s why we say “Jealousy is bad incurable disease”.
It’s hard to accept and it has a bitter taste, but thats life my friend.

At the end, don’t give up.
Don’t give up because, success is inevitable.
We have to fall before we find out who we really are and what we are capable of.

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True me.. Tap-1305..

There is nothing wrong with slowness.
All around you in nature, a billion different things move at a slow pace, just as they are supposed to.
No flower is rushing to be somewhere else.
No wave is pushing it’s way to the shore before its time.
Even when the rain pours down quickly, it took time for that level of force to build up.

I hope you continue to crave change, healing, and transformation and I also hope you remember the soil beneath your feet.
The sun shining above you.
The wind blowing around you.
This is change, too.
This is meaningful, too.

Let this season be what this season needs to be.
Let it shape you how it needs to shape you.
Trust: you don’t have to spend every moment worried about your growth to know that you are still becoming who you were meant to be.
There is no need to worry.
You’re growing even when you’re not thinking about it.
(Not my words.)

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True me.. Tap-1299..

Take chances, take a lot of them.
Because honestly, no matter where you end up and with whom it always end up the way it should be.

Your mistakes make you who you are.
You learn and grow with each choice you make.
Everything is worth it.
Say how you feel, always.
Be you, and be okay with it.
Be a shameless authentic version of yourself.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I always share what I like. Watch it.)

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