Read it twice.
Most people want to talk because they have to say something.
I appreciate those who want to talk because they want to say something.
(This music video got nothing to do with the post above. I shared because i am liking it since 27/08/2021. Ssssshhhhhhhh.)😀
Staying in a relationship just because you love somebody is not worth it.
Love is not all you need.
Respect is what you need.
Reassurance is what you need.
Communication is what you need.
Heart to heart conversation is what you need.
Happiness is what you need.
Knowing everyday you’re their favorite person is what you need.
Learn to love yourself first, let other one match it.
When someone not so familiar asks me “Ever been in LOVE!?!”.
My answer is: Yeah 3 times.
1. When i woke up at 5.45am today morning just wearing a trunk & i saw my 5 pack abs.
2. When i was getting ready for university, because now i am a PhD research scholar.
3. When i received my bank balance text after buying groceries at Lidl.
I fall in love with myself 3 times everyday.
Two exceptions i must mention;
1. When a kid accidentally says my name TAP after i touch his/her nose while saying TAP TAP TAP.
2. When a cute eastern european girl or a slavic angel with a fine 🍑 approaches me near a beach, can’t beat that one.
Special mention; also when my bestie bitch makes coffee for me when i am working from home at her house. This one is dedicated for you Demi.
Done.
Tap..😜
The universe will keep handing you the same lessons, same failures, the same relationships, the same type of love and the same type of pain until you realise that the common denominator is you.
Until you are finally tired of your own patterns.
Until you finally love yourself enough to raise your standards and believe you are worthy of holding them.
You see the thing is, until you learn to love yourself more, you will continue to accept the love that mirrors how you truly feel about yourself.
The answer to everything you desire is within you.
Desires must help you become a better you.
Now relax.
You’ll end up where you’re supposed to be.
Choose consistent truthful people to vibe & shine.
Be picky.
You glow differently when you have good people with good intentions in your life. (Not my words).
Tap OUT..✌️
Just always be the better person.
And make your intentions pure.
What and who you are is what will be remembered.
Pain is inevitable and it will always exist, but if you focus on understanding what you are and what you are feeling, and why you are feeling it, you will overcome it.
The expectations we have often do not correspond with reality, we are disappointed every time this happens.
We become disappointed when we expect to be treated as we treat others.
When you start to realize that everyone is living at a different stage, thinking differently and making their choices, then you can only accept the fact that people do not share the same mind and heart.
When you want to be happy you have to let go of that and start with yourself, be the person you can be proud of, be an example, show respect and understanding.
Others may not change, but know that it is not up to you and be proud of how you are.
You’ve got so much soul to be handled by someone who has never been passionate.
Be a better you first. Life is fun, let it be.
Tap OUT..👍
Don’t fall in LOVE too fast.
You think you know their dreams,
but you just know their plans.
Plans come from the head,
but dreams come from the heart.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I KNOW WHY MOST PEOPLE IN TECH COMMUNITY LIKE BUYING AGRICULTURAL FARMLAND.)
Stop worrying about other people understanding you.
Get in touch with yourself instead.
Focus on what makes you happy,
what makes your soul feel at peace.
You are your biggest commitment.
So start loving your flaws,
your awkwardness,
your weirdness,
your intensity,
your vulnerability,
& your everything.
Life becomes so much more fulfilling when you are just simply yourself.
The world keeps spinning whether people understand you or not.
So why not make this next trip around the sun only about you!!
Tap OUT..✌️
So you want to be happy?
Then stop letting the smallest things ruin your whole entire day.
If you’re bored with your daily routine, do something unexpected.
Stop complaining about how alone you are when you’re surrounded by people who actually care about you.
Forget all the drama and let go of all the grudges you’ve been holding.
Stop wasting time lingering over all that you could have, should have and would have done.
Stop spending your days thinking of how much better you could do.
Stop longing for something that has been and always will be out of your reach.
Just live the days as they come, stay consistent with your approach.
Wake up every morning and smile at the wonderful day that awaits you.
Take a risk for once, calculated risks if it’s possible.
Let yourself be happy, because you deserve it.
Love someone exactly as they are, and they’ll transform into the best possible version of who they could be.
Love yourself exactly as you are, and you will do the same.
HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE.
CHOOSE TO BE HAPPY.
Tap OUT..✌️
Forgive yourself for the desires you judged harshly.
Forgive yourself for indulging in things that took up your time but didn’t fulfill you.
Forgive yourself for declaring yourself as someone you’re not.
Forgive yourself for your chosen avenues of negative expression.
Forgive yourself for all the times you didn’t add value to others.
Forgive yourself for what you discovered about yourself that you didn’t like.
Forgive yourself for whatever ugliness you saw in yourself.
Forgive yourself for not correcting what you think you should have.
Forgive yourself for the parts you couldn’t respect.
Forgive yourself for all these judgements.
Forgive yourself for not being able to forgive yourself before.
Forgive yourself for how you chose to survive.
Foregiveness is making a conscious decision to live in the present, even if the past still hurts.
(This paragraph got nothing to do with the post above. Everything that’s real takes longer to build, the longer it stands & the longer it takes to break. Chrissi you dumb girl, keep on forgiving TAP. I can’t accept your gift till next year. Let me fix myself first, right now i am the wrong one. Doors to my house are open for my people every Saturday, please join. Love outta respect. Truth is trust.)
Tap OUT..✌️
It is important to know who you are,
what you stand for and how you want to see yourself.
You have your whole life for you,
and you determine what you do with it and how you will experience your journey.
There is no one who can tell you who you are,
because you decide for yourself.
You make your own choices,
you choose your own direction,
and you determine your own steps.
Think about who you are,
think about how you position yourself against others.
Think of your qualities and your intentions.
See yourself as the person you want to be,
without thinking about your status,
your score,
your ability or the people around you.
Nothing or nobody should affect who you are as a person,
who you are in terms of thinking,
who you are in your actions.
The life you have for you is your chance to follow your dreams, to discover,to develop and to enjoy yourself.
Imagine a life in which you are completely yourself, in which you fulfill your dreams.
Live. Live your life first.
Tap OUT..💪
Be silly.
Be fun.
Be different.
Be crazy.
Be you.
Because life is too short to be anything but HAPPY.
Tap ON (Tapan) 
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