One day you will meet someone who chooses you & continues to choose you every moment every single day.
And that’s when you will be thankful that everything happened the way it did.
You are worth more than mixed signals & bad communication.
(This song got nothing to do with the post above. It’s from Shang-Chi & my workout track since yesterday. I had to share it.)
Work hard but don’t let work take over your life.
That way you will lose yourself.
Love, but love for the right reasons.
Life is too short for anything mediocre.
Know who you are and know that you are worthy of reaching your dreams and that it is never too late to start creating that life you have always dreamed of.
Do not compare yourself to others, that’s just deadly.
No two souls are the same.
You are your own person,
you are beautiful,
and you are unique.
Put your trust in the universe.
Some things are just meant to happen, and some are not.
Let go of whatever is stealing your happiness,
it’s hard but it is worth it.
Embrace change.
Embrace life.
Everything happens for a reason.
Sometimes you just need to breathe, trust and let go.
FIND BALANCE IN YOUR LIFE. (Not my words).
Tap OUT..✌️
The attitude of “that’s just how I am, take it or leave it” is still a sign of immaturity.
As an adult, it’s your responsibility to figure out which of your traits are toxic and are negatively impactful towards other people and the ones you love,
and to eventually learn how to fix them.
At some point, we all gotta start making ourselves better individuals.
If you truly believe you don’t have to change anything about yourself, even at the very least the worst in you, and that people will just have to deal with it.
Then sorry, you’re still a child.
People need to learn that their actions do affect other people.
So be careful what you say and do, it’s not always just about you.
MATURITY DOESN’T MEAN AGE.
IT MEANS SENSITIVITY, MANNERS AND HOW YOU REACT.
Tap OUT..✌️
According to science, latest studies in neurobiology and psychology have come up with a theory called “3 LOVE” and according to that theory you are likely to fall in love three times in your lifetime.
And only the third one is the love of your life.
Let me explain;
First: PUPPY LOVE.
It’s the first love that happens when you’re young.
It’s the idealistic.
Love that feels like a fairy tale, but it often ends over something silly and leaves you questioning whether it was love at all.
Second: HARD LOVE.
This is the love where you love strongly and get hurt even stronger.
It’s full of toxic cycles and drama betrayal and abuse.
The Break-up is hard, but it builds you as a person.
You focus on yourself.
Now you know what you want and what you don’t want.
Third: THE TRUE LOVE.
This comes blindly and creeps you.
There is no warning.
There’s no planning.
You’ll find yourself caring about this person without even trying.
They don’t look like your typical crush.
But you get lost in them.
You fall in love with the little things, it isn’t always easy but you want to build a life together.
This is how, you know, when you’ve met the love of your life.
Those are not my words of course.
Now the question is; “Do i believe in it?”
My way of entertaining people is easy.
I can’t trust anyone 100% except myself.
People who stay consistent with their approach are just adorable to me.
I already have 18-19 such amazing friends in my life.
And i bet, “AS IF NOW LIFE IS FUN EVEN WITHOUT THAT LOVE”.
But I can’t stop flexing my love for babies & puppies, i want at least 95 babies with my future wife. The more the better.
Someday i would love to enter a relationship, get married with someone truthful, consistent & driven.
Tap OUT..😋
You deserve happiness.
I mean real happiness.
The kind of happiness that makes your heart fill with warmth.
And you deserve to feel what it feels like to be fulfilled.
To feel like the world isn’t against you.
To feel like you aren’t constantly treading water just to keep from drowning.
More than anything, you deserve to be okay.
And I know it’s hard to hear this,
especially when the world around isn’t doing great,
especially when you are so far away from loving yourself.
But I still want you to know,
“because one day, you are going to feel great again,
one day you are going to feel happy again”.
It’s just a matter of time.
Sometimes the best thing you can do is,
not think,
not wonder,
not imagine,
not obsess.
Just breathe, keep on doing you and have faith that everything will work out for the best.
TIME heals everything.
Tap OUT..✌️
Never blame anyone in LIFE.
Bad people give you experience & lessons.
Good people give you happiness & memories.
No one knows what you need to do more than you do.
Cry when you need to. It’s relieving.
Laugh when you need to. It’s healing.
Sit alone when you need to. It’s necessary.
Surround yourself with strangers when you need to. It’s eye-opening.
Living by your needs is not easy. No one said it was.
But a fact that you should always remember is this:
“you are more worthy of being taken care of than anyone around you”.
And I don’t mean the superficial kind of care.
I mean the care that your soul needs.
Everyone around you is struggling somehow.
Everyone around you is trying to reach a goal, a destination, or a dream.
Just as you might not expose your worries to the world, no one else has to.
Remember that you are a work in progress.
You are not perfect.
You are not expected to be perfect.
Do not allow the fear of falling to stop you from jumping.
Do not allow the fear of responsibility to stop you from committing.
Do not allow the fear of exposure to stop you from shining.
FOLLOW WHAT YOU FEEL & FEED YOUR SOUL.
Tap OUT..✌️
Date the one who cares with her whole head & heart.
Date her if you can see yourself going for a drive while blasting throwbacks and screaming crazy every word of that track without being judged.
Date her if you can see yourself at 4 in morning talking about life, goals and all of your passions.
Date her if you can have fun with her but still crawl back into her arms when you really want/need to.
Date her if she is humble but makes you feel confident and hypes you up.
Date her if she can make you feel spoiled without any gifts or anything materialistic.
Date her if she opens the door for you before leaving for work and never lets you leave without kissing you goodbye.
Don’t date because she calls you baby/boo or if she says she cares about you but just asks for money & timeouts.
Don’t date her if she talks badly about you to her friends or doesn’t defend you if they talk trash about you.
Don’t date her because things may get better someday. You are living in present, efforts are needed right now.
If the person who’s reading this post is TAP;
Don’t date her if she believes in ketchup, orange juice, vegan diet & naturally aspirated V12.
SORRY DEMI.🤪
In this journey of life, we always come accross new people.
Some become friends, some turn out to be romantic equations.
And yes people put efforts to get things going.
They put efforts, but they put efforts for a while.
And that’s the fuck up.
Humans don’t understand this one tiny thing;
“You have to keep working on it forever to have a relationship/equation forever which yields happiness forever”.
Your life isn’t an AEROPLANE
and
RELATIONSHIPS don’t run on AUTOPILOT.
(Said by DADDY TAP i guess).😜
Tap..✌️
Everybody’s happiness is limited to a limit, so is their sadness.
Try climbing one step at a time to keep the flow steady & you will never feel like losing.
Consistency is the key.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Watch it if you love science. Girls & their make-up bs in YouTube is way too much generic, but this girl is doing something that’s one of a kind. Respect. Physics is fun.)
Don’t COMPARE your actual self to a hypothetical self.
Don’t drown in a sea of ‘what if’s.
Don’t clutter your mind by imagining other versions of you, in parallel universes, where you made different decisions, don’t PROCRASTINATE, because they don’t have much relevance left in your current situation.
The internet age encourages choice and comparison, but don’t do this to yourself.
‘Comparison is the thief of joy’, said Theodore Roosevelt.
You are you.
The past is the past.
The only way to make a better life is from inside the present.
To focus on regret does nothing but turn that very present into another thing you will wish you did differently.
Accept your own reality.
Be human enough to make mistakes.
Be human enough not to dread the future.
Be human enough to be, well, enough.
Accepting where you are in life makes it so much easier to be happy for other people without feeling terrible about yourself.
You carry so much love in your heart.
It’s time to give some LOVE to yourself.
No one is you, and that’s your SUPERPOWER.
EMBRACE YOURSELF.
Tap OUT..👍
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