We humans are weird creatures and this world is materialistic. Winning someone’s heart is not enough, you have to put lots of energy to win their mind & body as well.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. See this video to understand the benefits of ginger lemon water. If you talk to me as a friend or family, i think i might have suggested you this one little over 100 times.)
Sometimes in life, you find a special friend. Someone who changes your life just by being a part of it. Someone who makes you laugh until you can’t stop. Someone who makes you believe that there really is goodness in the world. Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it. This is forever friendship.
When you’re down and the world seems dark and empty, your forever friend lifts you up in spirit and makes that dark and empty world suddenly seem bright and full. Your forever friend gets you through the hard times, the sad times and the confused times. If you turn and walk away, your forever friend follows. If you lose your way, your forever friend guides you and cheers you on. Your forever friend holds your hand and tells you that everything is going to be okay. And if you find such a friend, you feel happy and complete because you need not worry. You have a forever friend, and forever has no end. We say BEST FRIENDS.Not my words.
(This paragraph got nothing to do with the post above. DEMI, WE ARE BEST FRIENDS SINCE PAST 530 YEARS & THAT’S NOT CHANGING TILL 2070. Because you are you, you let me be me, still we find plenty of time to spoil each other, own each other and spam each other. I love it when my people grow stronger financially. CONGRATULATIONS TO YOUR NEXT CHAPTER.)
Date the one who cares with her whole head & heart. Date her if you can see yourself going for a drive while blasting throwbacks and screaming crazy every word of that track without being judged. Date her if you can see yourself at 4 in morning talking about life, goals and all of your passions. Date her if you can have fun with her but still crawl back into her arms when you really want/need to. Date her if she is humble but makes you feel confident and hypes you up. Date her if she can make you feel spoiled without any gifts or anything materialistic. Date her if she opens the door for you before leaving for work and never lets you leave without kissing you goodbye. Don’t date because she calls you baby/boo or if she says she cares about you but just asks for money & timeouts. Don’t date her if she talks badly about you to her friends or doesn’t defend you if they talk trash about you. Don’t date her because things may get better someday. You are living in present, efforts are needed right now.
If the person who’s reading this post is TAP; Don’t date her if she believes in ketchup, orange juice, vegan diet & naturally aspirated V12. SORRY DEMI.🤪
In this journey of life, we always come accross new people. Some become friends, some turn out to be romantic equations. And yes people put efforts to get things going. They put efforts, but they put efforts for a while. And that’s the fuck up. Humans don’t understand this one tiny thing; “You have to keep working on it forever to have a relationship/equation forever which yields happiness forever”.
Your life isn’t an AEROPLANE and RELATIONSHIPS don’t run on AUTOPILOT. (Said by DADDY TAP i guess).😜
When you live with unforgiveness in your heart, you become debilitated, unable to move and show up in the world in the way that you were created to all because, you took on the spirit of offense and chose not to forgive.
So, you see while at times, you may feel like it’s your right to hold offense and not forgive and while you do have free will you must also understand that what you felt was a “right” will also be the very thing that strips you of your ability to live in freedom. And, so in your quest to experience justice, you’ll only instigate the greater injustice against yourself, your we being, and your future.
Know this: FORGIVENESS IS POWERFUL. FORGIVENESS IS FREEDOM. It liberates you from offense, from bitterness, and from the negative spirits that will invade your heart, soul, and mind and prohibit you from being a source of light in the world. So, forgive even when it’s hard, even when the person across the table is undeserving.
(This paragraph got nothing to do with the post above. I am still a part-time employee because of my student status & business interests. Workplace environment gets messy when somebody sends a package without mentioning employee ID, especially when we all are working from home since the beginning of this pandemic. It’s tough to explain further. Please don’t send gifts to my office address.)
You can’t let people scare you. You can’t go your whole life trying to please everyone else. You can’t go through life worried about what everyone else is going to think. Whether it’s your hair, clothes, what you have to say, how you feel, what you believe and what you have, you can’t let the judgment of others stop you from being you. Because if you do, you’re no longer you. You’re someone everyone else wants you to be. It’s just a waste of your precious time because you aren’t getting this life again.
DO WHAT YOUR HEART DESIRES & HEAD PERMITS. BE YOURSELF.
Time decides who you meet in life. Your heart decides who you want in life. And your behaviour decides who stays in your life. – Buddha
In my case I am married to my bank account & we share an amazing togetherness. Next I want my boss TAP to stop being so bossy & let me retire within next 2-3 years, so that I can woo & hook up with a sassy bitch/boo/angel for next 2-300 years. Yeah I want 80-90 babies as well. ZK.😜
Demi challenged me in CMU group to share two pick-up lines close to my heart. (Those who don’t know, Demi is my bestie since past 250 years). Btw who stores pick-up lines in heart!! These two are in my head though: 1. Your breath smells amazing, gimme some. (Used by Demi on me during prom. And thanks to almighty, never dated this half blonde dumb bitch.😝) 2. Not sure whether it’s your smile or booty, 2 out of 4 cheeks are definitely working. (That’s my favourite pick-up line. Always works on latinas, pardon me for going little racial. Not sure how many times I have misused this one).
Some follow their passion & some follow their person.
Earlier one wins life. Later one may win little love if the other person is on same page, in 2020 chances are still thin to expect truth out of someone’s head/heart.
(Reading all my posts/thoughts one person gets little scared of me sometimes, Please don’t. I adore you my polish bum. Can’t expect/ask more from you. I took my long sweet time or still taking more, hella unsure with it. Because I am still very much in love with money, pizza & cheesecake.😜 You are making my new city’s excitement 2X & I am not even started yet. Muaaaaaaahhhhhhh.)
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