Do you know what happens when you constantly hurt someone?
They begin to love you less,
and after a while they start to forget that they ever loved you at all.
What most people need to learn in life is how to love people and use things, instead of using people and loving things.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Karim & Jahar, one of the best ones from Key & Peele.)
Your body sheds your tired skin every twenty seven days.
You were not made to hold your past within you.
You were not made to carry it all on your back.
You physically let go of every bad thing that has ever touched you, of every pair of foreign hands that unbuttoned your shirt but never your demons; you let go of every regret, of every insecurity.
You are always gifted a clean slate.
Remember that your tongue is the strongest muscle in your body.
You were made to speak, so speak loudly and communicate honestly about how you feel.
Speak about what hurts you, about what has broken you.
Speak about your story, share it with the world.
Letting go does not mean you stop caring.
It means you stop trying to force others to.
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What is STRENGTH?
Strength is forgiving people that don’t even feel sorry for their action.
Strength is putting a smile on your face when you want to cry a river.
Strength is not hurting those who hurt you.
Strength is forgiving others.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Watch it for fun, one of my favourites from superwog.)
Don’t fake being okay.
You only hurt yourself.
Be real with what you’re going through.
Just don’t let it consume you.
Balance & Be you.
In LOVE, I have been elated and brokenhearted and felt every emotion in between.
As I’ve gotten older I’ve learned to embrace the painful parts, because I realize they make me stronger and they are just parts of life.
It hurts to power through the rough times but just like a muscle, it must be exercised before it’s able to become stronger.
Think about a specific painful moment in your life,
and then think about how that feeling didn’t last forever even though you thought it would.
Remember that life will continue to go on and time really does heal all wounds.
I’m grateful for all the love and all the heartache I’ve experienced in my life.
Both have been equally wonderful.
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If you are TRUTHFUL without hurting others, your all sins are forgiven.
This is life, and it is what it is.
Shit is gonna happen.
It’s gonna get complicated.
We’re gonna relapse.
We’re gonna need time-outs.
We’re gonna be weak.
We’re gonna be strong.
We’re gonna lose our shit and yell for people to get the fuck out of our lives.
We’re gonna break down and beg some people to stay in our lives.
Some days we’re gonna feel everything all at once.
Other days, we’re gonna feel nothing at all.
We’re gonna be in some bad spaces.
We’re gonna be in some amazing ones.
We’re gonna get on our knees crying and hurting and begging for help.
We’re gonna get on our knees and pray just to say thank you.
We’re gonna have moments when we know exactly what we want, and we’re sure.
We’re gonna have moments when we legit have no fucking clue what we want, and we’re confused.
This life shit isn’t a movie, and I think sometimes, we forget that. Life is the way you pursue it.
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In this world filled with liars, cheaters & deceptive people, we all encounter trust issues. One easy noticable trait of every untrustworthy person is; they struggle to empathize people. Those who lack empathy are much better at being able to deceive or hurt someone and the ability to empathize with others is something most untrustworthy people lack. An empathetic person would be hesitant to hurt someone else since they can imagine the pain their actions could cause. It acts as a barrier to hurtful behavior. If someone is capable or even comfortable with backstabbing or betraying others, they usually lack empathy. They likely won’t take responsibility for their damaging actions and don’t even know that they lack the ability to empathize.
Untrustworthy people are self-serving, they care only for themselves and can’t see past their own perspectives. Some people are even able to use empathy selectively and only when they stand to gain from it, which can make this trait even harder to spot observing how someone acts toward others, especially those they can’t benefit from will reveal their true nature. A lack of empathy is a red flag when it comes to gauging someone’s trustworthiness.
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A tongue has no bones, but it’s strong enough to hurt someone. CHOOSE YOUR WORDS CAREFULLY.
(Not my words)
No matter how far life pushes you down, no matter how much you hurt, you can always bounce back.
– Sheryl Swoopes.
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