Most people are just INCONSISTENT, pretend to do lot many things without being serious about anything.
TRUSTING SOMEONE IS THE TOUGHEST PART.
And there are two reasons why we don’t TRUST people.
First: We don’t know them.
Second: We know them.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I heard about mincemeat oat cookies for the first time from this Scottish chef. I am a baker by heart, especially pizza & cheesecake are two of my biggest weaknesses.)
You do not have to deal with:
People who are critical.
People who reject you.
People who are inconsistent.
People who are abusive.
People who retaliate.
People who downplay your achievements.
People who secretly want your life.
People who refuse to improve.
Stop wasting your time dealing with toxic, inconsistent, negative, energy-draining people.
Some people are wired for negativity.
They love retaliation, being argumentative, combative and abusive.
Let others talk about you or against you, doesn’t matter good or bad.
Your job is to protect your peace.
Keep walking towards a truthful consistent life.
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Some people think;
ADVENTURE is dangerous,
DISCIPLINE is brutal,
TRUTH is lethal,
LOVE is hard,
& LIFE isn’t moving.
These are all low-key narcissistic inconsistent personality traits which brings severe unhappiness to life.
And all you gotta do is; stay away from those who think like this.
ADVENTURE brings joy.
DISCIPLINE teaches you to be consistent.
TRUTH is core of basic human values.
LOVE is beautiful.
& LIFE is fun.
You have to carry this attitude forward in life.
Remain consistent with the way you are.
That helps you to be in sync with life.
Hangout with those who reflect & second your thoughts.
A happy person is not a person who’s always in a good situation, but rather a person who always has a good attitude in every situation.
VIBE WITH YOUR TRIBE.
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You deserve someone who can’t WAIT to talk to you
& spend time with you
& get to know you
& fall in love with you.
Stop settling for halfhearted, lukewarm, hesitant, inconsistent & indecisive.
It’s soooooooooo much better to be alone than to be with someone who makes you FEEL ALONE.
Be disciplined about what you respond and react to.
Most people are inconsistent, that’s their comfort zone.
Not everyone or everything deserves your time, energy and attention.
Stay in your light. Vibe with your tribe.
Healthy relationships feel boring to people who are used to relationships filled with toxicity, inconsistency & drama.
They are not sure what to do with LOVE that is calm, kind, drama free, non toxic & doesn’t require them to constantly make painful sacrifices.
A healthy relationship is fun, consistent & always smooth sailing even during bad times, PERIOD.
(This paragraph got nothing to do with the post above. I promised to pay for one friend’s weekend trip & vacation. But 11 CMU cunts responded over facetime & iMessage within 15 minutes of my post. All i can say is, you assholes make me feel like superman or some kinda happy excited kid with so much care & attention. Ton of respect & love. I am grateful & delighted. Because it’s a celebration, entire vacation is on me. Click here DEMI, talking about this post, I HATE YOU.)😂 Pasted wrong link here, now corrected.
Comparing yourself to others is a toxic human trait which does nothing but resulting in poor self-confidence. Perfection is an impossible idea and while it’s easy to say that “it’s okay to make mistakes” and “nobody’s perfect”. Sometimes it’s harder to apply those ideas to yourself. When you compare yourself to others, you’re doing everyone an injustice. If you focus on what makes you unique like your skills and potential only in comparison to other people, there will always be someone who outdoes you and you’ll always end up feeling bad.
Instead concentrate on where you are in your path of growth everyone learns different things at different paces at different times in their lives. Where you’re at is just as valid as where everyone else is.
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I hangout with the same set of friends since past 500 years if i am right. Let me answer the reason why so!?? I already know who true friends are, so never really felt the need to have new ones. I am very cautious while living my life independently unless someone is this compatible, and by this I mean, they think the same, express the same ideas and they have the same values. Reason behind all is a flimsy world where people come to life with ulterior agendas. I have always said that i hate two kinds of people; 1-People who lie, 2-Inconsistent people.
And my observation says every inconsistent person is a low-key liar. And there is no big or small lies, every lie is a lie. Back to point 1 again, people who lie are nothing but boring. That’s the reason i have a small group of friends that i cherish like life. Liars never understand; BEING BAD IS ACCEPTABLE IF YOU ARE REAL.
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What we don’t discuss about LIES? Some people lie to manipulate but few might be lying in an entirely different way. Lies of omission could be keeping you up at night. Maybe you’re unhappy with your relationship or your career. You could be lying to yourself or others, lying others that you’re satisfied when you aren’t. Are you hiding in the closet preventing others from knowing your true identity or maybe you told an outright lie and you’ve been carrying it with you for a long time!?! Whatever Secrets you’re protecting you can let the lie go by telling a trusted friend. Once you share the truth, the falsity fades away. Even when you believe that lying is the best or most moral decision, it can still take a toll on your conscience. You can move on from the regrets in a truce that are holding you back. Let go of the lies and live your life with honesty for happier existence.
Now if you saw this video, i would love to see every liar/cheater in this exact same position as this woman. Correction, there should be a database of cheaters so that people with healthy happy mindset can be aware whom to date & whom to wham bam thank you mam!! Not a single cheater understands these bold italic lines; “You are bound to sink if you put two legs in two boats. Just break up if you aren’t happy with someone. Be blunt & say it. Take a 3-6 month break to get rid of memories from previous relationship. That will help both to get rid of those up & down toxic cycles. Then start your next chapter from a clean slate”. When you lie about your income tax, property, anything illegal or criminal act, there is a law everywhere to deal with it. The fun part, there is no such things to deal with cheaters in a relationship. If you ever lie or cheat your partner, never expect a forgiveness. That’s just cheap & the only nature of CHEAP is; it gets cheaper with time. I can say the same for every inconsistent person. Learn to follow a consistent truthful life for your own happiness, that’s attractive & sassy af. Hope i was able to make little sense in my post.
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There are liars, cheaters, thieves, criminals, Donald Trump & all sort of other deceptive people, all have one thing in common is their “LIE”. Basically all are different degree of LIARS. On the other hand there is also another set of equally lackluster group of folks known as “INCONSISTENT PEOPLE”. And i swear they are even more worse compared to LIARS. Liars are a turn off, but it takes a little time to catch their lies. But inconsistent people are way more prominent in their part of nonsense, you can catch their INCONSISTENCY very next moment. Another funny part, most LIARS are INCONSISTENT by nature.
My post was to make everyone aware of any INCONSISTENT person around. You don’t need to confront them, just get rid of them. Right people vibe & match your energy, then stick for a long run no matter what’s your taste or status!! Liars will never connect to this school of thought. Truth is trust. Be blunt to block any inconsistent person from life, that’s the best gift you can give yourself before 2020 is over. Still another month away, let’s end it on a good note.
(This paragraph has nothing to do with the post above. We are slowly but surely recovering from this pandemic. I wish/hope everyone is taking care of own health and happiness. Today i am not around family or my same set of friends that i have spent previous few amazing years, i am talking about geographical distance here. This is the time we used to share some warmth, have some nice sugery/greasy yummy food & create few good memories meanwhile. I didn’t host any kinda party this year because of COVID-19, that money was meant to be spent for my people. So many things didn’t go as planned. What breaks my heart is those people whose lives & livelihood got effected. Went to a nearby homeless shelter today asking whether i can donate some sweatshirts/jackets/blankets because it’s almost winter. They replied, there is enough winter clothes available except some winter woolen socks because they always run short. I bought socks for everyone in that homeless shelter & i wasn’t even able to spend the whole thanksgiving dinner money. Only message i wanted to share here; YES we all are going through a tough time. Do your tiny bit towards the needy even if you want to flex/share it in your instagram or YouTube. There is nothing wrong is spreading the right. HAPPY THANKSGIVING.)
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