The people who are meant to be in your life are the ones who know how to gently wait for you to heal.
You do not want to rush actions with them.
For if you do, you will miss the lessons you can learn along the way.
-WRITING ON WAVES.
(Video by Alux & the title is; Being well when you are alone is a SUPERPOWER.)
You’ll end up very disappointed if you grow up thinking everyone has the same heart as you do.
People in general are assholes one way or another.
Choose your people wisely.
7 Things to Keep in Mind:
1. Go after dreams, not people.
2. Love yourself and the rest will follow.
3. Never lose your sense of wonder or your sense of humour.
4. You are capable of more than you know.
5. No regrets in life. Just lessons learned.
6. Your only limit is you.
7. Life goes by in a blink of an eye. So live life.
Life is fun. Let it be. Let it flourish.
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PART OF BEING A MAN IS LEARNING TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR SUCCESSES AND FOR YOUR FAILURES.
YOU CAN’T GO BLAMING OTHERS OR BEING JEALOUS.
SEEING SOMEBODY ELSE’S SUCCESS AS YOUR FAILURE IS A CANCEROUS WAY TO LIVE.
-KEVIN BACON.
Life can be fulfilling at both 16 and also 60. 25 and 35.
Joy is timeless.
Learning how to make the most of where you are does not have an age cut-off or a deadline.
You will always be able to sit and wonder about things that could have gone differently.
But you can also trust:
you have not missed out on what was meant for you.
I know it’s hard to trust when so much is unknown,
so instead of trying to make sense of it all at once,
take it all color by color, tree by tree, scent by scent, take it one by one.
You don’t have to take it all in at once.
Take in the newness of it all one moment at a time without worrying about the moments to come.
Let that be enough.
Breathe deep and let this moment be enough.
Let this be a place where you find peace.
Remember the ground beneath your feet, you belong here.
No one has taken your place.
You are not too far from grace.
Your story might be unfolding differently than expected but that doesn’t mean it won’t be beautiful.
Where you are meant to be, you will be in time, no matter your age or stage of life.
Life is fun. Let it be.
Let it flourish at it’s own pace.
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Be with someone who is invested in you.
I don’t mean someone who thinks you’re cute or funny.
I mean someone who wants to know every insignificant detail about you.
Someone who wants to read every word you write.
Someone who wants to hear every note of your favorite song,
and watch every scene of your favorite movie.
Someone who wants to find every scar upon your body,
and learn where each one came from.
Someone who communicates with both head & heart.
Someone who knows why you prefer black coffee & sourdough pizza.
Someone who wants to know your favorite brand of toothpaste & shower gel,
and which quotes resonate deep inside your bones when you hear them.
There is a difference between attraction, interest & the word i mentioned INVEST.
Find the person who wants to learn every aspect of who you are, and hold onto them.
Every relationship/equation/friendship in your life are an immense investment of consistent time & energy, never offer discounts on that.
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So many of the lessons I’ve learned have been about standing up for myself and setting boundaries.
Most people in our current world are used to inconsistent approach & deceptive behaviour, which are both cheap & unacceptable in accordance to HUMAN standards.
It’s really hard and sometimes even painful.
In work environments and everyday life, be sure to set boundaries for those you’re spending time with.
Make sure they’re aware with what you’re comfortable with and your limitations.
Communicate with others to make sure you are honoring yourself.
It’s hard, but it’s worth it. Always.
You don’t owe anybody the present other than yourself.
Take time for you.
Respect yourself and your privacy.
Set boundaries.
Set one boundary today in your professional or personal life. (Not my words).
Life is fun, let it be.
(This 5 minutes video got nothing to do with the post above, It’s about world’s top economies in 2050. Watch it for little knowledge & fun. FYI my entire stock market investment portfolio is linked to number 2, 3 & 7 countries.)
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Each of us leads unique lives with experiences that nobody else will ever completely understand.
Your story holds so many valuable lessons that can help inspire, teach, and motivate someone else.
Should you choose to share it!?!
In life, I have heard so many different stories.
Just by listening, I learned so many different things.
I’m so thankful I found the courage to share my story as well and talk about what I’ve been through.
Not only has it helped me, but it has helped give perspective and strength to so many other people, my people to be precise.
I encourage you to do the same.
Share your story with someone who is worth your time.
You never know how one sentence of your life story could inspire someone to rewrite their own.
No matter what you have been through in life, good or bad, don’t take it for granted.
There are lessons in every moment of our lives.
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WHEN YOU LEARN HOW MUCH YOU’RE WORTH,
YOU’LL STOP GIVING PEOPLE DISCOUNTS.
– HELEN KELLER.
Figure out what you want to do with your life and just do it.
Dedicate a separate journal for you to write down all of your goals.
And don’t just stop at journaling, make detailed steps towards achieving them.
Stopping sitting around and half arsing your way through things because you can’t seem to find any direction,
because seriously, life is what you make it and sometimes you need to get up and force yourself to do the things you know will benefit future you.
Things like I’m still young or I’m too old are out of the question.
No matter how old you are,
what you study or where you study,
use the time you have right now to learn & hustle.
I mean really hustle.
Because you don’t want to look back and say you should’ve worked harder, trained harder, tried harder, thought harder, loved harder or fought harder.
DISCIPLINE & CONSISTENT APPROACH towards all your EFFORTS are your only two best friends in your journey.
Don’t give yourself a reason to have regrets later on in life.
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As you move forward, I hope you have the courage to do things differently,
to be the kind of person who takes the risk,
to be the kind of person who leads with their heart and shows up in their life with a ruthless dedication to learning, growing and enjoying the hell out of their moments here consistenly.
DISCIPLINE & CONSISTENCY with your approach are the two tools which can empower you, make you stand out of the crowd in the race of becoming a better Human.
I hope you have the courage to never let comfort or apprehension convince you that you are better off staying still.
I hope you have the courage to trust the part of yourself that knows there’s more out there for you,
the part of yourself that is easy to quiet when you’re trying to live by the rules and the expectations of a world that has bred so much dissatisfaction and sadness.
I hope you have the courage to trust the part of yourself that seeks freedom from those trends, from those boundaries,
and I hope you have the courage to go after whatever it is that genuinely makes you want to get up in the morning.
I hope you have the courage to find the things in life that ignite you and deepen your understanding of the world and those within it.
I hope you have the courage to fight for a future that inspires you, even if it doesn’t look the way you thought it would.
I hope you have the courage to change.
I hope you have the courage to trust in the person you’re becoming. (Not my words).
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