We humans are weird creatures and this world is materialistic. Winning someone’s heart is not enough, you have to put lots of energy to win their mind & body as well.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. See this video to understand the benefits of ginger lemon water. If you talk to me as a friend or family, i think i might have suggested you this one little over 100 times.)
The universe will keep handing you the same lessons, same failures, the same relationships, the same type of love and the same type of pain until you realise that the common denominator is you.
Until you are finally tired of your own patterns. Until you finally love yourself enough to raise your standards and believe you are worthy of holding them.
You see the thing is, until you learn to love yourself more, you will continue to accept the love that mirrors how you truly feel about yourself. The answer to everything you desire is within you.
Desires must help you become a better you. Now relax. You’ll end up where you’re supposed to be. Choose consistent truthful people to vibe & shine. Be picky. You glow differently when you have good people with good intentions in your life. (Not my words).
Just always be the better person. And make your intentions pure. What and who you are is what will be remembered. Pain is inevitable and it will always exist, but if you focus on understanding what you are and what you are feeling, and why you are feeling it, you will overcome it.
The expectations we have often do not correspond with reality, we are disappointed every time this happens. We become disappointed when we expect to be treated as we treat others. When you start to realize that everyone is living at a different stage, thinking differently and making their choices, then you can only accept the fact that people do not share the same mind and heart. When you want to be happy you have to let go of that and start with yourself, be the person you can be proud of, be an example, show respect and understanding. Others may not change, but know that it is not up to you and be proud of how you are. You’ve got so much soul to be handled by someone who has never been passionate. Be a better you first. Life is fun, let it be.
Now a days most young people think RELATIONSHIPS are tough. Let me tell you; “It’s two right individuals & their consistent effort to get everything going, Relationships are that easy”.
You always have to believe that things are working out for you no matter what. Being patient and trusting the process means that you believe you’ll receive the seed you’ve sowed. Don’t let worry, fear, and anxiety make you dig up what you’ve planted just to see if it’s growing. You can rise up from anything. You can completely recreate yourself. Nothing is permanent. You’re not stuck. You have choices. You can think new thoughts. You can learn something new. You can create new habits. All that matters is that you decide today and never look back at those things & people holding you back.. LIFE IS FUN, LET IT BE. (My words).
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. My bestie suggested, i saved it offline because of a busy morning & i watched it while flying. Whatever this person is doing is a legit mindfuck. A guy named Javier from Valencia-Spain is stuck in 2027, really!?! Thank god i am not using tiktok. But whatever this person is posting/playing is awkwardly creepy.)
Never regret being a good person to the wrong people. Your behavior says everything about you. And their behavior says enough about them.
(I bet this kid in video is mine & this paragraph got nothing to do with the post above. To my CMU mates; Let’s meet near uni for a good time. Demi wants a takeaway from summer palace. I suggest a private dining at porro llandaff, missing those Italian sausages, breakfast calzone & fishcakes since 4+ years. Support daddy Tap & text a 🖕 emoji to Demi. Either ways it’s a treat by that bitch.🤪 If you are coming anywhere from Swansea, contact Matt for a free pick-up. Rest of those who can’t meet, click here.)
I am not a superhuman. I have walked the same life path as many others. Character, Truth, Consistent approach, Loyalty, Decency & Respect are way too expensive 2021. And this world is running on a discount sale right now, result is cheap people. Those who come at you will disappoint you one way or other, period.
Inconsistency was there. Disrespect was there. Misunderstandings were there. Inappropriate behaviour was there. Lies were there. Cheating was there. Unacceptable bullshits were playing catch catch. Heartbreak was there.
Good part is; all were there in past past past, my present has nothing but a beautiful life that people can only dream about. My lesson was: have EXPECTATIONS, but only from yourself. Always be the better person. And make your intentions pure. What and who you are is what will be remembered. Pain is inevitable and it will always exist. But if you focus on understanding what you are and what you are feeling, and why you are feeling it, you will overcome it.
The expectations we have often do not correspond with reality, we are disappointed every time this happens. We become disappointed when we expect to be treated as we treat others. When you start to realize that everyone is living at a different stage, thinking differently and making their choices, then you can only accept the fact that people do not share the same mind and heart. When you want to be happy you have to let go of that and start with yourself, be the person you can be proud of, be an example, show respect and understanding. Others may not change, but know that it is not up to you and be proud of how you are. You’ve got so much soul to be handled by someone who has never been passionate. EXPECTATION IS TO BE A BETTER HUMAN FIRST.
What you want EXISTS. Don’t slow down until you get it. And never settle for less.
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Stop worrying about other people understanding you. Get in touch with yourself instead. Focus on what makes you happy, what makes your soul feel at peace. You are your biggest commitment. So start loving your flaws, your awkwardness, your weirdness, your intensity, your vulnerability, & your everything.
Life becomes so much more fulfilling when you are just simply yourself. The world keeps spinning whether people understand you or not. So why not make this next trip around the sun only about you!!
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