There are people in this life who will take advantage of you and tell you who they think you are. It’s up to you what you do with that information. The moment you let people make decisions on your behalf you have given up your dignity. But you can always get it back as long as you remember to connect with your higher power.
The people who know the least about you always have the most to say. Don’t let anyone take advantage or manipulate you. Remind yourself that you’re entitled to the life and love you deserve.
Anything you want to be wonderful at requires patience and practice. It’s as simple as brushing our teeth, which we hardly think about because we do it three times a day. By repeatedly doing a healthy habit we make it a regular part of our routine. It’s good to have healthy habits; the more you have, the better you will become. When you strive everyday to be better version of yourself, eventually you will be.
Figure out what you love and what is good for you and make it a habit. Every consistent approach results a positive outcome at the end. We are what we repeatedly do becomes excellence, then is not an act but a habit. (Not my words).
It is so important to be thoughtful and considerate about what we do and how we treat others. You can’t tiptoe around other people, but you also have to treat people with genuine kindness and respect. When you act out of jealousy or negativity, you have to be prepared for the consequences of your actions.
Try to make few people smile everyday. It’s actually a really fun game to play with a friend. You never know when those people will smile back when you need it most. All of our actions have consequences. What we do will eventually come back to us, which is why it’s always best to act with kindness.
Relationships between family, friends, significant others, and colleagues are complicated and full of learning experiences. Nobody comes into this world knowing everything. We all go through different experiences, make mistakes, have successes, and then make more mistakes that we can learn from. The ability to trust and listen to the people in your life is the foundation all healthy relationships are built on.
While talking to friends, make sure you are really listening to what they have to say and aren’t distracted by something else. You owe that to them and you would want the same in return. Trust is a bond between two people that is found only when they are able to listen and understand where the other person is coming from. That to me is the only key to friendships and relationships.
LOVE is not enough. LOVE is not enough for a long-term committed healthy relationship to fully work. We have been told our whole life that “LOVE IS ALL YOU NEED”, which is pure bullshit. You need VALUES, VISION, LIFESTYLE, RESPECT, CONSISTENCY and MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING. And all these accumulate to immense amount of TRUST, which is the basic foundation of a COMMITMENT.
“A relationship without TRUST is like a car without gas. You can sit in the car as much & as longer as you want, but it’s going nowhere”. (Not my words.)
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Watch the whole video to know more about where we are heading in future. If you don’t have time to watch entire video, watch it from 19:50 to next 1-minute. If you are living in a developed nation, controlling our population is not the right way to go. If we don’t have more children, our civilization is going to crumble. We always need enough people to work & pay taxes for our survival, or else by 2050 this same tiktok generation of dumbfucks will be on streets protesting about government’s inability to provide a healthy social security & pension system.)
Entering/Entertaining a relationship is a holy thing. Honouring/Respecting that commitment is divine. Starting a family with a beautiful person is godly.
When you allow people to your life, first become a happy peaceful beautiful soul & ask the same from other side.
(Here BEAUTIFUL PERSON means someone who is TRUTHFUL & CONSISTENT.)
Often when we’re comforting loved ones, all that we want to do is take their pain away. It’s such a natural desire to help those we love in need. But there are many times when it is necessary for people to go through pain to fully learn and emerge stronger than ever. Remember not to enable someone who needs help with a problem. Support them in finding a solution.
The next time a loved one is going through a difficult period, think about how you can support them instead of fixing them. You can’t resolve other people’s issues, but you can sit with them and share the burden of their pain, thereby lightening it. (Not my words.)
It’s not enough to just love doing something if you want to be good at it. You have to practice every day. Take time out of your life to practice your passion. Do whatever you need to do will propel you toward your goals. Practice your passion, you must exercise DISCIPLINE.
Do you know what happens when you constantly hurt someone? They begin to love you less, and after a while they start to forget that they ever loved you at all.
What most people need to learn in life is how to love people and use things, instead of using people and loving things.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Karim & Jahar, one of the best ones from Key & Peele.)
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