Tag: love

True me.. Tap-782..

It is important to know who you are, what you stand for and how you want to see yourself.
You have your whole life for you, and you determine what you do with it and how you will experience your journey.
There is no one who can tell you who you are, because you decide for yourself.
You make your own choices, you choose your own direction and you determine your own steps.

Think about who you are, think about how you position yourself against others.
Think of your qualities, your intentions & consistent approach.
See yourself as the person you want to be, without thinking about your status, your score, your ability or the people around you.
Nothing or nobody should affect who you are as a person, who you are in terms of thinking, who you are with your true intentions, who you are in your actions.
The life you have for you is your chance to follow your dreams, to discover, to develop and to enjoy yourself.
Imagine a life in which you are completely yourself, in which you fulfill your dreams.
Live your life.

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True me.. Tap-781..

There are two types of men in this world.

1: Work 9 to 5. Get married in their late 30s. Make 2-3 kids. Return home tired after work. Expect wife to cook, clean, wash clothes & raise kids. Watch TV at night. Get 5 blowjobs in a month. Wait for weekend to go grocery shopping. Sleep like a 80 year old at 11pm. They get mad at their family or wife to relieve the stress of work. These people pretend being happy their whole life till they retire or till they end up being broke.

2: Who has a fire in them. Who have an eventful life. Who have more stories to tell their next generation. Who build legacies. Who dedicate quality time to family & passion. Work is a priority, because it’s their choice. Who dare to love because they love their life first & there’s no negotiation in writing a beautiful love story which can build memories. Who don’t wait for weekend & who value knowledge. Basically those who LIVE.

I can’t judge 1 or 2. Do what works for you. But the first lesson of life is to LOVE YOURSELF. Nobody is born perfect.
When you love yourself, you glow from the inside.
You attract people who love, respect, and appreciate your energy.
Everything starts with and how you feel about yourself.
Start feeling worthy, valuable and deserving of receiving the best that life has to offer.
PART OF BEING A MAN IS LEARNING TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR SUCCESSES AND FOR YOUR FAILURES.
YOU CAN’T GO BLAMING OTHERS OR BEING JEALOUS.
FEEING SOMEBODY ELSE’S SUCCESS AS YOUR FAILURE IS A CANCEROUS WAY TO LIVE.
BE HUMBLE, KIND & MAGNETIC. (Not my words).

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True me.. Tap-777..

Staying in a relationship just because you love somebody is not worth it.
Love is not all you need.
Respect is what you need.
Reassurance is what you need.
Communication is what you need.
Heart to heart conversation is what you need.
Happiness is what you need.
Knowing everyday you’re their favorite person is what you need.
Learn to love yourself first, let other one match it.

When someone not so familiar asks me “Ever been in LOVE!?!”.
My answer is: Yeah 3 times.

1. When i woke up at 5.45am today morning just wearing a trunk & i saw my 5 pack abs.
2. When i was getting ready for university, because now i am a PhD research scholar.
3. When i received my bank balance text after buying groceries at Lidl.
I fall in love with myself 3 times everyday.

Two exceptions i must mention;
1. When a kid accidentally says my name TAP after i touch his/her nose while saying TAP TAP TAP.
2. When a cute eastern european girl or a slavic angel with a fine 🍑 approaches me near a beach, can’t beat that one.
Special mention; also when my bestie bitch makes coffee for me when i am working from home at her house. This one is dedicated for you Demi.
Done.

Tap..😜

True me.. Tap-776..

The universe will keep handing you the same lessons, same failures, the same relationships, the same type of love and the same type of pain until you realise that the common denominator is you.

Until you are finally tired of your own patterns.
Until you finally love yourself enough to raise your standards and believe you are worthy of holding them.

You see the thing is, until you learn to love yourself more, you will continue to accept the love that mirrors how you truly feel about yourself.
The answer to everything you desire is within you.

Desires must help you become a better you.
Now relax.
You’ll end up where you’re supposed to be.
Choose consistent truthful people to vibe & shine.
Be picky.
You glow differently when you have good people with good intentions in your life. (Not my words).

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True me.. Tap-773..

I am not a superhuman. I have walked the same life path as many others. Character, Truth, Consistent approach, Loyalty, Decency & Respect are way too expensive 2021. And this world is running on a discount sale right now, result is cheap people. Those who come at you will disappoint you one way or other, period.

Inconsistency was there.
Disrespect was there.
Misunderstandings were there.
Inappropriate behaviour was there.
Lies were there.
Cheating was there.
Unacceptable bullshits were playing catch catch.
Heartbreak was there.

Good part is; all were there in past past past, my present has nothing but a beautiful life that people can only dream about.
My lesson was: have EXPECTATIONS, but only from yourself.
Always be the better person. And make your intentions pure. What and who you are is what will be remembered. Pain is inevitable and it will always exist. But if you focus on understanding what you are and what you are feeling, and why you are feeling it, you will overcome it.

The expectations we have often do not correspond with reality, we are disappointed every time this happens.
We become disappointed when we expect to be treated as we treat others.
When you start to realize that everyone is living at a different stage, thinking differently and making their choices, then you can only accept the fact that people do not share the same mind and heart.
When you want to be happy you have to let go of that and start with yourself, be the person you can be proud of, be an example, show respect and understanding.
Others may not change, but know that it is not up to you and be proud of how you are.
You’ve got so much soul to be handled by someone who has never been passionate.
EXPECTATION IS TO BE A BETTER HUMAN FIRST.

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True me.. Tap-772..

Avoid people who mess with your head.
Avoid people who intentionally and repeatedly do and say things that they know upset you.
Avoid people who expect you to prioritize them but refuse to prioritize you.
Avoid people who can’t and won’t apologize sincerely.
Avoid inconsistent approach & disrespect.

It’s during the toughest times of your life that you’ll get to see the true colors of the people who say they care about you.
Notice who sticks around and who doesn’t,
and be grateful to those who leave you,
for they have given you the room to grow in the space they abandoned,
and the awareness to appreciate the people who loved you when you didn’t feel lovable.

Bottom line:
Be OK with giving the gift of your absence to those who do not appreciate and respect your presence.

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day872

Don’t fall in LOVE too fast.
You think you know their dreams,
but you just know their plans.
Plans come from the head,
but dreams come from the heart.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I KNOW WHY MOST PEOPLE IN TECH COMMUNITY LIKE BUYING AGRICULTURAL FARMLAND.)

True me.. Tap-771..

Stop worrying about other people understanding you.
Get in touch with yourself instead.
Focus on what makes you happy,
what makes your soul feel at peace.
You are your biggest commitment.
So start loving your flaws,
your awkwardness,
your weirdness,
your intensity,
your vulnerability,
& your everything.

Life becomes so much more fulfilling when you are just simply yourself.
The world keeps spinning whether people understand you or not.
So why not make this next trip around the sun only about you!!

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True me.. Tap-769..

So you want to be happy?

Then stop letting the smallest things ruin your whole entire day.
If you’re bored with your daily routine, do something unexpected.
Stop complaining about how alone you are when you’re surrounded by people who actually care about you.
Forget all the drama and let go of all the grudges you’ve been holding.
Stop wasting time lingering over all that you could have, should have and would have done.
Stop spending your days thinking of how much better you could do.
Stop longing for something that has been and always will be out of your reach.
Just live the days as they come, stay consistent with your approach.
Wake up every morning and smile at the wonderful day that awaits you.
Take a risk for once, calculated risks if it’s possible.
Let yourself be happy, because you deserve it.

Love someone exactly as they are, and they’ll transform into the best possible version of who they could be.
Love yourself exactly as you are, and you will do the same.
HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE.
CHOOSE TO BE HAPPY.

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True me.. Tap-768..

If I’ve learned anything from life,
it’s that sometimes the darkest times can bring us to the brightest places.
I’ve learned that the most toxic people can teach us the most important lessons;
that our most painful struggles can grant us the most necessary growth,
and that the most heartbreaking losses of friendship and love can make room for the most wonderful people.
I’ve learned that what seems like a curse in the moment can actually be a blessing,
and what seems like the end of the road is actually just the discovery that we are meant to travel down a different path.
I’ve learned that no matter how difficult things seem, there is always hope.
And I’ve learned that no matter how powerless we feel or how horrible things seem, we can’t give up.
We have to keep going.

Even when it’s scary, even when all of our strength seems gone, we have to keep picking ourselves back up and moving forward, because whatever we’re battling in the moment, it will pass, and we will make it through.
We’ve made it this far.
We can make it through whatever comes next.
(Not my words).

Tap OUT..💪