True me.. Tap-745..

The thing about pain is, it won’t last forever.
And it kills you right now, but with time it gets better.

The thing about scars is, they all start to fade.
Until nothing is left of the cuts that were made.

The thing about today is, there’s always tomorrow.
And if you can’t find your smile, i have one you can borrow.

The thing about help is, beside you it stands.
But it won’t know it’s needed, unless you reach out your hand.

The thing about love is, you can’t feel it’s touch.
Until you let someone know that, this world is too much.

Tomorrow is not promised.
Not a single second or minute is.
So, live for today.
Keep the promises you make.
Take action on the things you desire and need.
Remind those that matter to you, that they are loved and you are grateful for them.
Never leave someone you care about on negative terms.
Give more than you take.
Make the calls you’ve been telling yourself you’ll do ‘tomorrow’.
Let the small shit go.
Never go to bed angry.
We will all die one day.
So learn to live each day with the promise to yourself that “it’ll be better than yesterday”.

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True me.. Tap-744..

No one knows what you need to do more than you do.
Cry when you need to. It’s relieving.
Laugh when you need to. It’s healing.
Sit alone when you need to. It’s necessary.
Surround yourself with strangers when you need to. It’s eye-opening.
Living by your needs is not easy. No one said it was.

But a fact that you should always remember is this:
“you are more worthy of being taken care of than anyone around you”.
And I don’t mean the superficial kind of care.
I mean the care that your soul needs.
Everyone around you is struggling somehow.
Everyone around you is trying to reach a goal, a destination, or a dream.
Just as you might not expose your worries to the world, no one else has to.

Remember that you are a work in progress.
You are not perfect.
You are not expected to be perfect.
Do not allow the fear of falling to stop you from jumping.
Do not allow the fear of responsibility to stop you from committing.
Do not allow the fear of exposure to stop you from shining.
FOLLOW WHAT YOU FEEL & FEED YOUR SOUL.

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True me.. Tap-743..

Stay away from people with negative vibe & toxic mindset.
Here is a HOW TO or WHOM TO;

1. Entertain those who exchange attention & mutual admiration.

2. Stay away from “Dry texters”, these kind of people can figure out a problem in everything that’s soothing to your head or heart. The thing is, they are just not interested in you. The earlier you understand, the better. Read more on this by clicking here. In general, every conversation with a dry texter is a pointless nonsense, it’s going nowhere. If communication sucks, just cut it or back off humbly.

3. Also stay away from those whose screen time in instagram is more than 4 minutes a day.
(Most successful people don’t even use such apps in their phone, they have hired agencies to keep fools stuck to create a brand value for their name. And i bet you don’t want a fool in your life).

4. If someone’s social circle is too random, that’s a sign of major inconsistency in their personality.

5. Never believe those who say bullshits like; “MONEY IS NOT THAT BIG OF A DEAL, I WOULD RATHER FOCUS ON LOVE OR FAMILY”. These are the double whammy of fickleness & fake ideology.
We are living in 2021, a happy LOVE & a happy FAMILY both come with a bill.

Enough said about what not to. Click here to read a previous post on what are the green signals of a healthy humanly equation. Hope you have a good one.

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True me.. Tap-742..

Travel, and tell no one.
Live a true LOVE, and tell no one.
Stay HAPPY, and tell no one.
Vibe with your tribe, and tell no one.
Succeed with your goals, and tell no one.
Celebrate your success, and tell no one.

If it’s beautiful, tell no one.
People ruin beautiful things.
They don’t know how to value BEAUTIFUL.

When you are happy with someone/something in private,
you don’t need to prove it on social media.
Just because you don’t share it on social media,
doesn’t mean you’re not up to big things.
Keep your personal life PERSONAL.
People who have a life,
they don’t need to prove they got one.
(Not my words).

Live it and stay lowkey.
Privacy is important.
Privacy is everything.
Privacy is precious.
In a world where most are overexposed while doing nothing positive, choose a private you who’s accessible only to an exclusive group of handful people.
PRIVACY IS THE GREATEST LUXURY.

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Tru2Day837

Date, in private.
Love, in private.
Be happy, in private.
Live, in private.

That way, you can;
Take your losses, in private.
Maintain yourself, in private.
Achieve peace, in private.
Rebuild yourself, in private.

True me.. Tap-733..

I may regret many things:
Decisions I made.
Decisions I didn’t make.
Feelings I expressed.
Feelings I suppressed.
People I loved.
People I rejected.
People I respected.
People I neglected.
People I listened to.
People I confided in.
Promises I made.
Promises I believed.
Questions I asked.
Answers I gave.
Words I said.
Words I didn’t say.

At the end reflecting is essential, but regret should not ground you in the past.
It should make you grateful that you have a conscious mind that realizes what is right and wrong.
It should give you strength to wisely use your present to make your future better.
It should free you.
If you don’t stop judging yourself, putting yourself down, believing that this is as good as you can be, then you’ve closed doors for yourself before they even appear in front of you.
You’ve become a slave of your past & you aren’t allowed to.
Don’t expect to be who you want to be without being true to yourself and believing in yourself.
If you don’t believe in yourself, don’t expect anyone to believe in you.
If you don’t see the best in yourself, don’t expect anyone to see the best in you.
When you close a door; do you expect back and stare at it and say, “I can’t leave because this door is still closed in front of me”?
Think about it.
Take small steps consistently, but with good vibe & high energy.
Be True to Yourself.

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True me.. Tap-724..

It’s okay if you don’t know what to feel,
if you don’t know what you want
and
if you can’t figure things out as you go.
It’s okay to not want something you worked so hard on getting after realizing, it wasn’t what you thought it was.
It’s okay to change your mind, to make mistakes, to walk away from someone you once loved-from something that once meant the world to you.

It’s okay because this is your life,
your cause,
your body,
your beliefs,
your mind,
your heart,
and your feelings.
You don’t need validation from no one other than you.
And I hope it doesn’t take you a lifetime to realize that.

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Tru2Day819

Modern day RELATIONSHIPS are like snapchat filters, everybody got a favourite one while considering to try another one.
Take your time, but anker yourself to someone someday where you find your piece of peace. That’s the way to go.

Tru2Day818

Please, keep looking.
Not for a person, but for your passion, your love, your courage, your goals, your dreams, your happiness, yourself.

Keep looking.
Explore yourself before you explore another person.
Know your worth, know yourself.
Only then will you know what you need over what you want.
You need yourself to become your own first.

True me.. Tap-715..

We yearn for connection, yet isolate ourselves.
We seek love, but fear loss.
We dream for someday, instead of trying for today.
We want change, but don’t want to change.
We over-consume, then wonder why there’s no space to create.
We love the ocean, yet buy plastic.
We advocate for education, then bury our students in loans.
We want health, but for a price.
We believe in equality, but struggle to bridge the gap of inequality.
We ask for better leaders, but don’t think to lead.
We wish for a better world, but not at the cost of comfort and convenience.

There’s a disconnect here. And it’s not any one persons fault. The world is made up of both beauty and brokenness. Most of the time, I believe we have our hearts in the right place. The problem is how overwhelming it all seems, but change is made up of small moments.

Change happens when we have been hurt, but choose not to act from our hurt.
Change happens when we see someone who seems upset, and ask how we can support them.
Change happens when we don’t pretend to have all the answers, but are willing to ask the uncomfortable questions.

The truth is, if we knew the whole story behind everyone’s actions, we would see why they are the way they are. And it doesn’t excuse it, but compassion is the birthplace of change.
A COMPASSIONATE HEART IS THE KEY TO CHANGE.

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