The more confident you are,
the quieter you become,
then you choose privacy over people in most scenarios.
Confident people are not attention seekers. Contrarily, the insecure ones are the loudest, drawing most attention to themselves.
Immature people thrive off external attention & gratification.
But confidence is has it’s own elegance.
Elegance thrives off self-respect & honour.
Confidence might be the key to success but the key to confidence is in yourself.
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Maturity is learning to walk away from people and situations that threaten your peace of mind, self-respect, values, morals and self worth.
We don’t talk about trees getting older.
We say they are growing.
Let’s use the same term for ourselves.
We are not getting older, we are just growing.
That’s the spirit of living.
No response is a response.
And it’s a powerful one.
Remember that.
Maturity is learning to walk away from people and situations that threaten your peace of mind, self-respect, values, morals and self worth.
We don’t talk about trees getting older,
we say they are growing.
Let’s use the same term for ourselves.
We are not getting older,
we are just growing.
That’s the spirit of Living.
Do not engage with someone with lower behavior.
You will be dealing with someone who projects,
who has ego problems,
who is self centered,
who lacks empathy,
who is emotionally immature,
who has unhealed wounds of their own,
who has a need to feel superior,
who needs to control others,
and who ends up hurting just about everyone who crosses their path.
Stay away from such people & such behaviour.
Move forward by healing your own hurts.
Improve yourself.
And forget about inviting other’s toxicity into your space.
You are your own responsibility.
Make sure you make yourself a better version of yourself with time.
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The attitude of “that’s just how I am, take it or leave it” is still a sign of immaturity.
As an adult, it’s your responsibility to figure out which of your traits are toxic and are negatively impactful towards other people and the ones you love, and to eventually learn how to fix them.
At some point, we all gotta start making ourselves better individuals.
If you truly believe you don’t have to change anything about yourself, even at the very least the worst in you, and that people will just have to deal with it, then sorry, you’re still a child.
TO BE A BETTER VERSION OF YOURSELF, BE THE BIGGEST CRITIC OF YOUR OWN BEHAVIOUR & ACTIONS.
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The older I get, the more comfortable I am with letting things go.
Everything doesn’t warrant a reaction, response, or rebuttal.
I am most peaceful when I preserve my energy for things that elevate ease in my life.
– ALEX ELLE.
COMMUNICATION is vital to every relationship.
There are people out there whose personalities just don’t mix with yours.
Don’t waste your time trying to figure out why.
Just go where you are wanted and understood, and everything else will fall into place.
If there’s someone in your life you are having trouble communicating with, try to work it out.
Be sure the tone in your voice comes from a place of love and respect to connect with them.
Communicate, understand each other, fix issues, stay together & vibe.
That’s MATURITY.
Only surround yourself with people who you can communicate with.
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