It’s a common saying that money isn’t everything. While it’s true that material possessions can’t buy happiness, but money is essential for many aspects of life. Money is needed for basic necessities like food, shelter, healthcare & a happy stable lifestyle. It can also provide opportunities for education, travel, and leisure.
While it’s important to prioritize experiences and relationships, having financial stability can alleviate stress and provide a sense of security. Money isn’t everything, but everything needs money.
Give thanks to the simple things in life. Such as, waking up early in the morning, breathing clean air and being alive, hot or cold shower after a tiring day, going to work to earn money, eating nutritious meals or tasty treats, walking to enjoy the beautiful streets, exploring the beautiful world around you.
It is the simple things we take for granted. Such things create a positive attitude towards life. Be grateful for the life you are blessed with. Positivity is a choice for a positive life.
Your mental health is more important than your career. Your mental health is more important than your money. Your mental health is more important than other people’s opinions. Your mental health is more important than that event you said you would attend. Your mental health is more important than your partner’s mood. Your mental health is more important than your families wishes.
If taking care of yourself means letting someone down, then let someone down. Always prioritise yourself without hurting others, communicate but maintain a distance. Your mental health is as important as your physical health.
As a man, your priorities should be to fix your morals, gather information, gain knowledge, earn qualifications, stay healthy, fetch your goals & reach financial stability with consistent efforts. Dating can wait.
Let me share a fun incident that happened before few months. My bestfriend Demi was shouting/explaining to one of her elder cousin sisters & their friends group how FEMINISM has broken the structure of nuclear families & it has destroyed women the most. I was sitting in the middle of all girls & I was trying really hard not to laugh. Meanwhile Demi’s dad who was sitting in living room area sent me a text saying; “Mid 30 feminists are dating pool of mid 50 hasbands & Demi is destroying our dating pool right now. Tell her to shut up”. I can laugh at that text anyday. (My bestfriend DEMI’s mother died way back because of breast cancer.)
At the end all i wanna say to men; The most cherished gift a girl can ever gift you is your own offsprings in exchange of your loyalty. You can marry a 25 yr old angel even when you are successful at 35, and start a family you desire. There’s nothing more beautiful than creating a strong stable happy family where the only answer is YES. And it’s sexy to be a successful provider. Morals > Money > Mortals. Make sure your morals must protect your people.
The heading of this post should be; When you are a man, life never stops.
Road towards financial stability is different: First it will feel like a sacrifice. Then it will feel like the grind. Then it will feel like hustle. Then it will feel like life. Then it will feel like freedom.
Money should be used to make more money, only fools misuse it to bring a bad name to MONEY. Money is the best form of freedom, security, stability & insurance. Use your money right.
I use my money to MAKE more money. You use your money to LOOK like you have more money. We are not the same. And, I focus more on money than people. Because I never met a dollar I didn’t like.
There’s no competition. Respectfully, you can never be me. Disrespectfully, I would never want to be you.
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