Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause before responding. Most importantly, pause whenever you’re about to react harshly.
Then, You’ll avoid saying things you will later regret. & You’ll avoid doing things you will later regret. Practice the pause.
Don’t worry about what people say behind your back, they are the people who are finding faults in your life instead of fixing the faults in their own life.
There’s a reason I have huge disagreements with modern day preaching of KINDNESS. Imagine there’s a beggar on streets who’s kindly asking for some money or food or help, that kindness is not his choice, that kindness is his only way to approach you, that kindness is forced on him because of his situation. I don’t think you should value that kindness at that point, but please choose to help him looking at his situation.
Now let’s pick another situation where a successful person who’s kind enough to give his employees an extra day off at work or some bonus or he chooses to help someone anyway possible under his capabilities without clicking a picture for social media clout. That wasn’t forced on him, that kindness was his choice, that kindness says his upbringing was right & that kindness says his values+morals are in sync with humanity. I value such KINDNESS.
You don’t have to prove nothing to nobody. Everyone’s life succeeds at it’s own pace. I have seen teenage millionaires getting life sentence for killing people with drugs & over speeding related accidents. I have seen 40 year old dads returning back home tired with a big smile to hug their kids. Life isn’t same for everyone.
Yet there are few disgusting people who look back & think they can hurt someone from past with petty moves. The answer is clear. Past has passed, very few people can digest it. Those who can’t digest it deserve a disconnection from your life. Own yourself. Be you.
Oversharing is how you leak the energy. Privacy is protection. Stop telling people more than what they need to know. The less you reveal, the more people can wonder.
Forget attention. Move in silence. Live peacefully. Vibrate higher. Speak when it’s time to say checkmate.
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