True me.. Tap-1211..

If we want to achieve great things, we must be intentional to focus on the right things, even when chaos arises.
If we are not intentional with our thought life, then our human nature will automatically focus on the problem rather than finding and creating solutions.

What you focus on multiplies.
So undoubtedly, when you focus on your problems for too long, they will begin to feel big and overwhelming.
When you allow your problems to be the loudest voice in the room, you lose sight of hope and possibility.

While it’s important to acknowledge the problems that exist, no good can evolve from focusing on your problems.
It will not change your situation, make things better, or shift the atmosphere and pave the way for a breakthrough.

Here’s the good thing: the problems you face, while they may be roadblocks, they cannot keep you from the future that was intended for you.
ONCE AGAIN; WHAT YOU FOCUS ON MULTIPLIES.

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While you may not have control over everything that happens in life, you do have control over your mindset and perspective.
You can choose to think that you’re down on your luck, or you decide to see that you are being set-up for something extraordinary.
You can choose to focus on all the chaos happening around you, or you decide to look for the good that is emerging.
You can choose to live in a state of victimhood, or you can decide to live from the stance of a champion.

Make the decision that come what may, you are going to be good and beautiful and something magical.
Not because the world’s problems finally faded away, but because you chose to start changing your perspective.

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When obstacles arise, don’t be surprised.
Don’t get stressed out or allow yourself to get lost in worry or anxiety.
Instead, take a deep breath and invite wisdom into your situation with the confidence that you can and will find and create a solution.
Remember: for every problem, there is a solution.
But, it’s going to require hope, creativity, and faith to find it.

The hope that there’s a way out, the creativity to find a way around the problem, the faith that you strong enough to conquer the problems that you face. You got this.
You are strong enough to overcome every mountain you face.
There’s magic in your bones.
FOR EVERY PROBLEM, THERE IS A SOLUTION.

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We want solutions to PROBLEMS quickly.
But, some problems are beyond our control.
And some problems are solved by tolerating them.

With time,
Situation changes,
Our mindset changes,
Our needs change,
And our maturity level changes.
At some point of time, we don’t even care whether some problems get solved or not.

An intelligent individual is not someone who solves every problem,
but someone who knows which problems to solve and which problems to tolerate.

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True me.. Tap-1130..

Let them judge you.
Let them misunderstand you.
Let them gossip about you.
Their opinions aren’t your problem.
You stay kind, committed to love, and free in your authenticity.
No matter what they do or say, don’t you dare doubt your worth or the beauty of your truth.
Just keep on shining like you do.

– Scott Stabile.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. World stopped accepting leadership of UK on economy after the fall of colonialism, and thanks to labours party which made a big dent on UK’s image by reiterating nonsensical issues on parliament floor. It’s just a start the way things are headed. People are worried about recession because we are already in a recession since a while. I can see even worse for USA in coming days.)

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You all are grown ass adults now.
You’re responsible for your emotional intelligence at this point.
It’s no longer about who hurt you or who made you this way.
It’s about what YOU can do to fix YOUR problem.
Playing the blame game will leave you ugly an stagnant.

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Fall in love with how hard you work,
with how hard you try to be a good person,
with the way you deal with problems.
Value all those things that you tend to ignore about yourself and stop being so hard on yourself.

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TRY.
TRY AGAIN.
TRY ONCE MORE.
TRY DIFFERENTLY.
TRY AGAIN TOMORROW.
TRY AND ASK FOR HELP.
TRY FIND SOMEONE WHO’S DONE IT.
TRY TO FIX THE PROBLEM.
KEEP TRYING UNTIL YOU SUCCEED.

True me.. Tap-1051..

4 Habits to make you MENTALLY STRONG:

1: Delay gratification.

The ability to delay gratification can be a big predictor of success.
Mentally strong people have the ability to prioritize the long-term over short-term pleasures.

2: Show up on the toughest days.

Often it’s the days when we don’t feel like showing up that end up being the most important ones.
Proving to yourself that you can show up on tough days builds your resilience and mental strength.

3: Positive Self-Talk.

One of the fastest ways to tear down your mental toughness is by speaking negatively to yourself.
Mentally strong people understand the importance of being your own biggest supporter.

4: Don’t dwell on things.

Allowing a problem or situation to dominate your mind, is another quick way to lose resilience.
Mentally strong people focus on what is within their control, and take action on it as soon as possible.

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When you learn how to communicate with others there’s no problem you can’t solve.
It doesn’t mean you’ll always agree with other people and it certainly doesn’t mean that they will agree with you.
But none of that matters if you possess the maturity and the patience to work through your differences.
Think about how much more peace there would be on this planet if people would just talk through a problem instead of using violence & retaliation.

Do you have a friend or family member you have a really hard time getting through to?
Maybe now is the time to try again.
It never hurts to try.

You have to learn how to communicate if you want to get along in this world.

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