You can’t fully love anybody until you love yourself. As great as it feels being in a relationship, at the end of the day, if you’re not happy with yourself, having a boyfriend or girlfriend won’t change that. You’re only going to be with your significant other while you’re awake. It’s your consciousness that falls asleep on your pillow every night, not theirs.
Whether you are single or in a relationship, spend some quality time bonding with and getting to know yourself even better.
Don’t wait around for other people to be happy for you. Any happiness you get, you’ve got to make yourself. Be a healthier happier successful version of yourself first.
There’s nothing more unattractive than when I see someone acting really nice to someone who has power and treating someone else badly because in their eyes they are lower on the social ladder. The best way to find out who someone really is, is to notice if they treat all people with equality. If they don’t, it’s worth reevaluating your relationship.
Treat all people the same, with love, respect, and kindness, regardless of their financial or social position in life. You are no better or worse than anyone else because of what you have or don’t have.
If you want to see the true measure of a man, watch how he treats his inferiors, not his equals. -J. K. ROWLING.
Don’t waste time with people who don’t appreciate and value you for everything you have to offer. I see people keep chasing someone thinking they can change them or friends who don’t have their best interests at heart, but it doesn’t work that way. One of the keys to lasting relationships and friendships is MUTUAL RESPECT.
Don’t squander your time chasing anyone who has told you they don’t want you around. Evaluate all your relationships and weed out the negative ones. Go where you are wanted and stray from where you aren’t. Surround yourself with positive people and environments. (Not my words.)
Nobody is perfect. Equally important is knowing how to forgive yourself. Do not obsess over your past mistakes. The more you obsess and hold on to it, the more energy and power you give it. So let it go, learn from it, and move on. Forgive yourself for a mistake you made or something you’ve done that you now regret. Allow yourself to let it go.
Leave all your inconsistent behaviour behind. Learn to be in sync with life. It can be your career, hobbies, relationship or your health, learn to be CONSISTENT if you want success in any field of your life. Live with no regrets. Life is fun, let it be.
Relationships between family, friends, significant others, and colleagues are complicated and full of learning experiences. Nobody comes into this world knowing everything. We all go through different experiences, make mistakes, have successes, and then make more mistakes that we can learn from. The ability to trust and listen to the people in your life is the foundation all healthy relationships are built on.
While talking to friends, make sure you are really listening to what they have to say and aren’t distracted by something else. You owe that to them and you would want the same in return. Trust is a bond between two people that is found only when they are able to listen and understand where the other person is coming from. That to me is the only key to friendships and relationships.
LOVE is not enough. LOVE is not enough for a long-term committed healthy relationship to fully work. We have been told our whole life that “LOVE IS ALL YOU NEED”, which is pure bullshit. You need VALUES, VISION, LIFESTYLE, RESPECT, CONSISTENCY and MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING. And all these accumulate to immense amount of TRUST, which is the basic foundation of a COMMITMENT.
“A relationship without TRUST is like a car without gas. You can sit in the car as much & as longer as you want, but it’s going nowhere”. (Not my words.)
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Watch the whole video to know more about where we are heading in future. If you don’t have time to watch entire video, watch it from 19:50 to next 1-minute. If you are living in a developed nation, controlling our population is not the right way to go. If we don’t have more children, our civilization is going to crumble. We always need enough people to work & pay taxes for our survival, or else by 2050 this same tiktok generation of dumbfucks will be on streets protesting about government’s inability to provide a healthy social security & pension system.)
Entering/Entertaining a relationship is a holy thing. Honouring/Respecting that commitment is divine. Starting a family with a beautiful person is godly.
When you allow people to your life, first become a happy peaceful beautiful soul & ask the same from other side.
(Here BEAUTIFUL PERSON means someone who is TRUTHFUL & CONSISTENT.)
A best friend is someone you can count on wholeheartedly. Someone who you can trust to tell your deepest and darkest secrets to, and not have a worry in the world that a rumor will spread throughout the town. A best friend is someone who supports your every decision even if they may not always agree with it. A best friend is someone who is honest enough to tell you the truth, but loyal enough to remain by your side. A best friend is chosen family. Someone who can get on your nerves, but at the end of the day you know who really has your back and your best interest at heart.
A best friend is knowing that out of all the human beings in the world, you two choose each other.
Next few lines are for my university mates who always question my equation & my snapchat stories with my bestfriend DEMI, just because i am one happy happening sweet gentle naughty TAP. OK little bit grumpy as well sometimes. So, did DEMI ask me to make 2 babies with her for the 958th time when she was little drunk? Answer is; Yes. Did i push her in winter wonderland ice bar right after that question? Answer is; Yes ofcourse. If i get a chance, i will do that again & again every single day. DEMI, SORRY MY BESTIE BITCH. YOU KNOW I HATE YOU FR.😘😜😂
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