Tag: relationship

True me.. Tap-748..

In a world that seeks connection,
we oddly avoid eye contact,
we time our text responses in order to protect ourselves from seeming too eager or too interested,
and
we hold our feelings back because we don’t want to seem overly emotional or unreasonable.

We silence our instincts,
and
at the end of the day instead of feeling good about ourselves,
we feel alone,
we feel misunderstood.

Remember,
it is okay to be emotional,
to seek help,
to confidently tell someone you enjoy being around that you are infatuated with them.
There is nothing wrong with vulnerability,
with being human,
for that is what creates depth within our relationships,
and
that is what ultimately unifies us.
If your feelings & emotions bring joy, show them.
Living a happy life means, do what you wish to do right now.

Tap OUT..🤗

True me.. Tap-747..

Suddenly social media has created so many experts who brag about their success stories.
Most of these only talk about their success.
Half of these dumbfucks have little to nothing success in their field, rest half are just scammers.

Genuine people who made it big will never sell their recipe to success.
Because it’s personal.
My journey with my relationships, friendships, religion, finance & career, all are personal to me.
I may give tips to my son one day, but why will i tell some random person to follow my steps & make it happen, if i already made it so far walking on my own!!?
Nobody helped me become what i wanted to be.
The journey wasn’t smooth sailing.
And i also know nobody will put similar effort to be where i am.

Ask Elon Musk how he got into Tesla without founding it & how it’s the world’s highest valued automobile manufacturing company in stock market while making only 0.13% of cars in this world!!?
Will he ever tell you in a while how that happened?
It’s consistent rigorous efforts of time & discipline, that’s paying off right now.

Stop selling success stories.
Now we live in a world where people first need to know what they shouldn’t do.
I want more people to talk about setbacks.
Failures & struggles are fun too.
I don’t know why people avoid that part!
If you can’t enjoy the struggle, you don’t deserve the SUCCESS.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-739..

Date the one who cares with her whole head & heart.
Date her if you can see yourself going for a drive while blasting throwbacks and screaming crazy every word of that track without being judged.
Date her if you can see yourself at 4 in morning talking about life, goals and all of your passions.
Date her if you can have fun with her but still crawl back into her arms when you really want/need to.
Date her if she is humble but makes you feel confident and hypes you up.
Date her if she can make you feel spoiled without any gifts or anything materialistic.
Date her if she opens the door for you before leaving for work and never lets you leave without kissing you goodbye.
Don’t date because she calls you baby/boo or if she says she cares about you but just asks for money & timeouts.
Don’t date her if she talks badly about you to her friends or doesn’t defend you if they talk trash about you.
Don’t date her because things may get better someday. You are living in present, efforts are needed right now.

If the person who’s reading this post is TAP;
Don’t date her if she believes in ketchup, orange juice, vegan diet & naturally aspirated V12.
SORRY DEMI.🤪

In this journey of life, we always come accross new people.
Some become friends, some turn out to be romantic equations.
And yes people put efforts to get things going.
They put efforts, but they put efforts for a while.
And that’s the fuck up.
Humans don’t understand this one tiny thing;
“You have to keep working on it forever to have a relationship/equation forever which yields happiness forever”.

Your life isn’t an AEROPLANE
and
RELATIONSHIPS don’t run on AUTOPILOT.
(Said by DADDY TAP i guess).😜

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-738..

I have outgrown many things.
I have outgrown relatives who gladly offer criticism but not support.
I have outgrown my need to meet my family’s unrealistic expectations of me.
I have outgrown people who wear masks and secretly rejoice at my misfortunes. (Not the corona situation face mask).
I have outgrown shrinking myself for those who are intimidated by my intelligence and outspoken nature.
I have outgrown friends who cannot celebrate my accomplishments.
I have outgrown people who conveniently disappear whenever life gets a little dark.
I have outgrown those who take pleasure in gossiping and spreading negativity.
I have outgrown dull, meaningless conversations that feel forced. I hate smalltalk.
I have outgrown those who don’t take a stand against ignorance and injustice.
I have outgrown trying to please everyone.
I have outgrown society constantly telling me I’m not beautiful, smart or worthy enough.
I have outgrown my tendency to fill my mind with self doubt and insecurity.
I have outgrown trying to find reasons not to love myself.
I have outgrown anything and anyone that does not enrich the essence of my soul.
I have outgrown many things.
And I’ve never felt freer.
(Not my words).

The goal is to become an upgraded version of my real self & a better HUMAN BEING every next day of this life. And i am connected to everyone who’s a part of that journey. If we have a steady flow of communication, you are celebrated in my books.
There’s no WONDER without some WONDERFUL people in life.
SOMETIMES LIFE SEEMS UNCOMFORTABLE BECAUSE YOUR OLD LIFE DOESN’T FIT ON YOU ANYMORE.
YOU’VE OUTGROWN THE OLD YOU.

Tap OUT..👍

True me.. Tap-732..

CHOOSE RIGHT COMPANY.
Let’s vibe.
Text me a paragraph.
Call me & start talking without saying “HELLO”.
Disconnect the call without saying “BYE” because you gonna ring me again in couple of hours either ways.
Tell me after language classes why you got so angry at your sibling this morning.
Tell me why you have a scar shaped like an island on the left side of your shoulder.
Explain the story behind that tattoo while swimming.
Let’s talk about why we both love Levi’s more than any other denim brand.
Sing a rap song with wrong lyrics.
Send me your experience about the time you spent at your gran’s house last summer.
Call me when I’m half asleep and tell me why you believe in God or Ghost or Aliens.
Tell me about the last time you saw yourself cry in mirror & how ugly you were that time.
Tell me why you hate green vegetables when we are drenched in rain at farmer’s market.
You are allowed to go on for hours about things that may not seem important.
I promise that I’ll be hanging on to every word you say.

Tell me everything that makes you comfortable or uncomfortable.
There’s nothing more sexy than an open wild conversation with people who are consistently present in your life.
Such people bring joy to our little world without feeling obligated.
You are celebrated in my books.
(Some brownie points to Laura, Zan, Chrissi & my bestie DEMI. Daddy TAP sends some good vibes via left balcony.)😜😘

While choosing people, I always make sure to stay away from those who SMALL TALK.
And nobody wants someone who just talks about breakfast & weather.

Tap..😘

True me.. Tap-731..

Here is a fact nobody wants you to know:
you don’t need anybody, you just don’t.

I have seen people wreck themselves on the bedposts of lovers who don’t remember to call them.
I’ve seen them come home with bruises, tell me it was in the name of feeling wanted, tell themselves this is the best they could have gotten.
I’ve seen people ruin their brains on sharp teeth and harsh words, lovers who sink in their claws and toy with emotions.
I’ve seem them lie in bed and refuse to start crying,
tell me it was in the hopes of exchanging last names,
tell themselves they want this forever and not that they just can’t escape.

Just stop, you got yourself here.
You’re not going to crumble, you’re not.
You’ve been carrying your own body weight since you were old enough to walk.
Yours are the shoulders that have held up this world.
You already have the strength within you.
You’ve already made it this far, you can make it through.
Don’t assign that power to anyone else. That spark rightfully belongs to you. Own yourself.
(Not my words.)

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day830

PEOPLE DON’T HAVE THE PATIENCE TO BUILD A BUSINESS FOR 3 YEARS WHILE NURTURING OWN IDEA, BUT THEY HAVE THE PATIENCE TO GO TO WORK FOR SOMEONE ELSE NEXT 30 YEARS.

(There is no difference between any inconsistent partner in a relationship & an impatient person with career/money. Both have zero idea about WTF they are doing with own life. You will always hear lines like “GO WITH THE FLOW” from this kinda people. And remember it’s only dead fishes who go with the flow.)

Build big with bliss, banter, badassery & balance.

True me.. Tap-725..

This is life, and it is what it is.
Shit is gonna happen.
It’s gonna get complicated.
We’re gonna relapse.
We’re gonna need time-outs.
We’re gonna be weak.
We’re gonna be strong.
We’re gonna lose our shit and yell for people to get the fuck out of our lives.
We’re gonna break down and beg some people to stay in our lives.
Some days we’re gonna feel everything all at once.
Other days, we’re gonna feel nothing at all.
We’re gonna be in some bad spaces.
We’re gonna be in some amazing ones.
We’re gonna get on our knees crying and hurting and begging for help.
We’re gonna get on our knees and pray just to say thank you.
We’re gonna have moments when we know exactly what we want, and we’re sure.
We’re gonna have moments when we legit have no fucking clue what we want, and we’re confused.


This life shit isn’t a movie, and I think sometimes, we forget that. Life is the way you pursue it.

Tap OUT..🤗

Tru2Day824

Everything you do is based on the choices you make.
It’s not your parents, your past relationships, your job, the economy, the weather, an argument or your age that is to blame.
You and only you are responsible for every decision and choice you make, period.