Having someone understanding your mind, thoughts, emotions or even face expression, is real intimacy to me.
-Janice Price.
When somebody tells you they are changing the world & you are helping them do that, REMEMBER IT’S PURE BULLSHIT.
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Current generation in relationships be life “Boy playing playstation games & Girl busy with make-up/tiktok videos or instagram pics, i find it both stupid & funny”. Building wealth, property, knowledge, investments & a stable career are becoming flimsy with time among young crowd. When such people enter relationships with their 9-10 month validity boo-boo bullshit, it becomes HILARIOUS further.
I appreciate those who understand “Entering a relationship means becoming a better version of yourself to earn the spot of being with the person you desire”. First become the person you dream to be with.
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You’re going to realize it one day that happiness was never about your job or your degree or being in a relationship. Happiness was never about following in the footsteps of all of those who came before you; it was never about being like the others. One day, you’re going to see it-that happiness was always about the discovery, the hope, the listening to your heart and following it wherever it chose to go. Happiness was always about being kinder to yourself; it was always about embracing the person you were becoming. One day, you will understand that happiness was always about learning how to live with yourself, that your happiness was never in the hands of others.
Happiness was always about you, it will always be about you.
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CHEATING is not a part of ups & downs of a relationship. It’s the end, done.
Be HONEST, that’s the easiest way to earn respect in a relationship/business or any kind of equation in this world. No one will deny that honesty is essential. In fact, it’s been important throughout all of human history to gain someone’s respect. You must first gain their trust by being honest. Why would you respect or trust someone who’s known to cheat lie or steal! Dishonesty is not a good look in any setting, whether it’s with the cashier at the grocery store or a longtime business partner.
If you want to earn respect, you must always be honest. Successful people know that if the foundation of a relationship either personal or professional spilt a trust, they will have solid ground to stand on. If that ground is cracked with lies or is crumbling due to deceit, the relationship is doomed.
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In case you want to grow into a bigger better person, your past mustn’t dictate your present or future. Most believe “past is 100% indicative of future”. Everyone screws up sometimes and we’ve all been hurt in some way, be taken advantage of or have been accepted less than we deserve, but you shouldn’t regret any of it as every negative situation is a chance to learn something and they help us make better choices.
The next time you’ll learn who you can trust, what you want in a friendship or relationship or a business partnership, how to read people and to detect insecurity, you figure out who you are and how to be yourself and most importantly to appreciate the good things in your life over own flaws. Life is fun, let it be.
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Live a life with a thought where nothing is wasted. Seeing postivity in everything/everyone is tough, but worth it. Let me explain. Most think “failed relationships were a waste of time”. No. There are people who are meant to be in your life and people who aren’t, but that doesn’t make any failed relationship a waste. Even if it was awful and wasn’t what you wanted at all, at least you learned what you don’t want.
You shouldn’t force people to stay in your life. If they know your worth and want you in their lives, they will make desirable space for you.
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We appreciate those whom we want & sometimes we stop appreciating a person no matter how good equation we shared in past. Liking someone because of familiarity doesn’t make sense.
There are a bunch of people who say & believe “LOOKS DOESN’T MATTER”. I strongly oppose that idea of “neglecting to take care of your appearance”. To some this may seem superficial. But the time and effort you put into your appearance often reflect your inherent values towards your relationship.
Let me explain; if you stop making an effort to look after yourself, it comes across as though you do not have any enthusiasm or focus on improving yourself. It also cultivates the idea that looking good for your partner isn’t of great importance to you. This lack of care could make things turn sour after a while, especially if your partner is a more focused individual who feels that self-image is an integral part of who they are. Nobody’s age number is moving backwards. Being fitness concious & fashion forward with your taste is a lifestyle choice which makes you an exciting individual. Looks does matter. A person’s aesthetics is enticing and interest in personal hygiene is a major turn on.
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The biggest hurdle on your way to happiness is self-loathing. Self-loathing is very similar to insecurity. And if you experience it, know that you’re not alone. Almost everyone experiences some form of self-hate at one time or another. It’s the feeling you are not enough, unworthy or undeserving of the good things in life, like love and happiness. The truth is that, everyone deserves love and happiness. But we’re often taught the opposite. It may arise from a history of abuse, cultural or social messages or being excluded.
Bad relationships, failures and many other different experiences can lead you to believe that, there is something inherently wrong with you. Well, there isn’t and self-loathing will only bring you down even if you’ve made decisions that you’re not proud of. You can learn from your mistakes, hating yourself over them will not do you any good. Let go of your self-loathing. It’s a barrier to your happiness. And you do deserve to be happy.
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