Even if you cannot change all the people around you, you can change the people you choose to be around.
Life is too short to waste your time on people
who are inconsistent,
who don’t respect you,
who don’t appreciate you,
and
who don’t value you.
Spend your life with people
who make you smile,
who make you laugh,
who make you feel loved,
and
who bring a vibe that’s consistent.
Life is fun, let it be.
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If they respect you,
respect them.
If they disrespect you,
still,
respect them.
Do not allow the actions of others to decrease your good manners,
because you represent yourself,
not others.
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When you have a gun, but you aren’t choosing to shoot anyone, then that peace is your choice.
When you have a million, but you aren’t choosing to make unnecessary spendings, then that minimalistic life is your choice.
When you have a powerful voice in society & you are respected by many, but you are choosing to be compassionate, then that kindness is your choice.
Without the previous the later has no value.
Your capabilities must determine your choices.
Your choice for peace, kindness & compassion makes no sense unless you are successful in life.
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Attitude is a choice.
Happiness is a choice.
Optimism is a choice.
Kindness is a choice.
Giving is a choice.
Respect is a choice.
Whatever choice you make makes you.
Choose wisely.
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A man’s goals should be to give his woman things she needs without her having to ask.
Things like loyalty, attention, affection, respect, financial stability, quality time & love etc.
A good man deserves the same.
Being loved is the minimum.
Make sure you are also being respected, prioritized, supported & understood.
Communication is vital to every relationship.
There are people out there whose personalities just don’t mix with yours.
Don’t waste your time trying to figure out why.
Just go where you are wanted and understood, and everything else will fall into place.
If there’s someone in your life you are having trouble communicating with, try to work it out.
Be sure the tone in your voice comes from a place of love and respect to connect with them.
Only surround yourself with people who you can communicate with.
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Let go of expecting people to be a certain way just because you are.
Not everyone will understand you or respect you. Detach yourself from wanting to be understood.
Your life is about own goals, own growth, self-love & self-acceptance.
Be you & be a better version of yourself every single day.
I was raised to show respect.
I was taught to knock before i open a door.
Say hello when I enter a room.
Say please and thank you, and to have respect for my elders.
I do let another person have my seat if they need it.
Say ‘yes sir’ and ‘no sir’, and help others when they need me to, not stand on the sidelines and watch.
Hold the door for the elderly person behind me.
Say ‘excuse me’ when it’s needed.
To love people for who they are and not for what i can get from them.
And most importantly, i was also raised to treat people exactly how i would like to be treated by others.
It’s called respect.
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