The more confident you are,
the quieter you become,
then you choose privacy over people in most scenarios.
Confident people are not attention seekers. Contrarily, the insecure ones are the loudest, drawing most attention to themselves.
Immature people thrive off external attention & gratification.
But confidence is has it’s own elegance.
Elegance thrives off self-respect & honour.
Confidence might be the key to success but the key to confidence is in yourself.
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Self-respect comes from self- control.
You’ll never respect yourself if you’re a slave to people-pleasing and external validation.
Maturity is learning to walk away from people and situations that threaten your peace of mind, self-respect, values, morals and self worth.
Indecisiveness causes insecurities.
Insecurities cause self-doubt.
You start expecting the worst, allowing yourself to take every wrong step & sabotage own growth in life.
Solution:
Find a motive to live.
Set a goal.
Take decisions rightfully: stay stuck to your decisions.
If you can’t find reasons behind your actions/words/moves; don’t do it because they are pure nonsense which may harm your peace of mind.
Be true to yourself first, everyone will acknowledge that with time.
Investment in self growth gratifies self-respect and self-esteem.
Be a TRUE you.
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We humans don’t understand the difference between self-respect & EGO,
which results in hurting self.
EGO & PRIDE will get crushed by you or someone else soon or sooner,
they are flighty in nature & help with nothing.
Focus on building your SELF-ESTEEM,
which will strengthen your SELF-RESPECT.
Soon you will recognise your worth & that’s a step in the right directions to thrive.
Focus on being a TRUE you.
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I live a life where there is no space for “SECOND CHANCE”, never got one, never wanted one & i am not big enough to give one.
Live a life with ample amount of self-respect.
Inconsistent people always keep returning with dirt in head & heart to walk over your sanity.
Learn how to say a straightforward “NO”.
The one who can break something beautiful can never fix it.
Even if they do, nobody can trust them.
My attitude with life is something where i get over things/people pretty quick.
It matters nothing unless it’s impacting my family or money. And yeah some childhood/university friends are included in my family.
Good vibes are scored around people who thrive with you & the sexiest thing about them is their CONSISTENCY.
Life is a simple fun thing, let it be.
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START PRIORITIZING:
Your health.
Your mental health.
Your well-being.
Your boundaries.
Your bliss.
Your happiness.
Your self love.
Your self worth.
Your self respect.
Your purpose.
Your goals.
Your much needed rest.
Your piece of peace.
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Maturity is learning to walk away from people and situations that threaten your peace of mind, self-respect, values, morals and self worth.
Some people will get mad at you for not being who they want you to be.
One of the biggest forms of self-betrayal is living your life by their rules instead of your own.
Your task is simple:
Be kind.
Be real.
Be humble.
Keep growing.
And unapologetically live your best life.
Be you.
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10 WAYS TO BECOME MENTALLY STRONGER EVERYDAY;
1. Take 15 minutes a day to self-reflect.
2. Do at least 1 tough thing every day, it could be a 45 minutes workout or 5km run or procrastination from certain things.
3. Give up one bad habit that’s bugging you.
4. Develop positive self-talk.
5. Identify challenges and set goals.
6. Identify your strengths and weaknesses.
7. Journal daily: record what you have gratitude for.
8. Write down 10 ideas every day & read 20 pages everyday: this will build your mind muscle.
9. Take care of your physical health & eat right.
10. Create a healthy environment for you to thrive.
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