True me.. Tap-1211..

If we want to achieve great things, we must be intentional to focus on the right things, even when chaos arises.
If we are not intentional with our thought life, then our human nature will automatically focus on the problem rather than finding and creating solutions.

What you focus on multiplies.
So undoubtedly, when you focus on your problems for too long, they will begin to feel big and overwhelming.
When you allow your problems to be the loudest voice in the room, you lose sight of hope and possibility.

While it’s important to acknowledge the problems that exist, no good can evolve from focusing on your problems.
It will not change your situation, make things better, or shift the atmosphere and pave the way for a breakthrough.

Here’s the good thing: the problems you face, while they may be roadblocks, they cannot keep you from the future that was intended for you.
ONCE AGAIN; WHAT YOU FOCUS ON MULTIPLIES.

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Unsuccessful people make decisions based on their current situations.
Successful people make decisions based on where they want to be.

True me.. Tap-1201..

When obstacles arise, don’t be surprised.
Don’t get stressed out or allow yourself to get lost in worry or anxiety.
Instead, take a deep breath and invite wisdom into your situation with the confidence that you can and will find and create a solution.
Remember: for every problem, there is a solution.
But, it’s going to require hope, creativity, and faith to find it.

The hope that there’s a way out, the creativity to find a way around the problem, the faith that you strong enough to conquer the problems that you face. You got this.
You are strong enough to overcome every mountain you face.
There’s magic in your bones.
FOR EVERY PROBLEM, THERE IS A SOLUTION.

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True me.. Tap-1190..

We want solutions to PROBLEMS quickly.
But, some problems are beyond our control.
And some problems are solved by tolerating them.

With time,
Situation changes,
Our mindset changes,
Our needs change,
And our maturity level changes.
At some point of time, we don’t even care whether some problems get solved or not.

An intelligent individual is not someone who solves every problem,
but someone who knows which problems to solve and which problems to tolerate.

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Tru2Day1285

Unsuccessful people make decisions based on their current situations.
Successful people make decisions based on where they want to be.

True me.. Tap-1184..

Life is rarely ever predictable.
The truth is: we were never guaranteed that we would have the answers for everything or feel certainty in every situation.

That’s part of this journey’s adventure to get from where we are to where we want to be, we are required to trust, hope, and believe, and dare to blaze the trail even when the path in front of us looks near impossible.

The secret to life isn’t about knowing the future or having the perfect roadmap, but rather having faith for the future and the spirit of a pioneer.

IT’S OKAY NOT TO KNOW HOW THINGS ARE GOING TO TURN OUT.

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True me.. Tap-1163..

Remember;
Most of your stress comes from the way you respond, not the way life is.
Adjust your attitude.
Change how you see things.
Look for the good in all situations.
Take the lesson and find new opportunities to grow.
Let all the extra stress, worrying, and overthinking go.
BE AN AUTHENTIC VERSION OF YOURSELF.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Big fan of Key & Peele, I had to share this. WELCOME TO DEMOCRACY.)

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If you are serious about the change in your life that you desire, you must be willing to go through uncomfortable situations.
It is the only way you will GROW.

True me.. Tap-1124..

Types of PEOPLE you need to hang on to;

Enthusiastic listeners.
People who don’t make you guess if they’re mad.
Direct communicators.
The friend who helps you clean your room.
Those who are kind to those who can do nothing for them.
Messy folks who repeatedly get it wrong but never stop trying to get it right anyway.
Kindred spirits.
Loud laughers.
Pals who make the grocery store fun.
Loved ones who get as excited about your success as you do.
The person you feel comfortable crying in front of.
Sing-in-the-car friends.
People who text you to look at the moon.
People who text you just to say hi.
The one you’ve known since childhood who you can go a long time without talking to but nothing changes.
Those who understand the value of holding space.
The mentor who pushes you to do better because they want better for you.
Patient teachers.
Healers.
Scrappy souls.
Hard workers.
Friends you can joke about hypothetical situations with for hours on end.

The genuine ones.
Anyone who leaves you feeling good afterward, not just when you’re with them.
People who see your fault lines and say they have them too.
Anyone who came to mind as you read this.
Hold them close.
Love them hard.

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True me.. Tap-1123..

Please stop overthinking life like you have to have an answer to every feeling or situation.
That’s not how life works.
We figure it all out by just living.
We learn what’s important and what isn’t
by messing up,
by missing an opportunity,
by seeking advice and not taking it.

Sometimes we have no damn clue what to do, and that’s okay.
Always trust your gut and know that everything works out the way it’s meant to.
It always does.
Relax; we were never in control anyway.

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