True me.. Tap-837..

FIVE GENTLE REMINDERS:

1. The kindest people aren’t born that way, they are made. They are the souls that have experienced so much at the hands of life, they are the ones who have dug themselves out of the dark, who have fought to turn every loss into a lesson. The KINDEST people do not just exist, they choose to soften where circumstance has tried to harden them, they choose to believe in goodness, because they have seen firsthand why COMPASSION is so necessary. They have seen firsthand why TENDERNESS is so important in this world.

2. Surround yourself with people who are doing the work to HEAL themselves. Surround yourself with those who want to talk to you about IDEAS rather than other human beings. Surround yourself with people who LOVE and RESPECT themselves, people who are GENTLE and KIND and who ENCOURAGE CONNECTION. Surround yourself with people who genuinely show up in your life, people who don’t just want attention, or praise, or validation from you. Surround yourself with those who want to GROW with you. These people will change your life.

3. Being understood fosters a different kind of INTIMACY that is untouchable. The rarest, most profound kind of connection you are going to experience will not be with the person who instantly gratifies you, but rather, with the kind of human being who sees you clearly. Ask yourself who makes you feel the most you? Who sees you in ways you don’t see yourself? Who pours calm and ease into the heart of you? Those people who came to mind are rare and beautiful gifts. Never take them for granted.

4. Do not just be THANKFUL for the things you deem positive in life. Be thankful for the EMOTIONS you also deem negative, because it is within the darkness that we grow to APPRECIATE the light. The hardest things in life are building you, and reminding you of your capacity to overcome. At the end of the day, nothing you have experienced thus far has defeated you. There is POWER in reminding yourself of that. You are capable of braving the storms, that is what they are there to teach you.

5. Please don’t ever forget that so many human beings you come into contact with are all trying to heal themselves from the things they often do not discuss. Always choose to be KIND. Always choose GRACE.



REMAIN TRUTHFUL & CONSISTENT IN YOUR WALK OF LIFE, THAT’S SEXY, BEAUTIFUL & BOLD. (Not my words).

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Mama said;
“You never need to be religious. Religious people believe bit too much in god, angel, heaven, hell & demons. And that’s low-key toxic in 2021. But you must believe in KARMA, you will get what you give. Karma is real. The nature of our world is based on EQUILIBRIUM. Good intentions & kind acts will always be rewarded, even GOD’s existence depends on that goodness. Karma & Kindness go hand in hand. This tiny bit of knowledge is SPIRITUAL, not religious. Become little spiritual with time“.

My takeaway from this is;
YOU AREN’T ALLOWED TO DISRESPECT PEOPLE.
YOU CANNOT TREAT PEOPLE LIKE GARBAGE AND WORSHIP GOD AT THE SAME TIME.
THAT’S BOTH DOUBLE STANDARDS & FAKEFUCKERY.
Be truthful & real.
If you have little time to make someone smile, do it.
Buy a loaf of bread for a homeless person or crack a dick joke to a sad friend, both will help you score some good Karma for your trip to heaven when you leave this planet.
If you think heaven is hoax, join hands with such people who will help you experience heaven on earth.
Kindness towards the people who deserve is the easiest step towards your spiritual journey.

Tap..✌️

Tru2Day926

You weren’t placed on this earth to just pay bills and die.
Be kind, truthful & remain consistent.
Be the reason someone feels welcomed, seen, heard, valued, loved and supported.
Touch & change some lives.
People must remember your soul is/was clean & caring.

(Not my words).

True me.. Tap-823..

Sometimes my white friends want to know to whom i am saying “RAM RAM” over phone instead of starting a conversation with a simple HELLO!!
Today is the right day to answer this.
This has something to do with my values, upbringing, religion, morals, childhood & my grandpa’s bedtime stories because my both parents were working.
I am not a strong believer in religion the way people portray now a days. But i believe in your beliefs.
I believe there’s GOD, a positive divine power guiding us from somewhere.
If you are productive, truthful, consistent with what you do from a clean heart, kind or humble towards other human, all of these acts are filled with godly goodness.
I am born Hindu, and i believe i am a practicing Hindu.
My religion teaches there are multiple forms of GOD, and there are multiple pathways to heaven, so all religions must be treated with equal amounts of respect & acceptance.

Let’s get back to my answer.
Before some thousands of years there used to be a King named “Lord Ram”, incarnation of god significant to Hinduism. Some circumstances forced him to stay away from his family & palace. He lived in forest for 14 years like a normal human leaving his royalty aside. During those 14 years, he fought some demons, saved his wife & kingdom after killing a 10 headed monster named Ravan. Those 10 heads represent lust, anger, delusion, greed, pride, envy, mind, intellect, will and the ego. Ravan is the example how certain negative traits can downsize good qualities & the world remembers him as a MONSTER today. Today is the date “LORD RAM” killed Ravan & “godess DURGA” killed mahishasur, this day symbolises victory of good over evil & we celebrate it as DUSSEHRA.
HAPPY DUSSEHRA TO EVERYONE WHETHER YOU ARE CELEBRATING OR NOT.

After killing Ravan, Lord Ram returned back to rule his kingdom. Under his kingdom, there was no place for any criminal or derogatory behaviour. He established a standard for men to be truthful, faithful, kind, loyal & brave. Till the day he ruled, every human being enjoyed equal amounts of respect & happiness.
So when a Hindu says “RAM RAM”, Ram is the goodness/god inside you/your soul. One Ram is for you & other one for me.
The meaning behind it is;
“WE ARE EXCHANGING EQUAL AMOUNTS OF RESPECT AS HUMANS WITH A HOPE TO SEE A WORLD LIKE LORD RAM’S KINGDOM WHERE EVERYONE IS HAPPY & TREATED EQUALLY”.

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Tru2Day887

A person’s CHARACTER is not about how they come to your life or how long did they stay!! It’s about how consistent & truthful they are or how they leave.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. But it’s a good dose of knowledge & entertainment. Allow yourself to grasp this 10 minute YouTube video, you will have a clear idea about money, passion, relationship & so much more.)

True me.. Tap-777..

Staying in a relationship just because you love somebody is not worth it.
Love is not all you need.
Respect is what you need.
Reassurance is what you need.
Communication is what you need.
Heart to heart conversation is what you need.
Happiness is what you need.
Knowing everyday you’re their favorite person is what you need.
Learn to love yourself first, let other one match it.

When someone not so familiar asks me “Ever been in LOVE!?!”.
My answer is: Yeah 3 times.

1. When i woke up at 5.45am today morning just wearing a trunk & i saw my 5 pack abs.
2. When i was getting ready for university, because now i am a PhD research scholar.
3. When i received my bank balance text after buying groceries at Lidl.
I fall in love with myself 3 times everyday.

Two exceptions i must mention;
1. When a kid accidentally says my name TAP after i touch his/her nose while saying TAP TAP TAP.
2. When a cute eastern european girl or a slavic angel with a fine 🍑 approaches me near a beach, can’t beat that one.
Special mention; also when my bestie bitch makes coffee for me when i am working from home at her house. This one is dedicated for you Demi.
Done.

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Tru2Day870

True friends aren’t the ones who make your problems disappear.
They are the ones who won’t disappear when you’re facing problems.

(These next few lines got nothing to do with the post above. It’s for my best friend, she might be reading this when i am back to my city.
Once i was on a work trip to a new place & my bestie DEMI decided to join. We planned to chill at nearby beach after my client meet was over. Suddenly it started raining.
I asked her; “it’s not a good weather, do you still wanna go to the beach?”.
She replied; “I didn’t fly here to check good weather. I came for good vibes. You & me teasing tickling fighting hugging each other, fuck weather”.
No matter she is sitting on my lap or i am in a different continent, that good vibe never fell short. There’s nothing more beautiful than a time-tested truthful consistent person.)

True me.. Tap-767..

We’ve been infected with this idea that LOVE is an emotion only felt between two people.
But love is universal.
It’s an energy,
a contagious force,
a beautiful gift.

To offer money to a homeless man is to love.
To smile at a stranger is love.
To be grateful,
to be hopeful,
to be consistent,
to be faithful,
to be truthful,
to be considerate,
to be brave,
to be forgiving,
to be proud of yourself,
is also to LOVE.

First have a lust towards a beautiful life.
I am talking about your OWN LIFE.
Never obsess about chasing love.
Chase goals.
Chase dreams.
Chase the behaviors that are going to make you better.

You don’t chase love;
you allow that to find you by accident,
and when it finds you by accident,
you’ll know that is was supposed to find you PURPOSEFULLY.

(This paragraph got nothing to do with the post above. It’s my movie review for FREEGUY. Watched in ODEON IMAX, the movie & experience both were amazing. One of the best movie theater i visited so far. Friends said, it’s a great one time watch, but i will definitely watch it again. Don’t miss it. My friends also suggested it’s even better in 4DX 3D. The only part i didn’t like was my bestie DEMI ate 4 chocolate cupcakes, a litre of cold drinks & a whole large tub of popcorn like a hungry pig. I must agree, most girls who look good are some kinda sorcerers. It’s impossible to look fly while eating that much amount of garbage.)

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True me.. Tap-687..

Don’t break a bird’s wings and then tell it to fly.
Don’t break a heart and then tell it to love.
Don’t break a soul and then tell it to be happy.
Don’t see the worst in a person and expect them to see the best in you.
Don’t judge people and expect them to stand by your side.
Don’t play with fire and expect to stay perfectly safe.

Life is about giving and taking.
You cannot expect to give bad and receive good.
You cannot expect to give good and receive bad.
Does it happen?
Yes, but don’t make that an excuse for you to keep doing what you know is wrong.
Don’t blame life for what you do.
That is so selfish and ignorant on your behalf.
(Not my words)


Be a legit truthful consistent you for yourself.

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True me.. Tap-650..

6 Simple ways to be an attractive human-being;

1. Embrace your uniqueness & Embrace the possibilities of tomorrow.

2. Be positive & Drop the need to always be right.

3. Be truthful first, next be loyal & honest.

4. Believe in your dreams & believe in yourself.

5. Stop the gossip and superficial judgments.

6. Lift others up. Spreading good vibes are the easiest way to earn good KARMA.

Tap OUT..🤗