Tag: understand

True me.. Tap-1335..

When you plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don’t blame the lettuce.
You look for reasons it is not doing well.
It may need fertilizer, or more water, or less sun.
You never blame the lettuce.

Yet, if we have problems with our friends or family, we blame the other person.
But if we know how to take care of them, they will grow well, like the lettuce.
Blaming has no positive effect at all, nor does trying to persuade using reason and argument.
That is my experience.

No blame, no reasoning, no argument, just understanding.
If you understand, and you show that you understand, you can love, and the situation will change.
(Not my words.)

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True me.. Tap-1268..

I am slowly learning how to just be in this moment.
How to survive.
How to exist.
How to live.
How to thrive.
How to understand that I cannot control life.
How to understand that I can only experience life in both it’s light and it’s dark stages.
I am slowly learning how to laugh and cry and feel through it all.
I am learning how to welcome the confusion and the joy that come with loving and living and breaking.

I am slowly learning how to accept where I am.
I am slowly learning how to simply believe in what I am becoming.
I am becoming a better version of myself, and that journey is just AMAZING.

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True me.. Tap-1260..

Sometimes it’s better to just let things be.
Let people go.
Don’t fight for closure.
Don’t ask for explanations.
Don’t chase answers.
Don’t expect people to understand where you’re coming from.

You got to keep fighting for you because no one got you like you got yourself.

(This music video got nothing to do with the post above. I watched Avatar during my engineering school days before a decade+ time. Watched Avatar: The way of water last week. This movie deserves to be experienced in IMAX 3D. And this music by The weekend is even more amazing than anything he produced before.)

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True me.. Tap-1241..

Stay true to yourself.
Do your own thing and don’t worry about what people say.
It might not make sense to them.
But that’s ok.

Don’t expect everyone to understand you.
They don’t have to.
It’s between you, your higher self and your almighty.
So keep going.
Be you.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Shared it because it’s the best ever stand-off. Big fan of Key & Peele. Watch it.)

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True me.. Tap-1240..

Understand this:

You can sound confident and have anxiety.
You can look healthy but feel like shit.
You can look happy and be miserable inside.
You can be good looking and feel ugly.

So be kind.
Because every person is fighting a battle you know nothing about.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Stephen Lang looks amazing for his age, yoga can be an amazing addition. I am not at all a yoga person. My workout includes weights & running, that’s all. And it’s true: GOAL OF FITNESS IS QUALITY OF LIFE.)

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True me.. Tap-1218..

Stop worrying about other people understanding you.
Get in touch with yourself instead.
Focus on what makes you happy, what makes your soul feel at peace.
You are your biggest commitment.
So start loving your flaws, your awkwardness, your weirdness, your intensity, your vulnerability, your everything.

Life becomes so much more fulfilling when you are just simply yourself.
The world keeps spinning whether people understand you or not.
So why not make this next trip around the sun about you!
BE YOU.

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Tru2Day1318

I think the biggest communication problem is we do not listen to understand.
We listen to reply or retaliate, that’s the starting point of downfall in every beautiful equation.

LISTEN TO UNDERSTAND.

True me.. Tap-1183..

You’ve got to ask yourself what you’re living for, who you’re living for, and if none of those answers begin with you then you’re living your life wrong.
You’re living a lie.
Everything you do should revolve around you.
Every person, every place, ever moment should start and end with you.

This is your life and you shouldn’t spend it on dull things, in people who don’t understand the type of love you carry within your bones.
Because you only live once and it’s your job to make it count.
So let every day be yours, own it and never apologize for being who you are.

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True me.. Tap-1175..

Constantly analyze yourself.
Figure out why certain things upset you.
Question your own motives.
Understand your behavior.
This creates a pathway for change.

Acknowledging why you do the things you do is the first step in shifting out of toxic patterns.

BE TRUE TO YOURSELF FIRST.
BE REAL & BE A HAPPENING AUTHENTIC VERSION OF YOURSELF.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. West blames Russia on invading a democratic European nation. Russia sites own reasons that may or may not seem reasonable to most people. I am not in support of both. This war displaced some 7 million people, we all must know the latest changes in map after the referendum.)

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Tru2Day1264

Constantly analyze yourself.
Figure out why certain things upset you.
Question your own motives.
Understand your behavior.
This creates a pathway for change.
Acknowledging why you do the things you do is the first step in shifting out of toxic patterns.