Tag: 2019

6 Signs you aren’t in LOVE!!

Love means, we constantly improve communication & consistency, practice patience. It also means just leave when things aren’t equal anymore.

6 signs you aren’t in LOVE:

1. You moved things fast with your partner.
Infatuations thrive on speed, while LOVE takes time to develop. Infatuations live in illusion. Love can survive reality. When you quickly jump into a relationship with someone, you base it off your dreams more than whose really in front of you. Common examples are; thinking about a future with them, lusting after some legit emotions or obsessing about them for anything in your head. All of these are done after months and years of knowing them, that you just slipped/skipped.

2. You expect them to be flawless.
And you get angry or upset over them when you see their true colours. Do you believe in soulmates or fate? It sounds good in theory. But we all know infatuations also need perfection to survive. We need our partners to be consistently well dressed, good with their words or impressive with their accomplishments, meantime you are not giving them space to be honest. Love on the other hand is grounded. When you love someone, you accept their imperfections, you work through the bad and enjoy the good together.

3. You are not comfortable enough around them. Who hasn’t felt self-conscious about saying the wrong thing or making bad decisions/impressions? But when you truly fall in love with someone, that’s when you can let loose and stop caring so much. Those who have a strong sense of love and belonging are more open to vulnerability. Whereas those who feel disconnected with their partners consistently build their walls up. When you don’t share your emotions and struggles nor secrets with someone, you haven’t fully loved.

4. You become more distant.
It’s normal for passion to intensify initially only to taper off, which isn’t gonna help you into a steady relationship. But two people in love will still want to be around each other frequently. That’s another reason people in love plan a life together equally over indulging in rest activities. If you find yourself wanting to get away from your partner more and more these days, often because you’d rather go hang out with your friends or family or cat/dog, then something’s up.

5. Your mind is elsewhere.
With mind soon your heart also follows the same route. Partners who are in love tend to maintain a focus on their counterparts. When you notice the little things about them or express concerns when the two of you run into conflict, it shows you care for them. If you avoid those tough conversations or slip away from arguments, you also stop emphasizing their importance in your life.

6. You developed anxiety.
Have you been experiencing digestive problems or have trouble sleeping/over sleeping? Anxiety can show in this bodily disfunction. You might have something you need to get off your chest and dread how to break the news off to your partner. Remember you can only run away from the truth for so long before it catches upto you.

Forcing LOVE when it’s absent will only hurt the two of you. Both of you deserve to find love elsewhere if it can’t be found in your relationship.
Where do you think you stand on your feelings? Dig deeper, learn yourself with little Truth and self evaluation.

Tru2Day110

Who denied!! I too lie in only one situation!
And after lying, I say it openly to everyone I lied at which place on what issue/purpose! Sometimes I publish about it in my Instagram stories or blog post. It’s either related to work or Business, I have to manage certain situations because my bed stops me from getting up!!😜

Congratulations Brother..

I love my friends. One reason, our trust is deeper than the word DEEP. Yes, we are a family. Congratulations brother, I don’t know the happiness of being a dad . But, I love it when friends find happiness within family or in expending their family.
A big welcome to Egan from Tap.💪

Love & Lie can’t coexist!!

Liars can’t LOVE.
The moment a lie comes out of your mouth, that lie was already seeded in your heart way way before. You planned it. I just feel pity over such insects. Lie/deception/cheating/betrayal, these are not mandatory. You picked that path. You choose it.

Now the consequences are; forget others, even you lost trust in yourself. YES people will not believe in you even if you bark/scream truth someday. No-one wants to deal with a negative mindset individual who has zero credibility with own words. There are some people who talk a lot and do a little less, I mean “Words to Action ratio is bit messed”. But with liars, even their words are utter garbage. They don’t know what they are saying for what, because they are micromanaging a situation in their head just for that while. They have zero intentions towards making anything happen what they say!! They totally feel like “they are successfully fooling the other side”. They forget that “you don’t play the same move twice”, the patterns are already out and the other side isn’t giving a shit.

With lie, you can’t love. Some people just say those 3 words because they are habituated to or they are fond of it. Doesn’t matter it’s you or your partner; once there is a lie, that LOVE is not clean or true. Never expect a liar to LOVE you truly. They failed even before they started.

True me.. Tap-90..

Life in short:
Set goals. Smash it. Make money, make more of it. Shop. Travel. Eat. Save. Invest. Buy a house. Woo an angel/bitch as good/bad as you, fall in love till emotions lurk both, ram her each moment till your name echos back to your ear, try to be little gentle at some point & make that house a home together.

Tap OUT..😜

Sun enters LEO..23/July/2019

A quick energy update after sun enters Leo, take it like a post eclipse reading looking at planetary placements. Readings for all zodiac till August midweek.

1. Earth Signs (Taurus/Virgo/Capricorn):

Focus on your finances. Being an earth element individual, you are too much concerned about future & stability during this season. Understand your needs & demands, take actions accordingly. People who are single and looking for suggestions related to relationship tips; “First get rid of your cheap ass Hugh Hefner player ways. No-one is showing interest in it anymore. Your relationships have written Three is the company all over it, from both sides. You and your partner, both are putting up a cheap show which has gone bitter way back. LOVE needs to flow from both sides, it’s not going in right direction because intentions are not right. So NO real commitment/communication & stop wasting each other’s time. It’s your time for some self examination and re-evaluation.”

2: Fire Signs (Aries/Leo/Sagittarius):

It’s right time for all fire signs to switch to new jobs, new locations, new apartment, new business, new entrepreneurship endeavours, maybe new migration process. You can take risks and it’s gonna give you good outcome. Money looks good till October, plan life accordingly. Now relationship related advice for singles and couples both; “I am not gonna give suggestions with shit skittles and poop gum drops. Yes past was nasty and shitty, get over those memories or get over that person as you prefer. You can’t start something new with a big elephant in the room. An amazing opportunity is on your way to get rid of that Karmic wheel before August 2nd week. Your love life is ascending to a much better harmonious state. To all Leo ladies and Aries men who are juggling two three folks during this time, you are either gonna get caught red handed or off guard. Money maybe involved too. Mark my words, sort your shit quickly.”

3: Water Signs (Cancer/Scorpio/Pisces):

Focus on your coins. You are already connected to the one you want to be with, chances are there to take it to next level. First plan your own life, next approach your counterpart with a genuine offer. You water sign people are all about emotions and romanticism, don’t sideline self-growth. Most of you have an amazing 2019-20 ahead. You don’t need to thank anyone for it. It’s power of your manifestation and calm approach towards life. I don’t think you need extra suggestions related to relationships, your finances are strongly connected to your LOVE life. Work on both.

4: Air Signs (Gemini/Libra/Aquarius):

Stop being in your head for a while. Bark or speak what you want. Doesn’t matter it’s love or workplace. So many of you are awaiting for salary raise or busy with work where there is not much growth. I don’t need to tell you how much happiness is important in life. Take a day off and visit nearby park or forest. Walk barefoot on some green grass for rejuvenation. Life is easy, stop cluttering it too much with unnecessary thoughts and feelings. Advice for singles and couples: “You are already in a happy relationship. Just stay away from love triangles during this time period, if you are paired opposite to any Earth/Fire element person. Be a true you. Done.”

These are no suggestions. These are the energy you will be going through or facing in coming one month. Stay positive and be true, nothing bad will touch you. I hope it helps.

At the end: Happy birthday to all Leo men & women. (Birth date: 23 July – 22 August) Leo is a fixed zodiac under Fire element. You are the kings and queens in real life too. Keep slaying, keep rising up. Respect is manna.