I’ve reached a point in my life where people’s words or actions mean close to nothing.
If I don’t see a consistent behaviour, it ain’t true.
The end.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Rude Buddha, one of my favourite sketches from SNL. This video is 8 years old, there’s Karen, Nirvana spelled wrong as Nivrana & 11ish in it.)
It is important to know who you are, what you stand for and how you want to see yourself.
You have your whole life for you, and you determine what you do with it and how you will experience your journey.
There is no one who can tell you who you are, because you decide for yourself.
You make your own choices, you choose your own direction and you determine your own steps.
Think about who you are, think about how you position yourself against others.
Think of your qualities and your intentions.
See yourself as the person you want to be, without thinking about your status, your score, your ability or the people around you.
Nothing or nobody should affect who you are as a person, who you are in terms of thinking, who you are in your actions.
The life you have for you is your chance to follow your dreams, to discover, to develop and to enjoy yourself.
Imagine a life in which you are completely yourself, in which you fulfill your dreams.
Live your life. Life is fun, let it be.
Tap OUT..✌️
I’ve seen busy people make time.
I’ve seen bad communicators communicate well.
I’ve seen bad texters respond quickly and write paragraphs.
I’ve seen people who “aren’t ready for a relationship” get ready in few conversations.
I’ve seen a girl proposing me in front of 24 friends to marry her ASAP on my birthday, who used to say “I DON’T NEED A MAN TO BE HAPPY” since 7 years.
(Hello Lioness😜).
A healthy adult relationship is one where both people in the relationship give and both receive.
There is a safe, equal and open exchange of ideas, communication, feelings, and thoughts and all perspectives are considered and valued.
There is also the freedom to respectfully challenge, heal, confront, and strengthen one another.
At the end what matters is a TRUTHFUL CONSISTENT person who gets you, no matter what’s coming.
If someone wants you, you won’t have to ask for effort.
Tap OUT..♌
One of my favourite feelings is laughing with someone and realizing half way trough how much you enjoy them and their existence.
Things are expected of you of your whole life, you are expected to make career, that you score well and have achieved a certain status.
But life is not about status and work.
These are extras.
What matters is that you can develop as a person.
That you simply learn, discover and enjoy your journey.
So instead of worrying about the numbers and status, you have to enjoy the journey and the small moments that can mean so much more.
I don’t want to be around people anymore that judge or talk about what people do.
I want to be around people that do things.
I want to be around people who believe in slow & steady progress.
I want to be with people who gradually grow a rich character and a bank account.
I want to be around people who remain consistent with their words, approach, intentions & journey of life.
I want to be around people that dream and support and do things.
Supportive people bond long-term with growth mindset.
Oppertunist comes to score petty short-term goals, it takes time but you will get rid of them today or tomorrow. (Not my words.)
Tap OUT..✌️
You can’t skip chapters, that’s not how life works.
You have to read every line, meet every character.
You won’t enjoy all of it.
Hell, some chapters will make you cry for weeks.
You will read things you don’t want to read, you will have moments when you don’t want the pages to end.
But you have to keep going.
Stories keep the world revolving.
Live your story, don’t miss out.
Now this paragraph is for my close friends.
The question is; “Was i angry on Frank?”
Answer is: No, i laughed at his tiny mind in November-2019.
I was applying for PhD research scholar positions in Berlin. New city for me, Frank took me & few friends to an EXOTIC CAR MEET-UP, that too in a Dacia Duster. Not judging the car, any Dacia or VW is a good daily driver. But, I was laughing at the idea of going to an EXOTIC CAR MEET-UP in a DACIA DUSTER.😂
(No matter how much i praise a Tesla, i am a petrolhead by heart. I am a sucker for all AMG & BMW M-series cars, manual rear wheel drive please.)
Tap OUT..✌️
Acceptance helps to love yourself.
You might not love all aspects of yourself right now but you can learn to accept it.
Accept your flaws.
Accept the positives and negative aspects of your story.
Accept the parts of you that are deemed unacceptable by society.
Self acceptance is the starting point to attain self love.
Eleven meaningful truths/lessons on life:
1. Average human life is relatively short.
2. You will only ever live the life you create for yourself.
3. Being busy doesn’t mean being productive.
4. Some kind of failure always occurs before success. And both success & failure can be equally amazing.
5. Actions without intentions are like walking without using legs, doesn’t make sense.
6. You don’t have to wait for an apology to forgive other people. There’s a tendency of CHEAP, it keeps getting CHEAPER with time.
7. Some people are simply the wrong match for you. Keep checking who’s coming for good time & who’s coming with good energy!!
8. It’s not other people’s job to LOVE you; it’s yours.
9. What you own is not who YOU are, it’s about how you purpose what you have.
10. Everything changes for the better.
11. Forever takes forever to build & behold. (Not my words).
Never regret being a good person to the wrong people.
Your behavior says everything about you,
and their behavior says enough about them.
– Marc & Angel.
Tap OUT..✌️
Consider becoming the type of energy that no matter where you go, or where you are, you always add value to the spaces and lives of those around you.
ALWAYS VIBE A TRUE YOU.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I deleted my Facebook account in 2011 & I have my own reasons to hate Facebook. See this tiny 3 minutes video, this guy makes whole lot sense.)
You do not have to deal with:
People who are critical.
People who reject you.
People who are inconsistent.
People who are abusive.
People who retaliate.
People who downplay your achievements.
People who secretly want your life.
People who refuse to improve.
Stop wasting your time dealing with toxic, inconsistent, negative, energy-draining people.
Some people are wired for negativity.
They love retaliation, being argumentative, combative and abusive.
Let others talk about you or against you, doesn’t matter good or bad.
Your job is to protect your peace.
Keep walking towards a truthful consistent life.
Tap OUT..✌️
Some people think;
ADVENTURE is dangerous,
DISCIPLINE is brutal,
TRUTH is lethal,
LOVE is hard,
& LIFE isn’t moving.
These are all low-key narcissistic inconsistent personality traits which brings severe unhappiness to life.
And all you gotta do is; stay away from those who think like this.
ADVENTURE brings joy.
DISCIPLINE teaches you to be consistent.
TRUTH is core of basic human values.
LOVE is beautiful.
& LIFE is fun.
You have to carry this attitude forward in life.
Remain consistent with the way you are.
That helps you to be in sync with life.
Hangout with those who reflect & second your thoughts.
A happy person is not a person who’s always in a good situation, but rather a person who always has a good attitude in every situation.
VIBE WITH YOUR TRIBE.
Tap OUT..✌️
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