Every single day has a sunrise and a sunset. It must consist of a particular amount of hours in light and some in darkness. Similarly, your life must go through it’s own sunrises and sunsets, its own periods of light and darkness. As we see in nature, in some seasons, the darkness will far outweigh the light, and in others the light will predominate the darkness. Have faith in your life and it’s seasons, and know that just like the periods of light will not permanently prevail, neither will the periods of darkness.
The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it. It’s our fear of the dark that casts our joy into the shadows. -Brene Brown.
Stop comparing where you’re at with where everyone else is. It doesn’t move you farther ahead, improve your situation, or help you find peace. It just feeds your shame, fuels your feelings of inadequacy, and ultimately it keeps you stuck. The reality is that, there is no one on correct path in life. Everyone has their own unique journey. A path that’s right for someone else won’t necessarily be a path that’s right for you. And that’s okay.
Your journey isn’t right or wrong, or good or bad. It’s just different. Your life isn’t meant to look like anyone else’s because you aren’t like anyone else. You’re a person with all your own with a unique set of goals, obstacles, dreams, and needs.
So stop comparing, and start living. You may not have ended up where you intended to go. But trust, for once, that you have ended up where you needed to be. Trust that you are in the right place at the right time. Trust that your life is enough. Trust that you are enough. Enjoy the ride. Life is fun. Let it be.
If your relationship to the present moment is not right, nothing can ever be right in the future. Because when the future comes, it’s the present moment.
– Eckhart Tolle.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. During Syria & Yemen crisis, EU absorbed almost half million refugees/migrants. Current data shows almost 160,000 of those have just gone missing/out of records. Nobody knows whether they are dead, turned into angels or terrorists. I guess it’s right time to take a strong stance against illegal migration at every part of the world. Corona virus cases are going high once again & winter is around, no one is ready for more bullshit.)
Nobody’s going to do your life for you. You have to do it yourself, whether you’re rich or poor, out of money or raking it in, the beneficiary of ridiculous fortune or terrible injustice. And you have to do it no matter what is true. No matter what is hard. No matter what unjust, sad, sucky things have befallen you. Self pity is a dead-end road. You make the choice to drive down it. It’s up to you to decide to stay parked there or to turn around and drive out.
LIFE ITSELF IS A PRIVILEGE. BUT TO LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST, WELL THAT IS A CHOICE. (Not my words).
Be happy on purpose. Look for the rainbow when it’s raining. Find the hope even when it’s bleak. Choose forgiveness even when bitterness is easier. Choose love even when it feels impossible. Make it a habit to choose joy as much as you possibly can because life isn’t meant to be lived in disappointment or frustration. It’s not meant to be lived in hatred. It’s meant to be lived laughing so hard your stomach hurts. It’s meant to be filled with soft moments of love. It’s meant to be filled with tight hugs that last for minutes. Life is meant to be lived happy.
Next few lines about this word “HAPPY”. Only my 17 close friends know why sometimes i ask “Are you happy?” during our weekend meets. Good people, good communication & good vibes are always welcome with a HAPPY heart. (Pizzeria & Diwali, Thanks to all those who joined for a tiny celebration.)
Some people love you. Some people love to be around you. Some love what you can do for them. Understand the difference.
Learn the difference between connection and attachment. One brings consistency, the other is fakefuckery. One gives you power, the other sucks the life out of you.
I’m in that chapter of my life where GOD is making me STRONGER, which makes me HAPPY.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. But it’s my blog & it’s my opinion, i have to share what comes from my head or heart. The outcome with religious conversions is always something like this. Today i will not say “how a so-called religion of peace is becoming a major source of radicalism”, that topic some other day. RELIGION in general should teach you a way of living life peacefully, first it must make you a better HUMAN.)
IF SOMEONE asks, “Has the best moment of your life arrived yet?”
We may say that it will come very soon. But if we continue to live in the same way, it may never arrive. We have to transform this moment into the most wonderful moment, and we can do that by stoping, stopping running to the future, stopping worrying about the past, stopping accumulating so much.
You are a free person; you are alive. Open your eyes and enjoy the sunshine, the beautiful sky, ocean, nature, animals and the wonderful children around you. Breathing in and out consciously helps you become your best, calm, fresh, solid, clear, and free, able to enjoy the present moment as the best moment of your life.
Every Moment is different. No Moment stays forever. That is not scary or sad. That’s the beauty of it all. (Not my words).
(Post is over. This paragraph is about me. That WONDERFUL CHILDREN written above caught my attention after i scheduled this post. My heart goes weak towards babies, puppies & horses. Babies sooth my soul. Puppies/dogs make me a marathon runner every morning or evening. And horses are oversized puppies in my eyes. My friends say i am a kind human. I think my kindness is more of a fatherly instinct, there’s a huge provider mentality dad lives insides me who just wants to pamper kids, spoil his family & pet pets. And yes i am single & someday i want few dozen babies+puppies.😂)
The people who are meant to be in your life are the ones who know how to gently wait for you to heal. You do not want to rush actions with them. For if you do, you will miss the lessons you can learn along the way.
-WRITING ON WAVES.
(Video by Alux & the title is; Being well when you are alone is a SUPERPOWER.)
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