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Relationships between family, friends, significant others, and colleagues are complicated and full of learning experiences.
Nobody comes into this world knowing everything.
We all go through different experiences, make mistakes, have successes, and then make more mistakes that we can learn from.
The ability to trust and listen to the people in your life is the foundation all healthy relationships are built on.

While talking to friends, make sure you are really listening to what they have to say and aren’t distracted by something else.
You owe that to them and you would want the same in return.
Trust is a bond between two people that is found only when they are able to listen and understand where the other person is coming from.
That to me is the only key to friendships and relationships.

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HOW TO BECOME A BETTER YOU EVERY DAY:

1. Become more observant.
Notice everything that surrounds you.
The world is full of examples, ideas, words, wisdom, mistakes and experiences.

2. Collect ideas.
Ideas and thoughts tend to evaporate from your mind too fast.
Try to capture them before it is too late.
Ideally, write down or sketch every single one.

3. Read. Read a lot.
Reading is probably the best investment of time ever.
Devote at least 30 minutes per day to reading.
Ideally, have a book always with you.
If you aren’t interested to buy a book or Kindle, then watch any free documentary in YouTube which can help you learn something new.

4. Analyze your day.
Before going to bed, spend 10 minutes analyzing your day.
Consider what things you managed to do well and what mistakes you made.

5. Start writing.
The biggest value of a good writing skill is that it cultivates a discipline.
First of all, the discipline of thinking.
Your thoughts will cease to be random and chaotic.
They will gradually become systematic and structured instead.

We all made choices that maybe weren’t the best ones.
The beauty of being a HUMAN is hidden in the mistakes we made.
First accept yourself for everything wrong you did.
Because acceptance matters nothing if you aren’t honest.
None of us are completely innocent, but we get a fresh start everyday to be a better person than we were yesterday.
Learn to be a positive/better version of yourself with time.
Be you.

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What is the point in being alive if you are not going to try for something?
If you are not going to at least attempt to make your time here remarkable?
Stop holding yourself back.
Tell the person that makes your stomach ache with hope that every part of your heart is tender for them, even if you think you aren’t ready.
Don’t just fantasize about your dream job, actively pursue it, and if that door is not open, knock it down.
Dreaming about a new business, go for it & own yourself.
Got a goal? GO, Fetch it.
Buy the plane ticket,
climb a mountain,
swim to shred after an intense workout session,
surf when it’s raining,
pet your canadian warmblood horse like a sweet puppy,
surprise your mates & university bitches with some butt naked snapchat streaks on a beach,
let your friends tease you “Aquaman minus SUPERPOWERS”,
jump the fence,
kiss an angel,
makeout in the middle of a concert,
full throttle that AMG to 150mph cruising through Autobahn while touring cross-country with your bestfriend.

Make sure that you don’t allow your fear to hold you back.
Instead, look your fear in the face and invite it to dinner, become it’s friend.
Live alongside it, let it make you feel alive.
Just choose impossibility.
Choose risk.
Choose making mistakes, new mistakes, and making memories, and making it up as you go.
Just choose to embrace whatever time you do have here, stay consistent on your life path, because life is finite, and fragile, and it vanishes too quickly.
Just make it worth it. Make it count. Life is fun, let it be.

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We already know that no one is perfect.
But knowing that doesn’t keep us from doing things we might feel badly about later.
Your mistakes & understanding to own them makes you unique.
But when the same mistake is repeated often; that’s a sign of inconsistency in your character, which can later birth numerous bad habits & a peculiar tendency to become a systematic liar.
Start from owning your mistakes one by one.
I’ve found in times like that it’s best to come clean and own your mistake.
People will be so much more forgiving and sympathetic when you are honest about it because they can relate.
Even better, you will inspire them to do the same thing by showing them how honest and beautiful you can be without being perfect.

Stay strong.
Tell on yourself today about something you feel badly about having done or said in the past.
We should regret our mistakes and learn from them,
but never carry them forward into the future with us.

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Despite what you may believe,
you can disappoint people and still be good enough.
You can make mistakes and still be capable and talented.
You can let people down and still be worthwhile and deserving of love.

Everyone has disappointed someone they care about.
Everyone messes up,
lets people down,
and makes mistakes.

Not because we’re inadequate or fundamentally inept,
but because we’re imperfect and fundamentally HUMAN.
Expecting anything different is setting yourself up for failure.
Also remember; committing the same mistake twice is not the sign of a healthy mind.
Keep that in mind & keep moving forward. (Not my words).

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Stopping a mother from dropping her kid to school is the worst kinda crap you can slap on someone in the name of protecting environment. Sometimes people go bit too far with these environmental protection related protests. You aren’t allowed to deteriorate normal people’s life. Insulate Britain, protest in front of government officials or government offices where words can reach the right place.)

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We assume success is about being famous, rich and owning expensive things.
But if you’ve pulled yourself out of a dark place, that’s a great success in itself.
Don’t forget that you’re winning each day you don’t give up and you make it through to the next.

Did you know that you’re achieving great things every day?
It probably doesn’t seem like it if you’re always looking ahead to the next thing.
Nevertheless, many of the things you’ve achieved today are things you dreamed about in the past.
You just don’t notice them in the moment they happen.
Or they pass you by too quickly.

Although we shouldn’t get so comfortable with our achievements that we become complacent and stop moving forwards, we should make time to celebrate them.
Otherwise you’ll look back on your life and think you didn’t do anything significant.
But if this were true, your life would always have remained the same.
Celebrate your achievements, even though they are little.

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This is your life. You’re allowed to change your mind. To change your heart. You’re allowed to be a different person. To wake up one day and not want to do the things you’ve been doing all your life. You’re allowed to love who you want. To move on from the people who are not good to you. To let go of anyone without any kind of explanation & without any kind of regret. You’re allowed to make mistakes. To learn from them or not to learn from them and experience everything all over again. You’re allowed to forget your past if you want to or to stay in it, but you must also understand that this is not how you will grow. You’re allowed to change careers. To dress differently. To chase different dreams. To change locations, even if, at first, you’re terrified to do so. You’re allowed to dislike yourself but also allowed to change those same parts you don’t see eye to eye with. To work on them until you’re completely comfortable with who you are.

This is your life. Make it count. Make your own validation. Your own path. Your own way of life. You are enough. And you are not broken. You’re a lot stronger than you want to believe. Now breathe. Be you.
(Not my words)

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Watch it for some lighthearted fun. I am a big fan of Key & Peele, said it before too i guess.)

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