Authenticity is what you need.

Majority of people lack authenticity. They don’t have own ideas, own values, own morals & own plans to succeed in life. And those are the most dangerous people to be around.
If someone has a better idea, they try to piggyback on that. High chances they both fail, later they blame each other or some third person/circumstance for their failure. This happens with career, relationships, businesses & also in investment ventures. 

You must avoid such people.
There’s nothing to learn from playbook of a story which is heading towards a disaster.

If you want to learn something or if you are looking for an inspiration, reach out to those who know what they have already built & who are in your reach.

Let me put myself as an example here;
As a senior fintech data analytics professional, I can talk about any bank/company/country which is heading towards growth or a downfall.
My job is to play & work with data.
Because I know the data, I make right decisions before investments.
I have a huge interest in fitness, diet, farming & chemistry of how hormones work in both genders for optimal health.
My ideas/authenticity stops there. 

I am aware of everything with ample amounts of information because I watch a lot of documentaries & I read a lot of news, but i am not the guy to give suggestions. I don’t give ideas/suggestions on what I haven’t built. Now if someone will ask me about arts, my opinions/ideas are useless there. And i openly accept i am not good at many more such things in life. 

The moment you accept your lacuna, you have the wiggle room to work for your growth.
Fetch that growth your mind tells you authentically, your goals/dreams/desires are connected to that & stop piggybacking on other people’s ideas/opinions.

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True me.. Tap-1837..

Life is a choice.
Choose to make changes, not excuses.
Choose to be motivated, not manipulated by fear.
Choose to be better, not bitter.
Choose self-love, not self-pity.

Choose to listen to your inner voice, not the random opinions of others.
Choose to live by choice and not by chance.

Tap..✌️

Tru2Day1858

The secret to self-confidence isn’t to stop caring what people think.
It’s to start caring about what you think.
It’s to make your opinion of you more important than anyone else’s.

Tru2Day1685

You don’t need to have an opinion about everything.
Don’t get worked up about things you can’t control.
These things didn’t ask for your attention.
Leave them alone.

– MARCUS AURELIUS.

True me.. Tap-1336..

12 things to always remember;

1. The past can’t be changed.
2. Opinions don’t define your reality.
3. Everyone’s journey is different.
4. Judgements are not about you.
5. Overthinking will lead to sadness.
6. Happiness is found within.
7. Your thoughts affect your mood.
8. Smiles are contagious.
9. Kindness is free.
10. It’s okay to let go and move on.
11. What goes around, comes around.
12. Things always get better with time.

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day1428

Life is based on perception.
Perception is based on opinion.
Opinion is based on thought.
Thought comes from the mind.
Change your mind, change your life.

True me.. Tap-1285..

12 key defining changes you can make to your life;

1. Protect your vibe.
2. Be an authentic version of yourself.
3. Avoid gossip and drama.
4. Let go of things you can’t control.
5. Avoid comparing yourself to others.
6. Keep your faith larger than your fears.
7. Don’t do anything that doesn’t feel right.
8. Don’t be afraid to spend some time alone.
9. Speak kindly to yourself and to other people.
10. Please yourself before trying to please others.
11. Stay away from people who drain your energy.
12. Ignore any opinions that don’t enhance your life.

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True me.. Tap-1248..

As children, we were daring in our imagination; nothing was impossible to us as young dreamers.
We dreamt of experiencing wild and outlandish experiences in far-off lands.
We dreamt of becoming victorious heroes, genius inventors, and admired artists.
We dreamt of sharing a whimsical love story that left us breathless.
We dreamt of having a big home filled with family and friends tucked away in the forest or on top of a city sky rise.

There was nothing that our little minds didn’t imagine.
Our imagination was fearless.

However, for many, as life played out, when something didn’t work out the way we planned or envisioned, we took those unmet expectations as the sign to stop believing and give up on imagining the wild.
We took it as a token that everyone else was right; our imaginations were lofty.
Little by little, many of us trained ourselves not to trust that “anything can happen”.
We allowed time, experiences, circumstances, and people’s opinions to jade us.

But, what we believe is what we experience.

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True me.. Tap-1189..

Do what you love.
And fuck everything else.
Love who you want to love.
Love what you want to do.
And fuck other’s opinions.
Fuck their criticisms.
You deserve to live your life the way you want to live it.
Chase who you want.
Chase what you want.
Be who you want.
Dress how you want.
Speak what’s in your heart.
Worship what you believe in.
And be kind to others.
And fuck everything else.

Fuck the drama.
Fuck the pain.
Fuck the hate.
Fuck the media manipulation.
Fuck everything that’s nonsense & illogical.
Life is too short to die wishing you had done a little more.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1170..

13 Reminders:

1. The past is in the past, focus on the future.
2. Opinions do not define reality.
3. Everyone’s journey is different.
4. Time is the essence of healing.
5. Judgement is a confession of character.
6. Overthinking will lead to paralysis/sadness.
7. Happiness is an inside job, found within.
8. Positive thoughts, create positive actions.
9. Smiles are contagious.
10. Sprinkle kindness, it’s free.
11. You only fail if you quit/do not try.
12. What goes around, comes around.
13. The quicker you choose to move forward, the quicker the suffering ends.

Tap OUT..✌️