Tag: people

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I hangout with the same set of friends since past 500 years if i am right. Let me answer the reason why so!?? I already know who true friends are, so never really felt the need to have new ones. I am very cautious while living my life independently unless someone is this compatible, and by this I mean, they think the same, express the same ideas and they have the same values. Reason behind all is a flimsy world where people come to life with ulterior agendas. I have always said that i hate two kinds of people; 1-People who lie, 2-Inconsistent people.

And my observation says every inconsistent person is a low-key liar. And there is no big or small lies, every lie is a lie. Back to point 1 again, people who lie are nothing but boring. That’s the reason i have a small group of friends that i cherish like life. Liars never understand; BEING BAD IS ACCEPTABLE IF YOU ARE REAL.

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Being empathetic has some side effects as well. If you’re a genuine empath, others emotions can flip yours like switch. Have you ever had a day that was going great until it wasn’t because it was ruined by someone else’s bad day!? Imagine a day when you accomplished a lot of goodness, got positive feedback, focused on self care & feeling overall optimistic and confident. Then someone comes home, or you get a call or you meet up with a friend and their day isn’t going so well.

If you’re an empath, your own emotions immediately shift toward whatever they’re feeling, which can be disappointment, anger, worried or whatever. It’s like you lived through their day and not your own. This can make it difficult to hold space for that person as you attempt to cope with the same challenging emotions. People who can’t keep up with own emotional strides always bring negative impact to others. Learn to own yourself with time.

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Society always puts you through this idea of “You need to meet the expectations of your age group”. There are lots of people out there who judge others based on their age. These people tend to think that there are rigid milestones everyone needs to meet or that maturity level should match age appropriately. But the length of time you spent on earth doesn’t determine anything about your life.

There are no rules about where you should be, what you should have done or how you should be living. If you don’t own a house by 40, that’s okay. If you aren’t settled down by 30, that’s okay too. Your age doesn’t determine how to lead your life. But if you feel unsatisfied, you should be honest about why that is.

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(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Just shared it because we all must stay away from such stupid conspiracy theories.)

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In this world filled with liars, cheaters & deceptive people, we all encounter trust issues. One easy noticable trait of every untrustworthy person is; they struggle to empathize people. Those who lack empathy are much better at being able to deceive or hurt someone and the ability to empathize with others is something most untrustworthy people lack. An empathetic person would be hesitant to hurt someone else since they can imagine the pain their actions could cause. It acts as a barrier to hurtful behavior. If someone is capable or even comfortable with backstabbing or betraying others, they usually lack empathy. They likely won’t take responsibility for their damaging actions and don’t even know that they lack the ability to empathize.

Untrustworthy people are self-serving, they care only for themselves and can’t see past their own perspectives. Some people are even able to use empathy selectively and only when they stand to gain from it, which can make this trait even harder to spot observing how someone acts toward others, especially those they can’t benefit from will reveal their true nature. A lack of empathy is a red flag when it comes to gauging someone’s trustworthiness.

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Friends usually ask me “How you manage to stay motivated whole day!?” Never changed my answer & i never will. My answer is; MY PEOPLE & MONEY. I am a strong believer in material growth, MONEY is always a priority. Now that i have mentioned this word “PRIORITY”; the earlier you will understand your priorities, the quicker your path to happiness will start opening in a big way.

Make a goal which can keep you awake with a smile, which can make you the best worker for yourself, at the end it must make you enough tired so that you can get a cozy happy sleep like a baby. No need of motivation from someone else. In my case, i am just excited towards everything new, i read a lot, i learn a lot, i read ton of news and articles on finance or tech, most of the time i keep on learning something from skillshare. They all help me remain positive to see “WHAT’S NEXT!!”. The day you will figure out your way towards priorities & desires, that’s it. At the end i must mention; “MOTIVATION IS AN EXAGGERATED WORD. I AM JUST AN EXCITED PERSON. I WANNA SEE WHAT TOMORROW IS PLANNING TO OFFER ME. THAT EXCITED ME ALWAYS REPRESENTS AN EXCITING PERSON IN ME TO THE WORLD”.

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Confident people don’t need constant praise. Have you ever been around someone who constantly needs to hear how great they are? Well confident people are not like this. They don’t need constant praise. They know that their success does not depend on other people’s approval and they understand that no matter how well they perform, there’s always going to be somebody out there offering nothing but criticism.

Confident people also know that the kind of confident that’s dependent on praise from other people isn’t really confidence at all, it’s narcissism. Such people work for their happiness which is their purpose, that’s the reason their every action seems worthy. Confidence is sassy & confident people are always sexy in my eyes.

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