Let’s be real, sometimes people mess up big time. And when they do, it can be hard to know what to do. Should you give them a second chance? Or Should you just cut your losses and move on?
I’m here to tell you that second chances aren’t always a good idea. Sure, it’s nice to be forgiving, but majority of people don’t deserve it. Giving someone a second chance can be a form of self-sabotage. It’s like telling yourself that you’re not worth anything better.
You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness, and if someone can’t give you that, why stick around? So, the next time someone messes up, think twice before giving them another shot. It might be tough, but it’s probably for the best in the long run.
Second chances? They’re like trying to glue a broken vase back together. Sure, you can do it, but it’ll never be the same. Sometimes, it’s better to be you, do you & choose consistency over desire to fix things.
There’s a huge difference between a course correction and a second chance. Most people are kinda off track. They don’t know whether they want a quick fix for their mistake or a total reboot?
A course correction is like realizing you took a wrong turn. You adjust a little, but the overall plan is still good. It’s like hitting the wrong key on a keyboard; you backspace and keep typing.
On the other hand a second chance is more like losing your map entirely. You’re way off course and need to find a new route. It’s like deleting a whole document and starting fresh. And a second chance at same situation, high chances people damage it even further with the previous knowledge of relatability.
Do your course correction & stay on track, majority of the time second chances are a second chance at scoring another big failure.
We all go through undesirable situations in life where we either take action to change or change the way we look at the situation, at the end what we don’t want is UNHAPPINESS. Very few people understand how to respect an EQUATION. I am talking about friends. Most people think we build walls to keep others out, it’s actually to protect what’s precious within.
I am an enthusiastic optimistic outrageous extrovert person who believes in doing own life is more important over anything or anyone. People think i am SELFISH, i think i am SELF-INVESTED. Only one person who matches my level of maturity, energy & nonsensical fun is my bestfriend DEMI. Way way back i broke up from our equation. I was going through a rough patch in my life & my bestie proposed me 7 times in a row within 2 months. Like everyone she too thought a relationship can bring more happiness to life, which is utter bullshit. Later it took us a long time to patch things because, i don’t believe in SECOND CHANCES. Clarifying once again, I AM NOT DATING DEMI. All i can say is, we are best friends since 395 years to be precise & i cherish this blonde bitch every single day.
Everyone has a friend during each stage of life. But only blessed ones have the same friend in all stages of life.(Not my words). Happy belated birthday dumb DEMI. Almost week+ delay in posting this, but you know i adore you & hate you equally. I swear someday you will be an amazing aunt/babysitter to my future kids.🤪
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