Buy the black car, People will say you should’ve got blue.
Start a business, People will say you should’ve got a job.
Get married, People will say you picked the wrong partner.
Learn a trade, People will say you should’ve done something else.
Everyone has an opinion about everything.
You’ll go crazy trying to please everyone.
Don’t even try.
Listen, smile, agree.
And then do whatever the fuck you were gonna do anyway.
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The real glow up isn’t proving the people from your past wrong.
It is finally feeling so content and hopeful about your future that you stop thinking about them entirely.
When you want to change your life in order for it to look different, and only that, you are still orbiting around the opinions of people who didn’t love you, and didn’t have any intention to.
A real glow up is authentic.
It is lifting off all the cover-up bullshit and addressing the real problems.
It is healing.
It is changing, for good.
It is, for the first time, prioritizing your heart over someone else’s eyes.
The real glow up is realizing that you have nobody to prove wrong but yourself. (Not my words.)
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When we say “STRIVE TO BE SUCCESSFUL”, we must mention SUCCESS in what form!
In my eyes SUCCESS is an amazing form of accomplishment & it can be anything.
You are a good student, that’s a SUCCESS.
You are a good employee who loves & enjoys his/her job, that’s SUCCESS.
You are an entrepreneur or a businessman to a profitable venture, that’s a SUCCESS.
You lost 10kilo body weight in a month for shooting a music video, that’s SUCCESS.
You travelled 41 countries before turning 29, that’s SUCCESS.
You are truthful about what you are, that’s SUCCESS.
You never showed deceptive or inconsistent characteristics, that’s SUCCESS.
You are confident & consistent, that’s SUCCESS.
You never allowed bad times or bad people bring down your vibe, that’s SUCCESS.
You were patient with time to get what you wanted, that’s SUCCESS.
You baked the best sourdough pizza & sugarfree cheesecake for all your 17 friends, that’s a SUCCESS.
You know your bestfriend DEMI is a crybaby & despite that you had a long conversation about all your differences in opinion while grabbing her by waist, even that’s a SUCCESS.
SUCCESS is such a wildly overrated word that makes most people scared to even think about it.
We must use this word “SUCCESS” in our day to day life to feel more fulfilled in our way of living.
AS LONG AS YOU KEEP GOING,
YOU’LL KEEP GETTING BETTER.
AND AS YOU GET BETTER,
YOU GAIN MORE CONFIDENCE.
THAT ALONE IS SUCCESS. (Not my words.)
Consistent effort with clean intentions always leads to SUCCESS.
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Let them judge you.
Let them misunderstand you.
Let them gossip about you.
Their opinions aren’t your problems.
You stay kind, committed to love, and free in your authenticity.
No matter what they do or say, don’t you doubt your worth or the beauty of your truth.
Remain CONSISTENT & just keep shining like you always do.
Your impact on other people is bigger than you think.
Someone still giggles when they think of that funny thing you said.
Someone still smiles when they think of the compliment you gave them.
Someone silently admires you.
The advice you give has made a difference for people.
The support and love you’ve offered others has made someone’s day.
Your input and opinions have made someone think twice.
You’re not insignificant and forgotten.
Your existence makes a positive difference, whether you see it or not.
Have faith & keep striving.
(This movie trailer got nothing to do with the post above. Very rarely i talk about a movie that’s not based on animation or fantasy. This movie is based on a real life boxer turned catholic priest Father Stuart Long. Everyone gets chances to redeem their sins of life.)
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7.5 BILLION PEOPLE IN THE WORLD.
AND YOU LET THE OPINION OF ONE PERSON SLOW DOWN YOUR GOOD ENERGY?
YOU’RE BETTER THAN THAT.
BE YOU FEARLESSLY.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Watch it to know people from which career paths have highest number of sociopaths. Kinda funny, but true i guess.)
Let them judge you.
Let them misunderstand you.
Let them gossip about you.
Let them play with their garbage thoughts.
Their opinions aren’t your problems.
You stay kind, committed to love and free in your authenticity.
No matter what they do or say, don’t you dare doubt your worth or the beauty of your truth.
Just keep shining like you do.
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OPINION is really the lowest form of human knowledge.
It requires no accountability, no understanding.
The highest form of knowledge is EMPATHY, for it requires us to suspend our egos and live in another’s world.
It requires profound purpose larger than the self kind of understanding.
-Bill Bullard.
It’s so important that children feel like they can think and talk openly.
Parents and teachers are meant to inspire young people be role models to children and students.
Don’t put down their views and opinions.
Let them know their value and intelligence.
No matter your age, make sure you always inspire, nurture, and support others.
Let children read whatever they want and then talk about it with them.
If parents and kids can talk together, we won’t have as much censorship because we won’t have as much fear.
-JUDY BLUME.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. If you are someone like me who plays Assassin’s creed during weekend, you will definitely know this song. It’s actually an 17th century Irish folk song. Yes it’s little quirky & cheeky. Someday next year onwards i will sing it to my future kids like a nursery rhyme.)
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