Tag: respect

True me.. Tap-773..

I am not a superhuman. I have walked the same life path as many others. Character, Truth, Consistent approach, Loyalty, Decency & Respect are way too expensive 2021. And this world is running on a discount sale right now, result is cheap people. Those who come at you will disappoint you one way or other, period.

Inconsistency was there.
Disrespect was there.
Misunderstandings were there.
Inappropriate behaviour was there.
Lies were there.
Cheating was there.
Unacceptable bullshits were playing catch catch.
Heartbreak was there.

Good part is; all were there in past past past, my present has nothing but a beautiful life that people can only dream about.
My lesson was: have EXPECTATIONS, but only from yourself.
Always be the better person. And make your intentions pure. What and who you are is what will be remembered. Pain is inevitable and it will always exist. But if you focus on understanding what you are and what you are feeling, and why you are feeling it, you will overcome it.

The expectations we have often do not correspond with reality, we are disappointed every time this happens.
We become disappointed when we expect to be treated as we treat others.
When you start to realize that everyone is living at a different stage, thinking differently and making their choices, then you can only accept the fact that people do not share the same mind and heart.
When you want to be happy you have to let go of that and start with yourself, be the person you can be proud of, be an example, show respect and understanding.
Others may not change, but know that it is not up to you and be proud of how you are.
You’ve got so much soul to be handled by someone who has never been passionate.
EXPECTATION IS TO BE A BETTER HUMAN FIRST.

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True me.. Tap-770..

I hope you fall in love with being alive.
I hope you read books and understand that life is so much more than expecting an apologetic text from that person you won’t remember in a couple of years.
I hope you feel pursued.
I hope you have the best of friends.
And I even hope you get in trouble together.
I hope you make fun memories and take too many pictures and scream at the top of your lungs on roller coasters.
I hope you swim in the depths of the oceans.
And I hope you feel the dirt underneath your fingernails when you climb mountains.
I hope you know the joys of genuine laughter.
I hope you know the difference between wisdom and test scores.
I hope you understand that you can be anything you want to be.
I hope you also understand you have to work hard to get it.
I hope you stay consistent with your approach towards life.
I hope you do more than sit around and complain about the things that could change.
Because I hope you are the CHANGE.

I hope you journal and write every thought down.
I hope you learn how to skate.
I hope you eat your fruits and vegetables.
I hope you treat your body well.
I hope you respect your reputation.
I hope you build your IDENTITY.
But I also hope you have fun.
In fact, I hope you have unapologetic shameless kinda fun without hurting others.
Because I hope you fall in LOVE with being alive.
(Not my words).

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-759..

There is someone out there in the world that doesn’t have to be forced to fit into your puzzle called LIFE.
Do not take the risk of settling for someone if you’re uncertain of your feelings just because you want some kind of companionship.
There is someone out there who is meant for you.
Leave the door open for them to come in.
Until then: Focus on you.

Focus on pursuing your goals and give yourself the opportunity to make your dreams come true without being distracted by detours.
Surround yourself with family, loyal loved ones and successful people, that way you’ll learn how to succeed from them.
Learn to better yourself everyday by taking what they teach you and teaching what they taught you.
Be patient and keep yourself busy.
Allow love to catch up to you, but on its own time.

PATIENCE IS FUCKING GOLDEN. (Not my words).

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True me.. Tap-758..

Date her who walks you till your car.
Date her who dares to steal your hoodie in front of your face.
Date her who wants to meet your parents, and is respectful towards them.
Date her who respects your siblings and family members.
Date her who’s kind to animals, its a reflection of how she’ll treat usual people.
Date her who makes you smile.
Date her who looks confident with or without makeup.
Date her who will listen to your complain or accomplishments.
Date her who doesn’t force you to do things you don’t want to.
Date her who will come hang out and cuddle just cause she can.
Date her who loves you through the good and the bad.
Date her who has seen you angry, happy, sad, and still feels for you.
Date her who has a hunger for SUCCESS & hunger for more beyond that.
Date her who actually utilises her time to the fullest, so that she can value your TIME.
Now you know you aren’t entertaining someone boring/sluggish.

Life can easily remain exciting happy happening even in a relationship if you are dealing with a stronger individual, stronger in finance & faith.

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True me.. Tap-756..

Sometimes in life, you find a special friend.
Someone who changes your life just by being a part of it.
Someone who makes you laugh until you can’t stop.
Someone who makes you believe that there really is goodness in the world.
Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it.
This is forever friendship.

When you’re down and the world seems dark and empty,
your forever friend lifts you up in spirit and makes that dark and empty world suddenly seem bright and full.
Your forever friend gets you through the hard times,
the sad times and the confused times.
If you turn and walk away, your forever friend follows.
If you lose your way, your forever friend guides you and cheers you on.
Your forever friend holds your hand and tells you that everything is going to be okay.
And if you find such a friend,
you feel happy and complete because you need not worry.
You have a forever friend, and forever has no end.
We say BEST FRIENDS. Not my words.

(This paragraph got nothing to do with the post above. DEMI, WE ARE BEST FRIENDS SINCE PAST 530 YEARS & THAT’S NOT CHANGING TILL 2070. Because you are you, you let me be me, still we find plenty of time to spoil each other, own each other and spam each other. I love it when my people grow stronger financially. CONGRATULATIONS TO YOUR NEXT CHAPTER.)

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Tru2Day784

Loving yourself starts with liking yourself,
which starts with respecting yourself,
which starts with thinking of yourself in positive ways.

BE POSTIVE ABOUT YOURSELF FIRST.

True me.. Tap-661..

BAD NEWS IS:
You cannot make people
like,
love,
understand,
validate,
accept,
respect,
respond,
appreciate you
or
be nice to you.
You can’t control others.

GOOD NEWS IS:
Who gives a shit, it doesn’t matter.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Shared it to show my genuine hate towards Instagram & every other app/service Facebook owns.)

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True me.. Tap-660..

Everyone warns you about red flags in a relationship but nobody talks about green flags, let’s do it.

So here’s some:

1. He/she listens when you have issues and supports you through them.

2. He/she stops doing things that makes you uncomfortable.

3. He/she compromises only when it’s necessary.

4. He/she never puts you down deliberately, especially not publically.

5. He/she supports your ambitions & aids your personal growth.

6. He/she uses a calm rational tone during arguments.

7. He/she is able to apologise when they’re in the wrong.

8. He/she will hold your words respectfully in heart before holding you strong in arms.

Why should a relationship mean settling down? Wait out for someone who won’t let life escape you, who’ll challenge you and drive you towards your dreams. Someone spontaneous you can get lost in the world with. A relationship with the right person is a release, not a restriction.
-Beau Taplin/The Liberation.

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